Share something you've done recently that you are proud of! It doesn't necessarily have to be a "big" thing, small achievements matter too. ✨ 😊
The past few months, I have come off of all dating websites as it was taking control of my life and my finances. It was becoming to bad, that I had to get rid of it as it was just a spiral of negativity. I've just decided to really focus on myself and my passions, such as gaming, as that really makes me happy abd brings me joy as I've been doing it for my whole life. I'm learning that you can be happy alone and have learnt that happiness doesn't come from partners, jobs, material things but rather, it comes from within you. Many people don't understand me, but I do. So my advice here would be to stop focusing so much on relationships as they aren't essential for happiness. My happiness come from my relationships with friends, family, my hobbies, things I want to do. Always put yourself before anything else 😊
How far ahead do you like to plan? Would you say you are the sort of person who likes to go into each day with an idea of what you want to do/achieve, or do you prefer to live in the moment? ✨
Honestly, I've always been a calculated guy who likes to plan things. Even longterm. I know that plans change with times, though, and am open to whatever life throws my way. It's important to also be grounded in reality to be open to any opportunity that will pop up.
People have always said to me "Respect your elders" and "Blood is thicker than water" but that to me, is all a load of nonsense! I treat people how they treat me. So if they are friendly, easy to talk to and funny, I will be my more loud, goofy side with them. If not, then there is the door 👉🚪 and your feet work, so get out! When my time comes and I go somewhere else, I plan to cut off some said family members as they are just toxic wankers. Always been my philosophy 😂😂
Depends what kind of mood I'm in. In groups, depending on who is in that group in particular, I can be my loud, crazy self. If it is say work colleagues or sometimes family, I can be the quiet one. I mainly tend to do things on my own nowadays rather than make a lot of time for other people. My friend circles are much smaller now than they were a few years back and I actually quite like it. I am open to meeting new people, but I'm quite a chill guy and have learnt to let people come to me as it shows they actually have some interest in me.
That it is not selfish, it is absolutely necessary and nobody really knows what you are going through. The only person in the world whose opinions matters most is yours and your future is in your hands