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I'm sorry I misunderstood. That's completely ok if u prioritize someone it's their wrong doing if they took advantage of u. I've been struggling through depression first thing they suggest I should socialize with ppl. With the right ppl it makes us happy it brings positivity n confidence too.

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I'm sorry you've been struggling with depression. I can recommend you to go for a walk more often because sunlight gives you vitamin d. Furthermore eat more fruits that contain this vitamin-like bananas. And yes, your of course right about talking to people of your trust. Never isolate yourself too much of your close ones because they are always there for you to help, especially when they know about your mental wellbeing.
And you don't need to be sorry since I never specify myself about my situation. It's alright! =)
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Don't feel that it's low esteem.Yes we need to focus ourselves too. though choosing our own anchor like to channelise our energy through our work. If you are craving for human connection that's completely normal we all do. Loneliness always drowned us.

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Thanks again for your kind words and trying to understand me. But I think it is because of my low self-esteem otherwise I don't have an explanation for why I let my self treated to the point where it's no longer...good or healthy for myself.
But yes Loneliness is probably one big factor too.
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Is it just me or who else has a WhatsApp group just with themselves? 😂

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Don't worry you're not alone. x'D
I have such groups too. And use them for taking notes because I tend to be a little forgetful at times. Furthermore for I use it as a shopping list. x'D
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Любите ли вы путешествовать?✈️Как вы думаете, какое самое красивое место где вы побывали+фото🤍

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Сейчас у меня нет ни времени, ни денег, чтобы путешествовать на регулярной основе. Но мне уже удалось поехать в Данию и Италию. Обе эти страны были прекрасны, и я оставила в них прекрасные воспоминания. Вероятно, когда у меня будет правильная работа, я буду чаще путешествовать вместе со мойм партнером.
На картинке ниже вы можете увидеть маленькую русалку. Это символ истории Ганса Христиана Андерсона - автора рассказа, который там жил.
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I don't have the time or money - income right now to travel on a regular basis. But I managed to travel to Denmark and Italy already. Both of those countries were beautiful and I have made wonderful memories in them. Probably when I have the right job I will travel more often together with my partner.
In the picture below you can see the little mermaid. Its a symbol to the story of Hans Christian Anderson - the author of the story, who lived there.

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Любите ли вы путешествоватьКак вы думаете какое самое красивое место где вы

I'm good... dear😊The way u described it, it was very painful to stay with that person.I m glad u r out of it. I've been following u but didn't read ur much carefully earlier but this time u post just got my attention.In love it's hard to give up but when it's get toxic it's better to leave for gud.

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It was. Thanks for trying to understand me.
Luckily, I wasn't in love. It was a very close friendship I was talking about. But yes your right about it. It's just... I think I discovered myself that I sometimes, when someone is close to me I prioritize them. And that's unhealthy. Probably a lack of self-esteem. But I am trying to work on it.
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How do you deal with people that constantly talk and distract your attention? I have this guy in my class that won’t keep quiet and distracts the entire class constantly bothering the lecturer as well.

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I know myself it's a hard thing to do when someone talks constantly while you want to focus - but try to concentrate on your tasks. Because you can't shut someone up if they have no intention to do so. I mean you can certainly try but you have to be aware to cause a lot of negative emotions for yourself. Because if you don't want just scream at someone to shut up (which isn't the best option to solve this) you will definitely have to put a lot of persuasion in the dialogue with the one who can't concentrate. Because people need to be convinced with logic rather them to scream at them with anger. So if you can't convince someone try really hard to focus on your own things to do. When you can't do something about your surroundings try to control your own actions.

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Did you experience something like a vicious cycle in a toxic relationship? It means your brain starts to genuinely accept verbal arguments.
Every time you talk to someone close to you, your brain sents out dopamine because of the positive association which your brain has with that person. Which it does even in conflicts. So it's hard for you to let go of someone who hurts you deeply. Because in the back of your mind you probably have all those memories with them. So after fights, your brain is confused because it gets different information. Pain on the one hand - mental pain can be transformed into physical pain and on the other hand, you still get dopamine from the social interaction/association with a loved one. So you start to have a cognitive dissonance which your brain tries to reduce by legitimizing one of the emotions (pain or happiness)
E.g.: "It is ok to be hurt right now because it well gets better like it was in the past" or other excuses like that.
That's how you get stuck in a toxic relationship. Breaking out of it - was the most physically and emotionally hardest thing I ever did. Hope I don't experience something like this again.

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What has been the highlight of your week so far?

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My bestie has sent me some gifts today for my upcoming birthday. And allowed me to open them already. I was really happy about any of those gifts because she really takes her time to present me with something thoughtful. Was amazingly happy about it.

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❝I applied my heart to know wisdom, and to know madness and folly. I perceived that this also was a chasing at the wind. For in much wisdom, is much grief, and he that increaseth knowledge, increaseth sorrow.❞
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Assassins Creed · Al Mualim
I applied my heart to know wisdom and to know madness and folly I perceived
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❝I detested you, at the moment of my death... My soul cannot move beyond that... As long as you live, I cannot rest!❞
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That's great that u don't judge people by their worst mistakes but if u may be so kind to accept an additional condition? Like, the judging begins the moment u begin to handle and learn from that mistake and overcome your shortcomings and obtain victory from your previous defeat!

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Indeed. And I totally agree with you on that.
Furthermore, I appreciate your reaching out to me and sharing your opinion. :)
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Is love a feeling? Or is it a choice?

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Depends.
When it comes to romantic kind of love. There are still different types. Love by choice is slowly. It's pleasant. Warm. And there are high chances that once this kind of love is built...it lasts a lifetime. Because both lovers don't want to lose the other one they work constantly on themselves to improve and be good to each other.
Love by feeling is passionate. Uncontrollable. You feel everything. Then nothing. In the end, you don't feel like yourself anymore and you kind of...get addicted of each other. More often it's only one person that gets addicted. Like fire, you get consumed by this feeling and often it leads to heartbreak.
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