My biggest flex is that I move on without wishing harm on anyone, without taking revenge or posting long criticism against anyone. I leave my matters upon Allah and let Him be the judge. My hard times and some people in my life are teaching me to be more patient and stronger than before. My inner self is satisfied and at peace because I never tried to belittle anyone. I have never intended to defame or hurt anyone. And especially, in the present time I know that I'm not a problem to anyone, there's only one person "a closed one" who was, is, and will never be happy with me. I have been in so much pain because of this one person in my whole life. But now I'll not be bothered by her anymore because except her, whoever I ever met or had a chance to talk to, everybody gave me a common compliment: "You have a pure heart/ you have a heart of gold" But for some people, whatever good you do, your efforts will never be acknowledged. It's not that there's some flaw in yourself, but actually, it's their perception of you, which is flawed. So, you need to leave their matter to Allah. He is All-knowing and Just. You can't change such people but you can change yourself for good. For your peace, you need to limit your interaction with them and pray for their "Hidayah". You can learn from these people how you don't want to be like them and how you have to be more humble and kind, and courteous and compassionate to the people who actually acknowledge your little efforts. I have a best friend named Fariha. I feel so blessed to have her in my life. Our friendship is more than 12 years old now. She's the most noble, mature, and sensible person I've ever had in my life. She has helped me as a sister, mentor, and even sometimes has advised me as a mother. She's a gem, nobody can replace her. Where you have problematic, toxic, and ever complaining unhappy people in your life, people like Fariha are a precious gift to you from God. Value them! if you have such positive friends.
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