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Is it a bad sign if a guy you’re interested in doesn’t really look at you?
Not necessarily.
Some dudes have anxiety.
Some are shy.
Some have social anxiety.
Some may even like you or may be interested or may simply think youre nice on the eyes
.... but the above 4 things can be quite debilitating.
Opposite that, yes.
Many dudes are flat sick of women (and will cat fight you/meticulously ignore you and send you disinterested energy). But as bad as that sounds, guys don't feel as needed/desired/coddled and fawned over like they used to once upon a time.
Regardless of any of that, I wouldn't spend too much time analyzing it (or any guy whose energy is like you described in your Ask).
A guy stepping to a girl and risking the chance of rejection has NOTHING on the options and pick of the luxe or liter + mounds of instant gratification he gets 24/7/365
Some dudes have anxiety.
Some are shy.
Some have social anxiety.
Some may even like you or may be interested or may simply think youre nice on the eyes
.... but the above 4 things can be quite debilitating.
Opposite that, yes.
Many dudes are flat sick of women (and will cat fight you/meticulously ignore you and send you disinterested energy). But as bad as that sounds, guys don't feel as needed/desired/coddled and fawned over like they used to once upon a time.
Regardless of any of that, I wouldn't spend too much time analyzing it (or any guy whose energy is like you described in your Ask).
A guy stepping to a girl and risking the chance of rejection has NOTHING on the options and pick of the luxe or liter + mounds of instant gratification he gets 24/7/365
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In 10 years' time, will you be proud of what you are doing now?
Its above me now.
God willing, heavens YES.
It's not a game with me.
I'm proudly all me - Being and doing all I can bring to fruition all that i can be:
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🎯Tip: If we are true to ourselves; the best indicator to gage the probability of our (10) steps forward is to review our (10) steps back
❣️https://LinkedIn.com/in/AngelaShericeWriter
....and even that tip extends past occupation/job or dream. That also goes for the evolution in our friendships and relationships, too.
At any rate.
🙏🏽 My wish - sharing this universe and space with me (and with good energy and good intent - your eyes on me) that the same answer to your Ask is a "yes" for you too.
God willing, heavens YES.
It's not a game with me.
I'm proudly all me - Being and doing all I can bring to fruition all that i can be:
❣️ https://AngelaShericeWriter.com
❣️ https://SheTellsAndRetails.com
🎯Tip: If we are true to ourselves; the best indicator to gage the probability of our (10) steps forward is to review our (10) steps back
❣️https://LinkedIn.com/in/AngelaShericeWriter
....and even that tip extends past occupation/job or dream. That also goes for the evolution in our friendships and relationships, too.
At any rate.
🙏🏽 My wish - sharing this universe and space with me (and with good energy and good intent - your eyes on me) that the same answer to your Ask is a "yes" for you too.
When would you move in together? When is too soon? Or fuck a time frame? Thought?
Yes...I would.
But moving in together requires a couple of small (yet major) things such that almost anything else can be worked out.
Couples need:
- Separate bathrooms. that goes without saying. I don't care how close you are, sharing bathrooms is just utterly gross (to me). We do gross things there, bathe there, groom there and everything. If we can't afford to have two separate bathrooms, we can afford to live together.
- An extra bedroom (If this is a male-female relationships) I think every now and again-allowing a man to have a bedroom mancave away from his woman can give him a sense of singlehood that he gives up when settling into a relationship and moving in. It can be flirty and sexy to call his room to invite him over to 'spend the night' with you--in your bedroom or you, his.
- A fridge with a magnetic note pad attached (for random and flirty communication between both parties' comings and goings. Doing this daily keeps a bond and connection in home and with each other)
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As far as time frame or "too soon," that's hard to answer and depends on way too many factors to give a flat answer.
But moving in together requires a couple of small (yet major) things such that almost anything else can be worked out.
Couples need:
- Separate bathrooms. that goes without saying. I don't care how close you are, sharing bathrooms is just utterly gross (to me). We do gross things there, bathe there, groom there and everything. If we can't afford to have two separate bathrooms, we can afford to live together.
- An extra bedroom (If this is a male-female relationships) I think every now and again-allowing a man to have a bedroom mancave away from his woman can give him a sense of singlehood that he gives up when settling into a relationship and moving in. It can be flirty and sexy to call his room to invite him over to 'spend the night' with you--in your bedroom or you, his.
