I'm 24 yo dan baru2 ini mama pernah cerita dulu pas baru nikah papa pernah khilaf nampar mama, mama lgsg ke dapur ambil pisau, "ayahku seumur hidup gk pernah main tangan ke anaknya, sekali lg kamu nampar, I'll stab you", something like that... he's bad-tempered..yet you can't choose who your parents
I love your mom!
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It's true, jerks/abusers/bullies will treat us badly only when we ALLOW them to. There are only two choices:
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1. Stand up and fight back, like your mom did. Abusers are like bully, when they see their partners as 'victims' they will keep beating them. Standing up against them means we tell them "I'm not accepting what you do to me anymore".
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2. If you are too weak to stand up for yourself, then get him out of your life. Move on.
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Either way, you should not allow anyone else to physically or verbally abuse you. Before it's too late. (You are dead or you are mentally ruined).
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It's true, jerks/abusers/bullies will treat us badly only when we ALLOW them to. There are only two choices:
.
1. Stand up and fight back, like your mom did. Abusers are like bully, when they see their partners as 'victims' they will keep beating them. Standing up against them means we tell them "I'm not accepting what you do to me anymore".
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2. If you are too weak to stand up for yourself, then get him out of your life. Move on.
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Either way, you should not allow anyone else to physically or verbally abuse you. Before it's too late. (You are dead or you are mentally ruined).