How many times does a human fall in love?
Ask @spudpickle
Are you against vanilla?
nope
Screenshot of the last song you listened to. Last text you sent.
*insert polycule groupchat here*
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Does anyone know what happened to the original thetwilightsaga.com website? The site now takes you to a different website Or have any screenshots of it? It would be much appreciated if so 😊
it was passed down from whoever and became vwh which closed and was passed onto me but in my burnout i ultimately decided not to keep it even though i had 40% completion of my idea done, i just didn't want to continue to pay the funds for it while it sat there doing nothing and passed it on to someone else back in august of '21 and now i have no idea what's happening with it - maybe i'll ask but yeah domains changed and new sites were formed from its ashes✌️❤️
i want to be your friend
who is this? 👀
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I'm 99% sure I'm gay, but every now and then I get slightly attracted to my friend of the opposite sex although I know I never want to sleep with them but at the same time I wouldn't mind dating them. What does this mean? I have little to no sexual attraction to the opposite sex
the label is meant to fit you, you shouldn't bend yourself to fit the label 🏳️🌈 there will always be exceptions to the rule. this might not apply but, i think also as someone that has gone through a gender crisis you need to think about if you want to BE that person or BE WITH them 🤔 hope this helps! <3
Last mistake that you made?
drowning out other people with my excitement
How do you handle rejection?
lol i have adhd and that should say it all
Comfort food? Comfort film? Comfort record?
- egg fried rice, jazzed up instant noodles, pizza
- anything cyberpunk or apocalyptic vibe, both 911 series
- i have a playlist called repeat 21 (22 is a work in progress but not even close to that level of perfection)
- anything cyberpunk or apocalyptic vibe, both 911 series
- i have a playlist called repeat 21 (22 is a work in progress but not even close to that level of perfection)
How do you know when you have found the perfect FC?
when you almost google the characters name for new graphics instead of the person
Latest Tiktok in your likes? Drop a link!
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMNXjoNq8/?k=1
welcome to therapytok
welcome to therapytok
What is a relationship red flag for you?
lack of emotional intelligence
Drop your Discord!
depends on who you are 🤷
What’s your cooking specialty?
it fluxes between depression meals and family gatherings with many different dishes so i have more than one 😂 from different cultures
Who was the one that got away?
🤔🤔🤔
From which city are you from
not a city but a cosmopolitan seafront town that has the potential to get city status in the future as we just got approved to build a tech uni of 50 acres 👀
Please tell me the best way to quit my job. What is the best way to tell my superiors that the job is not suitable for me?
just tell them that but if you wanna be fancy say it's not compatible with you instead
Is the UK better than Ireland?
this will always awaken the generational truama and patriotism in me as an irish person but i think objectively looking at it the uk really screwed themselves over with brexit and it's only gotten worse with the price rises from the war and i feel like there's a recession on the horizon too?
What do you think about the US abortion ban?
that it's not the end. they'll come for other rights and freedoms too. contraceptives and LGBTQIA+ rights are next. it's scary for everyone involved and a sad day for american history.
Can a guy be pretty or only handsome?
both - honestly guys are sooo devoid of compliments bc of toxic masculinity that they'd accept any you give
have you tried to date someone you know online
yes
What makes you different from most people?
no much, people are pretty similar. celebrate the similarities rather than the differences 🎉
Current favourite tiktok? Link it?
Would you date yourself?
lmao no 😂 would prefer someone where we fill in each others faults
Do you love them more than they love you?
this is kinda a toxic mindset ingrained in us from society and romantised relationships in media ☠️
its rooted in possession and also a lack of communication for expectations of your relationship with others 😶
it also speaks to how you value yourself and others based on how much you/they do for others 👀
peoples value should be based on their own self-worth not how much others do for them and they do for others 🤐
some examples; if you expect something in return just because you did something nice and keep tally of it that's a red flag, if you ghost people to see if they'll contact you first that's a red flag, if you message people like "we shouldn't be friends anymore bc xyz" for example lack of attention they give you and you don't give them a chance to change/grow (while also working on yourself to meet halfway of both your expectations) that's a red flag especially if you do it more than once bc that push n pull of holding the friendship hostage is emotional abuse and your manipulating them to expect your negative emotions and then pacify them or they can even be afraid to communicate how they truly feel/choose their words carefully incase it upsets you 😬
something's to remember: look at yourself first before blaming others, communicate your wants and expectations/boundaries while listening to theirs, give yourselves time to work on it (it takes 3 months to form a habit), revisit it later on and see if it's worked/is getting there/you should give it a second chance/should end it (hot tip - be kind about this whole process and try create the least amount of stress you can on all parties involved)
overall JUST COMMUNICATE THAT YOU WANT MORE OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP no matter what type of relationship it is (a good place to start is figuring out what your love language is as that's how you feel loved. your love language may differ depending on if you give/receive). you will slip up on this the odd time but remember to be kind to yourself 😘
its rooted in possession and also a lack of communication for expectations of your relationship with others 😶
it also speaks to how you value yourself and others based on how much you/they do for others 👀
peoples value should be based on their own self-worth not how much others do for them and they do for others 🤐
some examples; if you expect something in return just because you did something nice and keep tally of it that's a red flag, if you ghost people to see if they'll contact you first that's a red flag, if you message people like "we shouldn't be friends anymore bc xyz" for example lack of attention they give you and you don't give them a chance to change/grow (while also working on yourself to meet halfway of both your expectations) that's a red flag especially if you do it more than once bc that push n pull of holding the friendship hostage is emotional abuse and your manipulating them to expect your negative emotions and then pacify them or they can even be afraid to communicate how they truly feel/choose their words carefully incase it upsets you 😬
something's to remember: look at yourself first before blaming others, communicate your wants and expectations/boundaries while listening to theirs, give yourselves time to work on it (it takes 3 months to form a habit), revisit it later on and see if it's worked/is getting there/you should give it a second chance/should end it (hot tip - be kind about this whole process and try create the least amount of stress you can on all parties involved)
overall JUST COMMUNICATE THAT YOU WANT MORE OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP no matter what type of relationship it is (a good place to start is figuring out what your love language is as that's how you feel loved. your love language may differ depending on if you give/receive). you will slip up on this the odd time but remember to be kind to yourself 😘
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