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My friends aren't happy with cause I am going out with my crush what should I do . They've to.d me why they don't like but he a honest and decent guy and even asked him the things they told me he say no . What should I do

don't fall out with your friends over a guy, but if he makes you happy then they should be happy for you. Talk to your friends about it x

I'm recovering from self harm and this boy in my class found out and has been giving me advice and helping me get through, but now I think I'm starting to like him, he's already got a girlfiend and if he finds out he may stop supporting me, I don't know what to do

well you can't break them up, just wait until he is single, then get really close to him!x x

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My ex dumped me a year ago and I still love him and it hurts me seeing him move on (we were each others first bf and gf) I don't know what to do! I can't cope with it I wish he was still mine he was so perfect and now I think it's effecting me now I don't like anyone anymore :(

so i liked this boy&i moved on from him. then the other day we started talking&i am starting to like him again, i know i shouldn't&everyone will think i'm a idiot&i think i will get hurt again but can't help it&i don't want to tell the boy but i am going to a party and he is going, what shall i do?x

don't listen to those people, go with your decision. If you like him, then go for it! xxx

So this guy says he likes me and I really like him, always have. So when he actually has the courage to ask me out and we're fine one of his ex's comes along and tries to mess it up. What if he finds he wants to get back with her? What do I do??x

talk to him about it, that's the best thing xx

Help! I have a bf, bu I think I'm in live with someone else

well you can't really be with someone if you're in love with someone else, have some time to yourself to think what you really want, then make your decision. x x

What would you do if you found out your best friend has been self harming? Molly answer, please xox

Tell them that you are for them, that you love them, that you care for them. Just let them know that they are not alone. Make them smile, because it's possible that they haven't truly smiled for a while. Tell the about the butterfly project, it helps people. x x
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I feel so alone and I wanted by people and I hate myself because I think it's not my fault because I'm not one of the pretty girls.. I just want to hide away and not exist

you're not alone. Talk to people about how you feel or it won't get better. Listen to music to talk your mind off it, and relax. Write down all of your feelings in a journal, don't keep them bottled up or it won't get bettter. Focus on other things, you're wanted, loved, beautiful, and needed. Stay strong, you are strong! Talk to me whenever you want, good luck x x

How do you get over someone? I've been trying for a year but I always seem to end up crying again. Any suggestions?

First of all, make sure you don't bottle up your feelings. So for example, if you need to cry hysterically, make sure you cry hysterically. If you don't let these feelings go, it will only make things worse later on. Next, don't toture yourself about it. Don't always think to yourself 'why did it end?' or 'why do I need to get over him/her?' You have to say to yourself, and make sure you believe it that- It IS over, and you have to look forward to the future. Cut it out.. so for now, don't make ANY communication with him:
-no phone
-no facebook
-no excuses
remove all reminders of them away from you, and don't think of the past with that person. This will make you miss them more. Last of all, it takes time. Strong feelings don't go over night, just try and take your mind off them, and spend more time with friends/family. Good luck x x

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I want to commit suicide and i don't know why.. I just feel as if no one would care, I know my family would care but that's not enough to hold me back. I'm the one in my friend group who would be easily forgotten so I feel it wouldn't make much of a difference if I was gone.

Whatever happens just don't give up. Remember that you are needed, you are important, you are wanted, you are loved and you are beautiful. I know it's hard but you need to stay strong, for your family and for yourself. You're valuable in this world, we all have a purpose to live.
Try not to think of all of the bad things in your life, and think of something good.. focus on something different and try to take your mind off suicide. They do care, some people show it in a different sort of way, but trust me they do. Do you have Hobbies? try something new and different! Distract yourself- make food, or things like crafts. Watch a movie, or telly. Find something you can hook on to FAST or you could Ddraw and read, do anything it takes. How about you write, write everything -all your feelings and your pains in a journal or on a new tumblr just for you.. get all the things out from your heart and just spill them out, it will be best for you. Remember that suicide is defiantly NOT the answer,I know you can stay strong and you have a whole world out there and if no one is there I am.
You should talk to someone about how you feel, you can’t do this alone.
Leave the past behind you, and look towards the future. Ignore the hate, it's just stupid, and they're just trying to pick out every single little flaw. You have your whole life in head of you, don't let haters put you down xx

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Im in a long distance relantionship we were like best friends and we decided to be more than that bit sh e has been off with me recently and i dont know why but her ex boyfriend still likes her and he brought her a watch what should i do?

make sure you try talking to her! get some answers out of her, don't let it get you down x x

My name is Jon Lebanowitz and I'm jewish and my parents want me to get a circumcision what do I do?

do whatever you want to do x

I'm so sad that the guy that i told you before( i'm the one who was eager to know this guy) he actually started to ignore me. :'( i feel so sad that he seems like not interested to know me. what should i do? :'(((((((((((((

there's not much what you could do except try talking to him, or get a friend to talk to him for you x xx

He says he likes my friend but when the 3 of us hang out he will talk to me and stuff and sit next me walk next to me ect ... I like him too and when we video chat he will only talk to me and only call me not her ... Help

you should talk to him, and ask him if he likes you x x

im struggling in school, i cut, i was tempted to hang myself and eat some fucked up shit.. what should i do? my life is fucked up the way it is. everyday it gets even more fucked up and i just start cutting to relief the pain. my parents are strippers and i always get made fun of that

Please just don't give up. You are needed, you are important, you are wanted, you are loved and you are beautiful. I know it's hard but you need to stay strong, for your family and for yourself. You're valuable in this world, we all have a purpose to live.
Try not to think of all of the bad things in your life, and think of something good
focus on something different and try to take your mind of it.
Hobbies? try something new and different! Distract yourself- make food, or things like crafts. Watch a movie, or telly. Find something you can hook on to FAST. Please don't guide yourself to drugs. Draw and read, just get your mind off it. And about your self harm.. Cut down on cutting- lets say you cut like 5 times a day make it four and so and so on, I know it might sound stupid but start off slow. Don't just all of a sudden stop,i will be unbelievably hard. It could get worst. Try to write, write everything -all your feelings and your pains in a journal or on a new tumblr just for you.. get all the things out from your heart and just spill them out, it will be best for you.
Suicide is defiantly NOT the answer,I know you can stay strong and you have a whole world out there and if no one is there I am. Cutting can often become an addiction. It can be very difficult to stop. That’s why it’s important to go and seek help or talk to someone you trust/love. You can’t do this alone. Leave the past behind you, and look towards the future. Ignore the hate, it's just stupid, and they're just trying to pick out every single little flaw. You have your whole life in head of you, don't let haters put you down xx

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