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What do you think about when you’re by yourself?

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✗ Please, don't ask, me how I feel. You know the answer...Gosh he asked me again. And know we have to talk about it for hours and I will definitely cry again. F*ck ma life. But still I am glad he does care. I am sorry. I dont want to hurt him like I was hurt.
✗ Some day it will be ok. Someday but not now.
✗ Please care, please care...why don't you care? why do I care. Make it stop. I don't want it anymore.
✗ I know I'm not good in math but please, don't look at me like I know nothing.
✗ Why do you live so far away from me. You should be here. If I met you I definitely never let go of you. You're important! So important to me and you can make me talk to you even If I am so sad that I want to lock me up inside.
✗ I dont wanna learn. I wanna play so bad. Assassines Creed got me again but I have to learn. :'((
✗ If I ever see you I hope you look in my eyes. Because I know what you did and If you won't tell it by yourself I will tell it for you.
✗ I am hungry and angry. hangry. :(

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What quote or saying do people spout but you think it is completely nonsense?

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"Time is money."
Is your life really so miserable that the one thing on your mind is money?
I understand if you dont have much money you tend to think more about it, because money is an important thing in our society. But it shouldn't be everything in your life. At least I think so. I couldn't understand how some people choose money and materials over friendshipr/family/ relationsships in general.
What quote or saying do people spout but you think it is completely nonsense

Was würdest du tun, wenn du keinerlei Angst hättest?

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Wonach es mir steht.
Das wären unter anderem sicher auch Dinge, die ich bereuen würde. Angst ist eine innere Warnung vor Gefahr. Wenn sie nicht da ist, handle ich unvorsichtig. Ich bin kein Mensch, der stets auf Nummer sicher geht. Aber ein bisschen Weitsicht schadet niemanden, nicht?
Was würdest du tun wenn du keinerlei Angst hättest

List 3 virtues that you will definitely inspire your future child/children to have. Please explain your choice.

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★ Empathy
because I wish that he/she can understand itself and others, not only with her/his brain.
★ Authenticity/Honesty
Beeing true to others and her/himself is an important part for inner peace.
★ Creativity
Because you need it not only for art. Sometimes you need to think creative to move forward in your life.
I know you said only 3 but this virtue is a must.
★ Its Loyalty.
Loyalty to her or himself, to it's personality and Loyalty to the ones who truly care for it.
List 3 virtues that you will definitely inspire your future childchildren to

At times, people tend to feel better when they realize that someone else has it worse than them. Why is that?

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I can't give an answer for many people.
I just can give you my own point of view. I don't feel better when someone got trouble that I never went through, I just can say that I can imagine a lot of problems and I am relieved not to have them. And kinda thankful too. That doesn't mean that I feel good that someone else have to go trough them.

Glaubst du, dass die Zeit wirklich alle Wunden heilt?

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Nein. Zeit ist wie ein guter Arzt. Er mag zwar deine Wunden versorgen, doch zurück bleiben immer Narben. Sie verblassen allmählich, doch sie bleiben für immer und erinnern dich an die Kämpfe, die du ausgetragen hast.
Glaubst du dass die Zeit wirklich alle Wunden heilt

Based on your personality, you'd say you're a villain (bad person) or a hero (good person) when it comes to your relation with others? What makes you think that?

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Can't I just be the potato queen that I am already?
I feel comfortable as a potato. I have my folk including my closest counselors (those who follow me) some peasants (those who unfollow me xD)
I just need some unicorns to fullfill my kingdom.
Ok - Joke. I dunno. I'd rarther would like others to decide which role I play in their life.
Based on your personality youd say youre a villain bad person or a hero good

Are there things people have said to you that have legitimately changed you?

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It was more their actions after what they've said.
They eighter proof me that they were codly honest but that didn't change me, it hurts indeed, but I can deal with the truth more then when I found out that I was beeing lied to all the time.It changed me when I found the truth on my own.
It changed me when no one was sorry for treating me wrong and I have to move on and be strong for myself. I am changing towards a person when all they can do is making me sad, giving me the feeling like I am worthless and having time for everything but for me.

Wenn du wissen würdest, dass die schmerzhafte Wahrheit alles zerstören würde, würdest du dann einen geliebten Menschen bei einer wichtigen Sache anlügen?

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Wenn die Wahrheit solch ein Leid verursacht, wie wird der Mensch, den ich liebe erst leiden, wenn ich sie wie ein hübsches Geschenk verpacke und ihr Inhalt schließlich irgendwann seinen Empfänger trifft? Auch mir selbst tue ich damit keinen Gefallen. Je mehr ich versuche etwas zu verbergen, desto mehr Mühen muss ich aufwenden um meine Lüge aufrecht zu erhalten. Ich multipliziere diesen Schmerz und tue am Ende auch mir selbst dabei weh.
Nein. Ich muss und werde jene Wahrheit aussprechen und alles tun um den Schmerz zu lindern.
Wenn du wissen würdest dass die schmerzhafte Wahrheit alles zerstören würde

What determines your own self worth? What makes it rise and/or fall?

