Do you consider your dick bug? Do average malays have big ones?
Most penises are generally around the same length regardless of race. Plus or minus an inch or so.
As long as the message gets across
Haha
(Anon his dictionary is off limits please)
The vocabulary is quite limited.
Hello, how was your day?
I had a good day. Thanks.
Can we try out each other's dictionary?
No.
if there is a "gay scene", shouldn't everyone be accepting of each other. why is there pink dot when they don't accept their own community (bitching about someone etc) and what makes up the "gay scene" even? The popularity game? Dramas? I am straight and I saw your profile on my ask.fm tl.
They gay community is made up of a diverse group of people much alike common Singapore society. Just like common society, it has a whole range of opinions and perspectives. There is no one 'head' of community. One one hand you have the apathetic gay man who cannot be bothered with politics, and on the other hand you have die-hard gay rights activists obsessively waiting for the next drama to jump on.Pinkdot is an organisation on its own with its own goal and message. It does not represent everyone. Many people believe it does simply because Pinkdot is very prominent. When someone says 'gay scene' it usually means the more prominent or popular groups and individuals at Tanjong Pagar bars and clubs. It doesn't necessarily represent the whole gay community either. Why don't we all simply accept each other? It is because we're so diverse, but also ill-informed and ignorant of the person beside us who is slightly different. I see the irony, and it's bothered me all the time.
Could you explain? Why, and how. Like, why did you see the need to. Also, given your religion, wouldn't it be easier pretending to be heterosexual? Why didn't you, and when you came out, what was it for you?
Before I left for Singapore, I sat down and thought about my future. I knew I didn't have any interest for marriage, my parents won't be around forever and I didn't want to depend on any of their wealth or credits. This started the long desire to be independent. I had to contain all I needed for life into one very person; myself. Being comfortable in my sexuality was one of the results of it. If I couldn't accept myself, who can?I am not Muslim. Homosexuality had actually very little to do with me renouncing the religion. I went through a very long process of figuring out where I stood in life when it came to values, and decided I cannot accept any kind of culture or edict that ostracised those who were not of 'the same kind'. I had no interest in protecting someone just because we shared a common trait... for example race, sexuality or religion. If it is not ethically right, then it simply isn't. Very simple.It would have been more difficult to live with myself if I had to pretend to be heterosexual. I was not happy, and didn't understand a lot on why I had to like girls just because. When I came out, again, it was a breeze. My parents and relatives have a lot of things to say, naturally. I didn't bother about the opinions of my relatives since they aren't even involved in my life. Their opinions are irrelevant. My parents resorted to simply sweeping it under the rug as the years went on.