If you could teach one concept to everyone in the world, which concept would you choose that would have the greatest positive impact?
1) That all we really have is now. Not tomorrow/the future. Not yesterday/the past. And that when we dwell or obsess or even insist on anything but now, that's when all internal systems and wires get crossed.2) We have to learn to take people one day at a time (friendships, relationships, and even relatives). Our biggest problems occur when we put tenure and longevity on people. We wake up with a continuum of expectations-rather than adhering to the FACT that we are flesh filled. And people can switch up on you at any time. But if at 11:59 p.m. end of day, that good/great day you and the homie/lover/friend is left at THAT...and you simply wake the next day merely expecting (and accepting) the restart / anew, you relinquish expectations of that tenure we are so used to giving people.Look at it like this: There are 24 hrs jobs. There are 9 to 5 jobs. Most 24/7/365 jobs are greasy or dusty. 9 to 5 jobs cut off, lock tge doors and start anew the next day.Those 2 analogies are kinda like how we have to look at people. And have NEW expectations vs. tenured/old thinking patterns: When we condition people with whom we are related or have relationsips with that there is no continnum of credit for longevity, they treat you less greasy and dusty. They know that you only have an expectation of a repeat of that same awesome day again. Back to business. JUST like a refresh, new 9 to 5.Welcome to my TED talk. Thank you for coming.🙏🏽
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When your husband blocks you. What do you do
Probably not to be mean. Maybe knowing you have access just cramps his style a bit. Being too conscious (or self conscious) that the wife can look on probably kills his vibe. Even if he's doing nothing sneaky.
I've never used a dishwasher. On my 2nd big pretty stainless steel one with all the magic - that'll never even be opened.You follow me here? 🗣Then you know about the apartment I rented for 2 years and never opened the dishwasher 'til move out day: Viola! A dishwasher filled with brown bottles of beer. I never knew what was in there.🤭
This girl from school said I’ll never be a model how can I show her she wrong?
LoL.
Show me off or keep me to your self
To myself. It's where the sincerity and truth is-fueled and refueled by nothing but the You and Me-between us is.😋
If a guy say “I loved her” (referring to his ex) does that mean in the past or he possibly still does?
I mean..thats very noble of him...But typically, if he will admit that (to his current woman) it kinda/maybe means there's a soft spot or memory/memories tucked away.But if it were ME...I would have some pillow talk with him...to encourage him to let his feelings out...to see if there's a torch/unresolved feelings/unfinished business. I have a patent submitted for a process/methodology/utility for a psychological exercise for reverse psychology cheating. And [in it] I explain the secrecy of our forced subconscious - conscious thoughts and how secrecy holds power. Secrets have power when they are kept secret. Secrets lose power when you encourage [him] to hand it over--but without scorn, incident or anger.{ https://othersideofthefame.com/rpc-reverse-psychology-cheating/ }
Accept "failure" as a learning curve or experience. A mere chance to reinvent, rework and redo. That's it. 🙏🏽😘 Failure is mere a bad-sounding word. Not an end-all.