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I believe every person has it's own credo. Like in Assassines Creed (Maybe you know the game?) It's like a selfmade Codex and we try to fullfill it and our actions are grounded by this Credo. Also it's formed by the Credo of the society around us.
We know we do good when we don't harm others or share something with them, also that it's bad to act selfish. But still we have our own credo. Some people had to learn to be on their own so of course they are more self centered and it's nothing bad with it as long as they can take care of others too.
Our self worth rise when we be ourselfs and act the way our Credo tell us it's right. By trying to be someone else and by breaking our own morals and rules our own selfworth is falling. Thats what I believe.

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What determines your own self worth What makes it rise andor fall

Would you choose someone who loves you more than you do OR someone you love more than he /she does ?

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No matter what I choose, the ending is still the same.
I need to love someone equally as he/she loves me. At least I need the feeling that we love each other equally. I don't want to love someone, who can't give me something in return.
Would be like the relationsship of the sun and the moon. Sun loves the moon so much that she shine for the both of them. But the moon has no power on it's own. It's only a reflection of the sun. This love has some tradgedy. And I've had enough of it. I can fill a second life with the drama I've already had.
On the other hand knowing that someone loving me more than I possibly could love that person back feels like a burden to me. I always would feel like everything I do for that person is not enough. And to give all your love and yourself including your personality to someone should be enough in my opinion.
So your choices here are equally frustrating. I wouldn't choose any of it.

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Do you believe in gut feelings, to tell you about someone?

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Well in real life I ofthen trust my instinct. Of course it's easier there because you can observe how people react diffrently in each situation. And in the virtual reality it's not that easy - especially for me. You have to get to know people and even when you do they can vanish in the crowd of anonymity and act like the whole relationsship was a April Fools Joke. Or you start to talk to someone and you really get along very well and they stop to talk to you all of the sudden.For some People texting is talking. I ofthen get the feeling that my moral concept is too old school. Maybe I am an alien but people act diffrently here. I don't know if I can trust anything when it comes to virtual personalitys.

Are you kind to anyone?

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No, I am not.
I try to treat everyone with respect. Like the way I want to be treated. And when I feel that someone obviously cares about me and wants only the best for me, thats the point where I start to act kind towards that person.
Also in situations where my emotionality is needed. In this case you don't have to be a friend or someone who is close to me. If I get the feeling that you need my help, because something really bad happend I couldn't just look away.
Are you kind to anyone

###How to kindly turn down someone trying too hard to be your friend but you find them annoyinG?

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Dont be too kind. It looks like a lie.
Be honest instead. Because you hurt that person anyway.
Say it short and quick, because you better use your words like a knife in their chest than as a sweet poison.
In the end, how you leave someone stays always with them.

Es ist zwar schade, dass du hier scheinbar kaum/keine Rollenspiele hast aber dennoch vielen Dank für deine kreativen Ideen, deinen tollen Antworten und deinem wundervollen Schreibstil. Ich hoffe sehr, dass deine Charaktere hier wieder aktiver werden und du dich nicht mehr so oft deaktivierst.

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Ich habe ein neues RPG in Planung.
Alle anderen sind leider abhängig von meinen Playpartnern, die im Moment nicht mehr Zeit aufbringen können.
Ich würde auch sehr gerne wieder aktiver sein, wer weiß vielleicht wird es irgendwann wieder - ich habe die Hoffnung jedenfalls nicht aufgegeben.
Das deaktivieren war für mich ebenso schwer. Da in diesen Acc. viel Arbeit und Mühe gesteckt wurde. Aber ich musste Abstand nehmen um einen klaren Kopf zu bekommen. Ich bin dennoch froh darüber wenn es Menschen gibt die über meinen emotionalen Chaos hinweg sehen und sich meine Antworten und damit Gedanken- und Gefühlswelt interessieren. (Also Dankeschön auch an dich und ich finde den Text, den du gerade an uns RPGer verfasst hast wirklich lieb. Fühl dich gedrückt!)
Ich schreibe aktuell Kurzgeschichten, Gedichte und derartiges. Wenn Interesse besteht kann ich durchaus mal etwas posten. Habe ich einmal sogar gemacht: https://ask.fm/Lady_Eloquent/answers/143454961072
Aber grundsätzlich solange Ich weiß, das das RPG nicht abgebrochen wurde, warte Ich auch noch auf Antwort meiner Playpartner.

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###Ever hurt someone who didn't deserve to be hurT? Talk about it...

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I surely did that to someone.
People can hurt each other without even knowing so.
It's because we are not willing to open up to everyone.
Also I hurt friends, family by pushing them away. When I got isolated in the 8 grade I started to believe that everyone is just a word away from leaving me. Thats were I started to test everyone around me. I wanted to push them away as far as I can, to see if someone would come back to me. I obviously hurt them. And I still tend to do it when I get insecure.

Happy new year ! In 2018, I wish you : a better mental/physical health, more energy, open-mindedness, healthy relationships , good dreams, success , delicious food and happiness ! ( ´ ▽ ` )ノ

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Haha, thanks thats all I need in the end. I guess so.
Thanks to you, for taking time to write me your lovely wishes.
And I hope that you continiue on your drawing process :) (It's already gorgeous!) Also people, who are always there for you when you need them and that you can always find a reason to smile and be happy.
Happy new year  In 2018 I wish you  a better mentalphysical health more energy

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