- A fridge with a magnetic note pad attached (for random and flirty communication between both parties' comings and goings. Doing this daily keeps a bond and connection in home and with each other)
_____
As far as time frame or "too soon," that's hard to answer and depends on way too many factors to give a flat answer.
Mustard on fries??
I love mustard on practically anything😋
On a scale 1-10 how good of a mood are you in today?
11
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Should you apply a base coat on ur natural nails before applying acrylic nails???
Sooooo I used to do nails for a living, (mani, pedi, acrylics) and there really wasn't a "base coat" to apply to your natural nail bed before applying acrylics/tips - just primer (after prepping the natural nail bed then tabs to build acrylics only or tips with acrylic).
Alot has changed since I've been in the nail game but I'm willing to bet "base coat" application still is, what it's always been: To protect the natural nail bed from and before applying nail polish to natural nails.💅🏾
Hope that helps❣️
Alot has changed since I've been in the nail game but I'm willing to bet "base coat" application still is, what it's always been: To protect the natural nail bed from and before applying nail polish to natural nails.💅🏾
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Is it smart to put someone elses happiness before yours
¤ If it involves yourSELF - meaning being with someone because it makes THEM happy (and you know you won't be....) then abSOULutely not
¤ If it involves a "thing" and it JEOPARDIZES your situation, it's a 'no,' too. Self preservation is always 🔑 key and first
¤ If involves your doing something FOR them and it makes THEM happy (and you feel no way about it - other than happiness in doing it); good for you. That's because you obviously love'em and wanna see'em happy and with it.
But by contrast, if involves your doing something FOR them and it makes THEM happy - and you DO feel a way about it - that's because you obviously have some unresolved issues with'em and you DON'T wanna see'em happy and with it (which too, is your prerogative) but - to be fair to them - you shouldn't even be with or around that person. And if you are, that essentially means that you like something(s) about that person that satisfies or serves YOU but you don't love'em enough to want to see'em or make'em happy. That's a form of narcissism and that person is in a kind a danger being with or around YOU that they had better hurry up and recognize (and run the other way)🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
¤ If it involves a "thing" and it JEOPARDIZES your situation, it's a 'no,' too. Self preservation is always 🔑 key and first
¤ If involves your doing something FOR them and it makes THEM happy (and you feel no way about it - other than happiness in doing it); good for you. That's because you obviously love'em and wanna see'em happy and with it.
But by contrast, if involves your doing something FOR them and it makes THEM happy - and you DO feel a way about it - that's because you obviously have some unresolved issues with'em and you DON'T wanna see'em happy and with it (which too, is your prerogative) but - to be fair to them - you shouldn't even be with or around that person. And if you are, that essentially means that you like something(s) about that person that satisfies or serves YOU but you don't love'em enough to want to see'em or make'em happy. That's a form of narcissism and that person is in a kind a danger being with or around YOU that they had better hurry up and recognize (and run the other way)🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
😔 I guess there always an ending to every chapter of someone’s life…💔
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Are you currently avoiding somebody that loves you
Well...I wouldn't avoid someone who loves me—the way I know what "love" truly is. I'd really be all in.
No trepidation, confusion or hesitation.
I would however, certainly avoid someone who [thinks] they love me and don't even realize that the reasons they [feel] they love ME actually has everything to do with themselves and everything that makes THEM feel good and "feel complete".
If somebody that claims to love you doesn't love what you love and won't or can't oversee what you need, yet, insists on having you and insists that they love you-thats all about what they love about you and want they want of/from you for THEMSELVES.
Typically...(person-depending) I'm either going to take the time to have the talk (about what 'love' is really about). Or I'm just gonna curve you until you get tired of the chase.
While we can love someone for why we love them and receive that love; it's not always a good reason to be in a relationship.
P.S. and Fact🎯
Like (part of) what I do here, that answer to that Ask provided a lot of clarity—(and closure) for quite a few people.🙏🏽
I love this space.
No trepidation, confusion or hesitation.
I would however, certainly avoid someone who [thinks] they love me and don't even realize that the reasons they [feel] they love ME actually has everything to do with themselves and everything that makes THEM feel good and "feel complete".
If somebody that claims to love you doesn't love what you love and won't or can't oversee what you need, yet, insists on having you and insists that they love you-thats all about what they love about you and want they want of/from you for THEMSELVES.
Typically...(person-depending) I'm either going to take the time to have the talk (about what 'love' is really about). Or I'm just gonna curve you until you get tired of the chase.
While we can love someone for why we love them and receive that love; it's not always a good reason to be in a relationship.
