Real or fake flowers ? xxxxxx
Real preferably. But fake ones are good for decor, I have a lot of artificial flowers around my home 😁
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PC or Mac? x
Both
Dream job?
An independent crystal/witchy/spiritual type store 🥰🤷♀️
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what habits of other people you definitely find disgusting ?
When people, usually men, spit in the street...what even is that 🥴😷
what flower is your favorite ?
Roses or lilies
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I bottle up my emotions and never show them is that bad?
(Sorry for my essay, I just like generally rambling about a topic sometimes 😅😅)
It's not particularly healthy.
If you bottle shit up and push down how you're feeling for too long, it's going to come out in other forms (usually indirectly/harmful), and you'll explode/go too far when you finally do let out how you're feeling, and end up losing people, pushing them away from you, even hurting them. A bottle of coke can only withstand so much built-up pressure - humans are the same.
Emotions aren't bad, paying attention to how we feel can guide us to make necessary changes in our lives and Showing emotion to others/speaking up can help them understand us better, expressing how we feel (and that being respected in return) is necessary for human connection and getting our needs met. If you don't show others what/how you're feeling, they won't know what you need, how to accommodate to you, what to be mindful of, if you care about them or not and so on. Authenticity in how we feel and our wants/needs is important/necessary for healthy relationships/connections.
Likewise, being too/only focused on emotion is just as unhealthy as denying/resisting/dismissing/never showing them. Either extreme is harmful to us and our relationships. Emotions themselves are healthy and necessary, being controlled by them (either through being Avoidant/In Denial of them or being Too Focused on them) isn't. It's about finding a healthy balance between valuing/expressing your emotions and not letting them dictate everything, keeping them in control but knowing when/how to speak up. A balance between valuing your own emotions and respecting/being mindful of others emotions/feelings is also important - always stay true to yourself but respect others too.
- Feel your emotions
- Process/understand your emotions, why you're feeling them, where they're coming from, what you can/need to do about them etc.
- Express how you feel, in a healthy/calm/respectful/mindful way, if/when it's necessary/important
Thank you for coming to my long-winded Ted Talk 🙃
It's not particularly healthy.
If you bottle shit up and push down how you're feeling for too long, it's going to come out in other forms (usually indirectly/harmful), and you'll explode/go too far when you finally do let out how you're feeling, and end up losing people, pushing them away from you, even hurting them. A bottle of coke can only withstand so much built-up pressure - humans are the same.
Emotions aren't bad, paying attention to how we feel can guide us to make necessary changes in our lives and Showing emotion to others/speaking up can help them understand us better, expressing how we feel (and that being respected in return) is necessary for human connection and getting our needs met. If you don't show others what/how you're feeling, they won't know what you need, how to accommodate to you, what to be mindful of, if you care about them or not and so on. Authenticity in how we feel and our wants/needs is important/necessary for healthy relationships/connections.
Likewise, being too/only focused on emotion is just as unhealthy as denying/resisting/dismissing/never showing them. Either extreme is harmful to us and our relationships. Emotions themselves are healthy and necessary, being controlled by them (either through being Avoidant/In Denial of them or being Too Focused on them) isn't. It's about finding a healthy balance between valuing/expressing your emotions and not letting them dictate everything, keeping them in control but knowing when/how to speak up. A balance between valuing your own emotions and respecting/being mindful of others emotions/feelings is also important - always stay true to yourself but respect others too.
- Feel your emotions
- Process/understand your emotions, why you're feeling them, where they're coming from, what you can/need to do about them etc.
- Express how you feel, in a healthy/calm/respectful/mindful way, if/when it's necessary/important
Thank you for coming to my long-winded Ted Talk 🙃
Sunbathing time now 😎 ?
Not as hot as I'd like it to be but definitely good enough to get out and about/potter around the garden 😊🌞
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Favourite alcohol?
Anything that contains alcohol
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♡Chloe♡
imagine falling in love, and it works out for the rest of your life
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Would you have a blind date? If not, Could anything motivate you to change your mind?
Hard no for me. I need to vet someone for an annoying/offputting amount of time before I even consider dating 😅😂 If thats what others are into, that's cool, but nothing on earth could ever make blind dates appealing to me 🤷♀️
Do you welcome all into your circle or are you picky?
Very selective 💀
Why does my friend tell me so many lies like she can speak Japanese when I know she can’t and she is acting like She wants to erase me from her memory because of something I did back in fourth grade
Yeah, she ain't your friend 😬
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What’s your opinion on Mrs Brown’s Boys?
Cringey af. Never understood the appeal at all 😬
Do you find yourself alienating yourself for being… human 🤔
I definitely do at times. Especially when people dismiss, put down, ridicule, deliberately try to invalidate me etc for acting/responding in a human way or just for showing a human side in general, I for sure distance myself 🤷♀️
If you’re being stared at it’s attraction right?
Is it, though? 😬
What percentage of the problems in your life are your own fault
100% 😬
Do you have stalkers on here?
I used to years ago. I Dont Think I have any current ones 😅
Have you ever had social anxiety?
I deal with social anxiety every day 😅😬
What's your favourite film?
East of Eden
Most used social media platform? 🗣
Twitter 😅
Ladies. It's romance dead or do actually value being romanced
Definitely isn't dead. I'm not used to it, but I value it 100%
post a photo
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Does the financial situation of your SO impact whether you get or stay together?
Not at all
Have you played and completed Grand Theft Auto 4?
Yep, a few times
What is your favourite song right now? 🎶 👍 😇
Don't think I have a new favourite but Beth Hart's Caught Out In The Rain has gripped me lately (but so has a lot of her songs tbh). Cannot get over her voice and intensity at times, and with my boy Joe on guitar, god damn 🥺
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