I'd put a deposit down on a nice little house - or buy, & spend money making the garden beautiful & bee-friendly. Maybe rescue a few cats! I'd still want to live quite simply, just maybe go to the cinema more often 😆
Accept that you can't rush the healing process, so feel everything you need to feel. Lean on family & friends where needed too, don't go through the rough days alone. Just know whether it takes weeks or months, you'll be ok
What's everyone doing on this fine Sunday morning?
If you've been through a lot and have dealt with a load of sh*t that wrecked you, you should be entitled to financial compensation. Someone should just come up to you and be like "here's 1 million pounds, you deserve it for going through so much you DID NOT deserve"
Absolutely 😆 there are many people i'd love to invoice!
Is private rent better than a housing association or council? I’m 21 in a domestic violence relationship and need out as soon as possible but housing associations in my city will take years.
The council will prioritise you, however you are right & need to leave immediately. So still apply for housing with the council, explain your situation, & apply for a private rented property in the meantime. Stay with family or friends if you can! Just ensure you cut contact with your ab*ser & surround yourself with as much support as possible
I heard something recently which was like, "they're not hot, they're just office hot." Being with the same people every week, you're bound to click with a few. I had it in retail jobs, even a warehouse job, they were only crushes because they were people to laugh with in an otherwise dull environment
You get to an Air BNB and realise it’s double booked meaning you’d be sharing with a complete stranger and you have no where else to go for the night what do you do?