It used to be two or three, but now I am terrified of having another child. I can’t risk going through what I did with my son’s mother and I won’t put another child through that. I’m thankful she and her husband had a child so that my son has a sibling now. Took the pressure off of me.
What kind of things do you like to do in summer?
Hike and swim.
Would you rather only be able to whisper or only be able to shout?
Whisper.
Morning or night person?
Night person.
Can you whistle?
I constantly whistle and hum together making a strange whistling noise. It’s soothing to do. Also makes calling my dog at the park easier since nobody whistles like I do. Give it a try. It’s easy and fun.
Books and vinyl records. They’re perfect for everyone that isn’t my family. All of my friends love books and vinyl, my family not so much. They’re the only people I’m bad at shopping for. 🤷🏽♂️
Would you rather date a civil engineer or an architect?
Steak and Shake and chic-fil-a make the best fries, but I do not eat at the latter due to their bigoted views and donations to hate groups.
Have you ever had a friendship that ended for of a stupid reason? What was that reason?
Yep. Several ended because I’m an atheist and many more ended when I got divorced because I had deleted Facebook and my ex didn’t. So instead of asking me what was up, they just took her word as gospel and labeled me a monster. I was a victim, not a monster.
Favorite band?
Taking Back Sunday
What would you bring to a picnic?
Light foods, like salads and fruit and seltzer.
Is coffee at home as good as boughten coffee from coffee shop???
Rye, sourdough, and potato bread are my favorites.
Someone said I should be in jail because I never wear necklaces. Not all women wear necklaces
I do not understand this or why it keeps popping up in my popular questions feed. Why would anyone care whether or not someone wore a necklace?
Can DJs be considered musicians?
If they can play an instrument. Otherwise they’re doing the work of a producer and a mixer. Most of my friends that are DJs can play at least a couple of instruments. Most play piano and guitar.
Is there anything you can do today that you couldn't a year ago? What?
I’ve been learning flamenco style guitar, and I couldn’t play the scales a year ago that I can sort of play today.
What should adults stop teaching younger people?
That staying in toxic relationships is a virtue and that ending them is somehow a bad thing. Good relationships/marriages do not end in divorce. Instead of shaming someone for ending a relationship they were not happy in, congratulate them on having the strength to walk away and offer condolences for the loss of the relationship. Breakups are both sad and a relief. Treat them as such.