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Is it normal for me to be upset that at 22, I still haven’t graduated from college and probably have two more years to go while also being single whereas my peers are taken and have graduated? I don’t want to stay single while I’m in the process of getting my life together. Single life isn’t for me.

Your twenties have just begun. There is no need to be upset about being in college. The average age to finish college with a bachelor's is twenty-two to twenty-four, and the average college student is twenty-six.
I know society and our families tend to put pressure on us and even ourselves to find "the one." Being single allows us the opportunity to grow as an individual and figure out what it is that we truly want in life. It allows us to dig deep within ourselves and learn how to be a better person and lover so when we are presented with our person, we will love in a healthy manner.
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What’s the real reason why people bully people?

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There are multiple different reasons as to why someone bullies. Some people bully to assert dominance over others to achieve a higher social status. Low self-esteem and wanting to feel better about themselves (which is a real shit way to achieve "happiness" cause it's not real). Some people lack remorse and ability to recognize their behavior as a problem. Being a victim of bullying themselves and others do it because they're jealous and angry. Then we've got the people who struggle socially and are unable to properly cope. You've got the asshole that like to get their way as well and aren't used to not getting their way, aka the spoiled brat that needs an ass kicking. There's emotional neglect, too.
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What is a perfect wife in your opinion?

There I no such thing as a perfect spouse. She has to be a woman of God and that speaks volumes. Love her for who she is and as the woman God created her to be. Be my peace and safe space cause that's going to go along way with me. Honestly being a Godly woman says a lot on what a wife should be and what I seek. Although, I don't expect my wife to bear children or stay at home to cook and clean. We all going to learn those basic skills. She is free to do as she please as long as she remains loyal to me.

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What kind of nature do you feel most drawn to? 🏞️🐠🏔️🏜️

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I love nature in general and appreciate all aspects of it but probably the forest or some wide open space? The wide open spaces of the west with the mountains, forest, ocean and desert is honestly my favorite thing about living in California. I love the west coast a lot. I genuinely love the freedom of the wide open spaces. It fills my soul.

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why do you think people have a hard time opening up?

Because they've been hurt in the past by people who didn't appreciate their kindness. You have to set boundaries, which is hard for some people to do, which why they're often guarding their heart even though that makes it worse. People are going to hurt you no matter what. You just have to be stronger than their bull shit.

How can people find their passion and purpose in life?

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Passion is easy to find, but purpose can be difficult. God can help you find your purpose and passion in life. You have to be looking in the right direction or you'll miss it.

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As many tend to quote: "New year, New you" - What is something "new" that you strive for, this year? 🤪🎉

I wouldn't say it's "new," but I always try to get back to the person I am. I believe since the day we were born, we always knew what type of person we are, but because the world we live in can be cruel and tempting that we often lose our way. It's only through healing and growth that we realize who we have always been, and that person is someone truly beautiful.

What are your plans for Valentines Day? 💝 🍫🌹

Um... I honestly don't know? Maybe make some red velvet chocolate chip pancakes in the morning with a love note sealed in black with baby's breath peddles. I'll probably buy a bouquet of roses with liles... I really like liles... but I'll probably finish the day off with some jazz music and a candlelight dinner.

What deos self care mean to you

Self-care means putting myself first even when I don't want to. It's taking care of my mind, body, and soul. It's being kinder to myself when all I feel is negativity. It's acknowledging my wrongdoings and owning up to them regardless of the consequences. Admitting that I'm not ok, but it's going to be ok. It's acknowledging my toxic traits, changing the ones that I can, and accepting the ones that I can't. It's taking the mental health day. It's going for a walk to clear my mind and sort out my thoughts and feelings. It's listening to my inner child and meeting its needs. It's choosing to eat better, take that nap, or go to bed earlier. It's hanging out with my friends or sister when I'm feeling depressed because I know better than to sit with it. It's loving yourself even though you were never taught.

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What deos self care mean to you

I'm being dead serious. It makes me angry to see that others treat you poorly when you deserve the fucking heavens! You deserve so much more because you are more and deserving of everything.

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Haha, it makes me angry, too.
You're absolutely right, but unfortunately, we live in a generation and society that has destory the definition of love so badly that it's going to take generation to rebuild. You can't trust a single person, and that's heartbreaking.

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