Do you think that a top&top/btm&btm r/s would work compared to the usual top&btm r/s? Even if it could work, do you think that kind of relationship will last without sex? Not saying sex is a must but it's just there to forge a better r/s right?
I think the top/bottom roles only apply when it comes to something superficial and quick, like a one night stand.
I've come to realize only recently that when you really love someone, the roles don't matter. You just go with the flow. 'Top' and 'Bottom' comes with its own stigma, implying the Top is masculine, and the Bottom is feminine. I think it would be highly ironic that we try to fit in gay relationships to follow heterosexual norms.
I've come to realize only recently that when you really love someone, the roles don't matter. You just go with the flow. 'Top' and 'Bottom' comes with its own stigma, implying the Top is masculine, and the Bottom is feminine. I think it would be highly ironic that we try to fit in gay relationships to follow heterosexual norms.