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urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

oh god i can’t even think of all of them. there’s been several times that i’ve gone and googled to see what you were talking about.

the biggest one that comes to mind isn’t one i don’t understand, necessarily, just one that i’m internally like HNNNNGGGGG

when you say “you’ve” instead of you have. we say that here too, obviously, but we don’t use it as much.

when you say things like “you’ve a cute dog” (for example). we would say “you have a cute dog” or “you’ve got a cute dog”.

not just “YOUVE a cute dog”

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When you think of celebrities and the term "culture vulture" who's the first to come to mind?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

ariana grade & billie eilish

What's a popular TV show that you can't stand?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

supernatural 😂

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Any general relationship advice or things you've learned along the way?

January 08, 2020

- red flags just look like flags when you’re looking through rose colored glasses. listen to your friends/family etc when they say behavior isn’t normal. it’s hard to tell that something isn’t right when you’re infatuated.

- don’t put up with ANYTHING that causes you upset or discomfort because you’re afraid of losing someone. speak up.

- you are a partnership. no one should hold more power in the relationship than the other person. it doesn’t matter who makes more money, who is physically stronger, who is smarter, etc. you’re equals.

- always remmeber that it’s you and your partner VS the issue. not you VS your partner.

What are some names you considered for your children but didn't end up choosing? Did you really like any name that your partner didn't or vice versa?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

with gavin his name was *almost* waylon or logan lmfao. if he’d had been a female, he would’ve been braelyn (yikes). i named him on my own.

with kendall i really liked marlena or michaela, but my sister (that passed) loved the name kendall so that’s why i chose it. i named her on my own.

with tommen, justin and i allllmoooostttttt makes him lucian. we also really liked the name elijah. but after hearing the name tommen so many times, it just felt right. also considering we wanted his middle name to be thomas, it was like tommen was a nice compromise.

What's your opinion on MCR's reunion? Is it a good thing, a mistake or do you not really care and why?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

as someone who basically worshipped mcr for a decade, i am beyond happy to hear of any reunion talk. buuuut idk how to word this

i feel like their time has come and gone, almost ?? i know that the yOunGsTeRs that listen to their older music now only do so because of our generation popularizing them/those songs. i’ve noticed that unlike other artists/bands that have been applauded through the decades and are still an obsession for (young/new) people decades after their time (acdc, steve miller band, grateful dead, pink floyd, nirvana, johnny cash) - with mcr you see the younger folks only knowing their more popular/mainstream songs (like helena, i’m not okay, black parade), instead of WHOLE albums like you see with the older bands/artists i listed.

i really hope they make a comeback like fallout boy and p!atd did several years ago (minus the heavy pop influences and the inevitable fading of interest) but my hopes are not high.

Did you watch/listen to her on the H3 Podcast? She said there that professionals think she has BPD(I think it was in question at the time) but how she was acting and explaining her past actions was a lot to take in as someone with BPD

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

(2/2 *for me to take in as someone with BPD)

i don’t think i have but i’ve watched almost all of her videos (even/especially the deleted ones) about her mental health and it was a lot. it sucks to watch her struggle because like

idk if this makes sense but to know she was at that level of self aware of how *~cRaZy~* she was being but not self aware enough to seek help/stop it was a lottttt to take in. like upsetting, almost.

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A family members new partner is super feckin' racist, xenophobic, anti-muslim, anti-semitic, v against vegetarianism and veganism but very strict about not drinking alcohol or doing any form of drugs sometimes even avoiding painkillers and I'm just like "you make no sense?!". 😂

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

jeeeeeesusssss christttttttttt

they don’t pollute their body, who cares how awful they are ?? they’re a saint 😤

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What date do you think is reasonable to have your holiday tree down by?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

it doesn’t matter to me. if people want to keep it up all year long i don’t judge them haha. i take mine down either christmas night or the next day 😂

That's wild to me! Here we have public transport in every city, every town and most villages. But it is quite expensive. Thankfully, if you have a mental or physical disability or if you're over 60, you get a travel pass which allows you and sometimes a companion to travel for free.

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

i’ve always thought it was wild seeing so much public transport on tv. it’s just not like that here.

the most we have in my city is a park n ride. where you can drive your car (or be dropped off) at this giant parking lot. and a marta bus comes and takes you to the marta station in atlanta, and from there you can take buses in atlanta. but that’s about it.

i’m sure other places in the usa are different though. i’m just solely talking about my area/north georgia haha

+1 answer in: “Would you rather live somewhere where you e no other choice but to drive or would you rather live somewhere where everything is within walking distance of a quick bus trip?”

Thoughts on the slippery slope thing ? Where ppl claim acceptance of LGBT+ will eventually lead to advocacy for acceptance of more extreme ""sxualities"" like pdophilia ?

January 08, 2020

i think it’s nothing but fear mongering, and ideal that conservatives made up themselves and decided to be afraid of. pxdophillia isn’t a sxxuality. it’s not comparable to being gay/lesbian/bi/ace etc. at all.

pxdophillia is about power and control. that’s why pxdophiles *usually* don’t have a preference between m/f, they’ll prey on any child. it’s about the “innocence” and “purity”.

trying to group pxdophiles into the lgbt community is a ploy to stop people from supporting lgbt. that’s all.

