#rebound

Yes it was, at first. Overcame it by talking honestly about it before making our relationship official again, wholeheartedly committing to always preserve sincerity and fidelity between us. I admittedly still struggled for a bit after getting back together (mainly because he rebounded immediately, the rebound was an insane person who got knocked up on purpose and it was all kinds of drama). But one good day I decided that if I was going to be with him I had to trust him and not waste both our time by living in fear. I told myself that I honestly believe he’s a good man who loves me. And I let go of all that insecurity that day. I still know nobody is 100% safe from betrayal. But I don’t let a statistical possibility rule over my trust in the man I love. We were long distance and had main on/off phase before meeting. Our last "on" was after we met irl and we met twice in 8 months period and I ultimately ended it after those 8 months. I realised that the issue was incompatibility and no matter how hard we tried to improve there was something fundamentally off with us. We weren't developing our individual lives either so overall I don't regret it.
Going through a LDR breakup right now and I’m wondering how much could have been avoided/fixed/ worked on sooner if we hadn’t been long distance. I want to go back but with the distance the issues would still be there. I don’t know when or if we would be able to move close together. It’s been tough.
We broke up due to long distance, when we were located near each other we happened to both be single and we got back together. We didn't have a lot of issues due to the breakup, but I think that was just because of the circumstances involved.
I almost feel bad for being that harsh with him, but then I remind myself of what he did and remember that he deserved much worse than some unkind words.
She was very manipulative. Got jealous and start attacking me over nothing. For example. One day my best friend, her girlfriend and I, went out to celebrate my BFs birthday. Just the three of us seeing that she didn’t want a big party. My gf couldn’t come but I wasn’t gonna miss my best friends bday. When I got back home I looked at my phone and had over 20 missed calls, over 110 messages from my gf. I thought something terrible happened so I kinda started having a panic attack. But no... it was just her “checking in” to see that I wasn’t cheating. And then accused me of cheating with two lesbian girls just because I wasn’t answering... I broke up with her on the spot, never talked to her again and honestly I’m glad I didn’t invest more time in that relationship. Looking back I don’t even know what I ever saw in her honestly.

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Hahaha aku pengennya bisa cerita yang seru gitu tapi jujur kita sama kaya banyak pasangan jaman sekarang ketemunya dari tinder ? Tapi yang lucu 2 taun yang lalu kita sebenernya pernah match, dia baru putus sama mantannya yg pacaran 5 taun setengah, aku baru putus dari mantanku yg 2 taun setengah. Tapi emang dasar ya belum waktunya gitu beneran ketemu, ya ga di ketemuin waktu itu. Cuma say hi doang kali. Pas kita ngedate pertama kali, kita ngomongin tentang ini. Dia bilang kalo kita ketemu 2 taun yang lalu gak bakalan bener, soalnya dia cuma cari rebound doang dan aku juga ? Terus pas banget sebelum kita ketemu, kita sama-sama udah mau nyerah banget sama yang namanya online dating. Soalnya rata-rata tiap ketemu orangnya gak bener banget. Pacarku pernah di catfish sama nenek-nenek sumpah. Tapi emang ya pas gak kita sama-sama have 0 expectations, eh malah ketemunya sama yang bener.

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Oke pokonya akhirnya kita ketemu, aku mau liburan kan tuh 3 minggu. Yaudah ketemu, langsung nyambung banget. Terus aku juga mikir lah aku bakalan libur lama paling juga lama-lama kita berenti ngobrol. Tapi ya terus aja sampe sekarang. Selama pdkt kita kreatif banget sama dates nya. Dari mulai aku masak buat dia (aku jarang banget mau masak buat orang lol), ke IKEA, record shopping, concert, dia masak buat aku, liburan, dll. Pokonya aku ada list of cheesy dates yang aku mau lakuin dianya ayo ayo aja. Emang dasar Sagittarius anaknya easy going banget hahah. Ya intinya gak nyangka aja deh jadi serius gini.

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