They are important to me and I am there for them when they need me. However, I have stopped depending on them. My friends often complain that I don't text them enough. xD But it just feels... scary to let my guard down now. In front of anyone. And when I do, I regret it. Khair.
Opening up to women is a breakup hack. Women hate men who have problems. If you ain't Superman, u doomed. Tryna be single? just tell her all ur problems and watch her disappear. The worst thing u can do around women is to act human. Be a comedian and wallet, and they’ll love you.
It's pitiful that you have never been with a genuine woman. I hope you find one. ✨️❤️
It varies from person to person. With time, you go through a lot of experiences. Good, bad, painful, healing. Time can either make you more empath and compassionate, or it can make you bitter. It all depends on your outlook. A person who starts thinking that world is unfair and unjust, they start imposing that bitterness on people around them. And call it the "bitter reality" or "harsh truth" that everyone should have a taste of. They start thinking that they didn't have it easy, and no one else should have it easy either. Everyone should go through the hardship and pain they went through. It makes them lose empathy. People just need to accept that whatever happens in our life, negative or positive, it's for our own good. And not everyone is gonna have the same experience as us. And if anyone is going through smth that we went through, we should just... tell them what we needed to hear at that moment, but no one told us. But now we have the power to make someone's life easy because of our prior experiences. When one accepts that things happen for the better, everything's written, and it's gonna happen one way or another, there is no bitterness.
I have seen a starry night sky only once in my life. It was in 2023, I visited a village in sindh called Ghotki. Wahan per we stayed at the house of my uncle's friend. At night, we went to the rooftop of the house and the sky was full of stars. I have never seen so many stars here in Karachi (due to pollution, obv). But it felt so good, and peaceful. I didn't feel like leaving that place. Some day, I will stargaze with my favorite person, InshaAllah. 😌✨️
Simplicity, and collectivism. The western culture has significantly influenced our society. People are just running after fashion trends because they wanna feel superior. They gotta have every new thing they see on the internet. And it would have been fine if it wasn't this extreme, but now people are looked down upon if they aren't holding an expensive bag of a particular designer brand. *smh* And individualism has made people selfish and less empathetic.
Do I even have a choice? I have to. For the sake of not damaging the ones around me, for the sake of maintaining healthy relationships and friendships, for the sake of surviving, and most importantly, for my own sake. Khair. Somedays though, I don't feel like doing so. But this is not some fantasy novel, and there ain't no prince coming to save me. xD No one will be my knight in shining armour. Khair, may Allah make it easier for all of us. ✨️