I'm currently in a relationship. I love them and they love me. I want to spend my whole life with them but due to past trauma from my past relationship I don't want to dream about growing old with them. Today i told them they can leave me if they find someone else. it fuckin hurts. any advice?
Can we really blame fate for everything happening to us? Did we not know that we have another choice? Did we not make the choice despite understanding the consequences? Yet we chose to close our eyes and move on the path, hoping for good, though we knew what it might bring to us. So are we supposed to blame fate or blame ourselves?
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Why destiny let some people to meet, when there is no way for them to be together? (Answer logically)
They might be there to save you at that time. Perhaps without them at that time you won't be able to survive and supposingly they are not good for a Lifetime.
First step is to delete all that stuff which made you happy about them. Delete their photos, delete their numbers. Delete chats. Remove their social accounts. With the passage of time, their memories will start to fade away. But if you keep these things, you look at them, your feelings will stay fresh. Secondly, try to keep yourself busy. Do painting, gardening, reading books or anything that you like. Thirdly, stop talking about them, to your friends or anyone. Do not talk about them.
You might not feel anything after they are gone, but all of a sudden... You cannot sleep peacefully at night and you don't know the reason. You get irritated and angry over very little things and you don't know the reason. You want to break and throw away things, BUT YOU DON'T KNOW THE REASON...
If U have to say Goodbye to someone special for forever!
Your last three words may be?
I promise that the ending always stays the same So there's no good reason in make believing that we could ever exist again I can't be your friend, can't be your lover Can't be the reason we hold back each other from falling in love With somebody other than me
Do you ever feel so helpless that it seems like you can’t do anything to change your situation? It feels as if everything is slipping through your fingers, and you’re just sitting there, paralyzed. No matter what you try to do, things only seem to get worse.
It seems like you cannot take anymore, yet more and more comes and you take it somehow, you bear it. Right when you think that things cannot get any worse they get more.
A time comes when you realise there was only one villain in your story and that was always you. Every one else was a supporting character. The one who every caused loss to you was one way or the other you.
Ups and downs go hand in hand in life. There is down to every up and up to every down. If you had a fair share of your up then you must accept the down as well.
As time goes by, we slowly start becoming what we hated the most. We turn into something we always disgusted. We start becoming like those elders whom we used to see in our childhood and think about never being like them.
If you start counting points, giving every blessing a number, you will realize that eventually every single person is almost equal to the other person. If someone's childhood was perfect you will see them suffering as an adult or in old age. If someone had money they didn't get something they truly wished they had. If someone has a high IQ, they have some painful memories and thoughts you can never guess. Some persons whole life may be a mess but who knows what he may get after dying.
There comes a phase in your life when you realize that everything is meaningless, useless. The things we love, the moments we live, eventually all of it is meaningless. Everything is temporary. Life is just a show. At that moment, even if not clearly, deep down in your heart you wish for the show to end as soon as possible.
If you ever go through a hectic routine while being in a tough phase of your life, it will lead to the realization of the importance of work especially in such situations and how it becomes an escape and a safe place for you. You will forget all of the problems you are going through and you will grow to love your work, as you will find out how it can be a shield to all of those negative thoughts. So, if any of you feels depressed, try to work hard, not just sit around thinking the thoughts over and over again.