Hängt wohl von der Wahrheit ab. Ist sie rational ausgedrückt also ein Fakt oder eine Kritik in Form einer Verbesserungsmöglichkeit in meiner Persönlichkeit oder meinen Handlungen dann nehme ich sie gerne an insofern diese Anregungen höflich formuliert wurden mit der Intention mir zu helfen. Aber eine Wahrheit in Form eines Versuchs einer intentionellen Kränkung ist keine Wahrheit sondern eine Emotion. Jemanden intentionell zu kränken kann vielerlei gründe haben zum Beispiel wenn man ein niedriges Selbstwertgefühl hat und es nur aufwerten kann in dem der gegenüber verbal versucht wird geschmälert oder erniedrigt zu werden. Mit der Wahrheit hat es aber wenig am Hut xD Ich weiss einige deklarieren ihre eigene Meinung gespickt mit Beleidigungen gern als "Wahrheit"
Some people take pleasure in judging other people. For literary everything. I don't know how and I dont know why but its the most annoying thing you will expierience once you met such kind of personality. Especially if this person is an extrovert and share it's thoughts with everyone every time. I mean its okay to hate people I dont like many of them myself but I dont need to listen to filterless judgemental thoughts all of the time.
Indeed. As as a human being I broke hearts conscious and unconsciously. There is no excuse for that. Just trying to learn from the past to not repeat my mistakes and to hurt no further souls. Having said that, I belief there are many souls who broke someones heart whether they know about it or not.
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦Nope. It's never too late to start. As long as you believe in yourself and really work for it (not only think/wish about it)
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦╰ they learned how to be grateful for the smallest of things ╰ they had a good start in life by having a financially stable family and therefore constant support in their life ╰ they have people who are safe for them, either a safe family or close friends (the second family they've chosen)
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦If you don't want it done to you, don't do it to others. So cut me, I don't have problems cutting you completely out of my life as if nothing happened, because if you valued me enough, you would not consider hurting me :)
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦Depends on who they are for me. If they are close ones calling/phoning is okay. If they are strangers or acquaintances I tend to rather text 'em.
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦I think there is no guideline for the most effective way to fight depression. Because it depends individually on what helps you the most. Generally, what may help is to talk about it with the closest of friends/family. If there is none seek help from an expert, just don't live with it believing that it's normal to feel like that. Because it isn't. And pain usually does not go away just because we try really hard to numb it, block it out and ignore it. Furthermore, it's important to fight your own mind. Don't stay in your comfort zone of isolating yourself. Try to move out of it even if you do very small steps it's still better than living the life of a hermit. Because even the most introverted people need at least one soul who truly tries to understand them. Don't think there is none....we are 8 billion people. There is one, it's just possible that you tried very hard to go out of their way x'D
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦The Louvre was impressive. Van Gogh Museum was aesthetically pleasing as well but the Louvre is just such a big museum you could spend a day at this place and still believe you did not see everything it has to offer. Its collection is broad and is not only about french culture.
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦One of my professors had the Slytherin vibes. Not like Snape (the good kind of Slytherin). I won't go into detail but that man loves to be a pain to other people. I hope he heals someday. x'D
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦I like bread with fried egg, butter, salad and with some pepper and I enjoy fruits for breakfast as well such as bananas, peaches or oranges. Sometimes I just have a cooked egg if I am not that hungry. :)
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦No. 'cause intelligence does not only mean "rational" intelligence. There are other types of intelligence. Such as emotional intelligence (you are able to feel what others feel and therefore can read others' emotions by reading their vibes, mimics and gestures), musical intelligence (you are sensitive to all kinds of sounds), physical intelligence (you know how to keep your body healthy or you know how to train your body and improve yourself)
Have you ever been to a restaurant, coffee shop etc. so often that the staff started to recognize you? If so, tell a bit more! Like, how would they greet you and what did you usually order? 🍕☕
✦ ───────────── ✦ . συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи ✦ ───────────── ✦Yes, I'm known at the local coffee shops. Especially at the English breakfast restaurants where they offer scones and all kinds of teas imported from England. I visit once a month to have English Breakfast and all sorts of black tea (but I prefer the sweeter ones)
You recall how they treated you and tell yourself this is not what you deserve. Start to treat yourself as good as you would treat your closest of friends. Then try to put your new energy and time into people who accept you as you are, respect you and value your time. Lasting bonds are only created when both parts of the relationship put the same kind of effort into it. It becomes toxic if one gives more then the other and the other ones gets used to it.You stop thinking about it by first distance and then slowly buildung trust in yourself again. Realize that you deserve people around you that would want the best for you.
Hm. My hope in humanity. XDDD Nowadays I just read one terrible thing after another and I dont even wonder. XD Kids k*ll each other for what ever absurd reason. Hogwarts legacy players hurting cats in-game because they think its funny. Humans are disappointing creatures all in all. Yes there are exceptions. But...all in all...nothing bad ever suprises me that much anymore because many of us feel like lost cases.
Someone once wrote about me that I'm the cloud they are happy to have lost. I'm always in love looking at the sky especially when the sunset is coloring the clouds in pretty colors. Why compare me with clouds if they are so pretty?!? :) But at least i can rain on people. My ultimate revenge xDDD
Is there a petty thing you consider a turn off, when making friends? Haha like if they are a really great person that you get along with, but they really like Justin beiber, and you find that cringe or something, so you don't wanna be friends haha. Or if they like football, and you hate it. Etc etc
┊☹┊└ they are narcissists, manipulators, and chronic liars└ they treat me like an option, which is okay if you are no close friends or probably just acquaintances, but if I am no special to you as a friend, then what the fluff I am doing with you? This is just manipulation. I choose people as friends because I feel they are safe, talented, creative, empathic...something like this, so if they are not able to make time and space for me in their life, then why call it even a friendship?└ all in all, all my pet peeves for me come from disrespectful behaviour in a friendship, I don't judge people for what they like or don't like (except for when it's criminal, then I would judge them x'DDD)