P.S. and Fact🎯
Like (part of) what I do here, that answer to that Ask provided a lot of clarity—(and closure) for quite a few people.🙏🏽
I love this space.
grateful an appreciative of the little things
One of the best feelings in the world.
I am as well.
One cannot imagine just how much.
I am as well.
One cannot imagine just how much.
That someone needs you implies an obligation with that person? What would you do in that situation?
If i check for/love somebody, and I know they love them some Angie, I don't see them as an obligation. I don't mind/like being needed if I love you. And will press pause to tend to you.
Some of you people on here must really feel like you’re special lmao
Everybody is—including You.
How does pride affect your relationships?
Self-respect >
Self preservation >
Self-care >
Pride <
I don't let pride get in the way of what and who I trust + value. And if who or what we are or were to each other is worth salavaging or rekindling.
Self preservation >
Self-care >
Pride <
I don't let pride get in the way of what and who I trust + value. And if who or what we are or were to each other is worth salavaging or rekindling.
Crazy for you - Madonna
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What do you think about subliminal messages? Have you ever found hidden messages in the things you see and hear?
Dear God yes... Eeerily so...
Synchronicity...
Synchronicity...
In the seconds before you die, you are allowed to know everyone who was secretly in love with you at some point. Do you want to know?
That sounds really sweet but: No.
But, to explain. 🤔
My close loved ones know and have strict instructions about the plans for my end life - which doesn't include a funeral or any crowd gathering arrangements of any kind.
Why not? I'm living.
If, while alive and breathing; I am not cool with / on good terms with you, why tf "pay respects" at my death. That's straight fuckery to me.
While I'm living, you had every opportunity to pay respect while im blessed with the breath of life.
All that explained, 👆given that. No. While it is certainly sweet to know everyone that was in love with me while I have breath of life, I don't think it's necessary (for me) to know before I die.
I'd just only hope being "in love with me" I sparked something that you can remember me for, that does something for you, going forward🙏🏽
But, to explain. 🤔
My close loved ones know and have strict instructions about the plans for my end life - which doesn't include a funeral or any crowd gathering arrangements of any kind.
Why not? I'm living.
If, while alive and breathing; I am not cool with / on good terms with you, why tf "pay respects" at my death. That's straight fuckery to me.
While I'm living, you had every opportunity to pay respect while im blessed with the breath of life.
All that explained, 👆given that. No. While it is certainly sweet to know everyone that was in love with me while I have breath of life, I don't think it's necessary (for me) to know before I die.
I'd just only hope being "in love with me" I sparked something that you can remember me for, that does something for you, going forward🙏🏽
Is hiding the truth considered lying?
That's one of those real fine lines that depends on:
🤔🤥Is that 'truth" necessary? (Some truths are better left known by you. Period. Dot. )
🤔🤥Who - what kind of person - you're hiding the truth from (some people take truth serum / truth talks and become better while it weakens others & backfires on you/makes them resent you 🔥(this is the area where it pays to only be close to/ surround yourself with / only deal with mentally savvy and emotionally intelligent people. Because they know how to use truth and info to their advantage - or their arsenal for now, later or if ever)
🤔🤥 Is this "truth" something you are amid/in the middle of or something ongoing? If that is the case then yes, whatever that truth is; it is essentially "lying."
🤔🤥Is that 'truth" necessary? (Some truths are better left known by you. Period. Dot. )
🤔🤥Who - what kind of person - you're hiding the truth from (some people take truth serum / truth talks and become better while it weakens others & backfires on you/makes them resent you 🔥(this is the area where it pays to only be close to/ surround yourself with / only deal with mentally savvy and emotionally intelligent people. Because they know how to use truth and info to their advantage - or their arsenal for now, later or if ever)
🤔🤥 Is this "truth" something you are amid/in the middle of or something ongoing? If that is the case then yes, whatever that truth is; it is essentially "lying."
Will everything be okay..?
I promise. ..
what do you do when you don’t wanna do anything
▪︎ Lay down in quiet.
▪︎ Drive around absorbing music.
▪︎ Go have lunch/dinner alone.
▪︎ Drive around absorbing music.
▪︎ Go have lunch/dinner alone.
I still love you. . .us that crazy
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In your opinion, is it wise for a couple to live together before getting married?
I think so.
Cohabitation is too important and permanent to find out any surprises post marriage (versus just "a relationship").
Cohabitation is too important and permanent to find out any surprises post marriage (versus just "a relationship").
Heyyy sweetheart
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