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Would you rather live somewhere where you e no other choice but to drive or would you rather live somewhere where everything is within walking distance of a quick bus trip?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

i’ve actually never lived anywhere where i coukd take a bus or any sort of public transportation. here in georgia, unless you live inside the city of atlanta, you don’t really have that option. i’ve never seen a bus stop outside of fulton county (where atlanta is). the only train/subway system we have is marta (in atlanta).

so i coukd keep living the way i always have 😂

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Who are some of the US presidential candidates that you would like to see in office?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

bernie is the only candidate i truly support tbh. yang would have my attention more if he wasn’t trying to please the right and constantly end up contradicting himself because of it. his policies that lean into eugenics are cringey as hell, too, and it’s why he’ll never have my vote.

You're not a mental health professional and sometimes the person can't help it and is ashamed of it , if they haven't done anything wrong why are you against them being treated and monitored? You're gonna make the issue worse if they're not comfortable going forward before any harm is done

January 08, 2020

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+1 answer in: “If someone is attracted to kids but doesn't act on it, are they still a bad person in your eyes? P.edophilia is recognized as a paraphilic disorder by the DSM so as a mentally ill person it'd be hypocritical of you to demonize non offending ones”

What are some things that you think would draw someone to Buddhism and what are some things that you think may push them away?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

in my opinion, i think the over all morality of buddhism draws people in. living your life not only for you, but to be great in everything you do. as if every action has a purpose. i think that’s a giant positive.

as for pushing them away - probably people who think you must live like a monk in order to uphol the eightfold. thinking you can’t ever stray away from your vegan diet, or speaking ill of people, or partaking in alcohol etc.

+2 answers in: “What are you religious+spiritual beliefs and/or life philosophies right now? How have they changed over the past few years?”

why does trisha paytas refuse help?? it's so obvious she has bpd. im tired of youtubers crying in front of a camera as therapy

January 08, 2020

she doesn’t refuse help anymore lol. she goes to a therapist and talks about it pretty often lol. not to mention she was committed into a mental hospital early last year.

but her crying on camera, talking about all her issues on camera etc is a way that she copes with it all. people don’t have to keep it bottled inside and suffer silently. they can self soothe however they need to.

if you don’t like it, don’t watch.

I thought the same about Trisha for ages! I was actually hoping she'd go to see someone about it all.

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

i know that there’s people that like to pretend that people with bpd don’t have any dangerous or manipulative tendencies because they want to destroy the stigma but it’s so very true. and those things don’t go away just because people deny them.

trisha is a prime example in my opinion. everything from her outlandish behavior, her rocky toxic relationships, her explosive anger, her super low lows. her attention seeking. her not knowing who she is, constantly reinventing herself. and tbh even her thinking she’s trans - they’re all classic symptoms of bpd that people like to ignore and brush off as her just being over the top.

Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't it impossible to treat p.edophilia? If it's a natural attraction like they say you can't really stop it completely. Kinda like being gay (not saying the two are the same at all). You'd have to give them the benefit of the doubt to never offend which is risky.

January 08, 2020

no, it can’t be treated. current methods “treat” it my chemical astratioj or total isolation. but both these methods prove that they’re only stopping the ability to act, not stopping the actual thoughts/“urges”.

It's problematic to diagnose people when you're not their health professional, yet I feel like we all see symptoms in others nonetheless. Are there any celebrities that you feel have a lot of symptoms of anything be it physical or mental?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

i think armchair diagnosing is wrong when you’re like.........trying to do it in a negative way (idk how to put it).

but there’s plenty of celebrities and youtubers that i think have mental illness. before trisha paytas got diagnosed, i was sure she had bpd. 100%. and with jeffree star, he is 100% bipolar, possibly schizoaffective.

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What are you religious+spiritual beliefs and/or life philosophies right now? How have they changed over the past few years?

urlsareshittbh

January 08, 2020

honestly i just consider myself atheist. for much of my childhood i grew up in a christian household. then when i was 10/11 my mom dated a buddhist man and she stayed true to the buddhist faith until the last few years. i considered myself a non-theistic buddhist for about 11 years. but i’ve pretty much abandoned the buddhist religion. i don’t think it’s wrong or anything like that. i still believe in much of the eightfold path to buddhism buuuut

idk it’s just not for me.

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If someone is attracted to kids but doesn't act on it, are they still a bad person in your eyes? P.edophilia is recognized as a paraphilic disorder by the DSM so as a mentally ill person it'd be hypocritical of you to demonize non offending ones

January 08, 2020

it would only be hypocritical if i told people to not demonize them and then did so myself. i tell everyone to demonize them. they should be hung in the streets. offending or not.

pxdophillia is about power and control. being in the dsmv is wrong and outdated. it doesn’t need to be in there. :)

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Did Kendall self wean? Also why did you stop with Gavin?

January 08, 2020

with gavin, i listened time a really idiot doctor that tried to tell me he was too big/weighed too much to breastfeed and wasn’t getting enough. i was the epitome of young and dumb.

with kendall, i got pneumonia and was in the hospital and the medication i was on was supposed to be safe for breastfeeding but it fxcked up my breastmilk and the nutrients were depleted and she was losing weight.

+2 answers in: “Did you breastfeed Gavin and Kendall”