You plant your own garden instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. In other words, take responsibility for your own needs and your own happiness.
Bohut gehri thi wo raat magar ham soye nahi Dard bhi tha dil may magar ham roye nahi Koi nahi tha apna jo ham say bhi poochta kyun jaag rahay hou raat k is waqt tak aur kyun tum soye nahi