Yes. And people use to says that boys have the power to become mentally strong in that situation but woman cant n cries alot caz woman are emotional. About me, I have seen n faced such brutal, worst situation in an early age which make me stone who have no values on tears, emotions in judgement or decision taking moment. Even boys may have soft corner in their inner mind sometimes but I don't have. Be practical. Accept the reality. Life goes on. .