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And my emotions for them are not fake. Like i really like them and want to be close to them but when finally they get closer to me i start to distant myself.

Hmm it's natural, it happens.
When someone gives you a lot of attention, you are bound to get bored.
When you give someone that much attention, they'll get bored of you.
That's just a natural reaction due to attention imbalance I guess(?)
But yeah. That's perfectly fine.
I've faced this situation too.
Unfortunately, I don't know what can be done about it either.
I just try to be the person who's left, not the one who leaves. That's what I can do for now :]
I hope you find your solution somewhere in there..

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What is something that most people learn only after it’s too late?

Ibn Abbas reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Take advantage of five before five: your youth before your old age, your health before your illness, your riches before your poverty, your free timebefore your work, and your life before your death.”
Source: Shu’ab al-Imān9575
So if Rasulallah (s.a.w) suggested this, then indeed these are the five things that people learn after it's too late. A reminder for all of us. May Allah help us to comprehend the importance of it and to implement it accordingly. Ameen.

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Koi dil ki baat 🍁

اب دِل کچھ نہیں کہتا ہے
اب دِل خاموش رہتا ہے
کہ دِل تو بدنامِ زمانہ ہے
اب دِل کی بھلا کون سُنتا ہے
شکن زدہ، شکستہ حال، افسردہ دِل
دُکھوں میں سے خوشی کے آنسو چُنتا ہے
دیکھ کے اپنی بے بس قسمت
لبوں کے نقش پر مسکراہٹیں بُنتا ہے
اب دِل کے بھلا کون سُنتا ہے
اب دِل یہ کچھ نہیں کہتا ہے

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