You can forgive, but never forget. If you forget how they treated you, you’ll end up getting that same treatment over again. You can forgive and not reconnect also.
I forgive relatively quickly, but I don’t forget. I never reconnect with them and I still don’t have respect for them. Especially if they don’t have respect for themselves and others, which is how it be most of the time.
You’ll feel it and you’ll see it. A person who would stick by you regardless of your annoyance, they truly loves you. Getting sick and they be by your beside and help you get better. It’s more visual. You can also feel it if you don’t block those feelings.
It’s not odd, but it would make me think. He probably likes that you didn’t wear a lot of makeup, and feels you wear too much now, or you didn’t wear enough then and he wants you to wear more now.It’s pretty observant. A whole decade of being together and my boyfriend still hasn’t married me, but he’s worried about some stupid makeup. I’ll find that more odd than anything and will question his motives.