How fast can you type? ⌨️ 📱 😇
Eh, fast-ish. It really depends on how I feel. I deal with joint pain, and meds that can cause me to have issues with cognitive function. But on a good day, I can type about 44 words per minute. 😄
❤️ Likes
show all
🔥 Rewards
show all
Latest answers from anonamouse
What activities/hobbies give you dopamine? (What hobbies make you go absolutely crazy?)
I absolutely LOVE hiking, bowling, gaming, hairstyling, doing makeup, cooking, baking, drawing, painting, and writing. I also, love going to amusement parks and festivals, but it’s rare I actually get a chance to go to either one. I was lucky enough though, to experience TWO festivals last year, and it made me so happy! 😁
However, hiking has to be one of the top ones… Especially if it’s a more difficult hike, and you get the payoff of an amazing view at the end, plus being out in nature, it doesn’t get much better than that for me. Like the amount of dopamine is HIGH! 😂☺️
(Took this after completing one of many hikes in Hawaii. This is what I mean when I say payoff.) 😍
However, hiking has to be one of the top ones… Especially if it’s a more difficult hike, and you get the payoff of an amazing view at the end, plus being out in nature, it doesn’t get much better than that for me. Like the amount of dopamine is HIGH! 😂☺️
(Took this after completing one of many hikes in Hawaii. This is what I mean when I say payoff.) 😍
Have you ever competed in a sport of any kind? ⚽🏋️🐎
Only time I’ve ever competed was in volleyball when I was like 11… And I only did it maybe 5 times before I quit the team. 😅😂
Let’s just say, I wasn’t the best at it, and the team/coach weren’t the most supportive/helpful. So, I just felt largely out of place and not very welcome. I also, started getting benched every game cause the coach had obvious favorites. 🥴 I think I would’ve maybe gotten into it more if I had a better team, had more practice, etc, as I genuinely did enjoy the competition aspect of things! 😯
Let’s just say, I wasn’t the best at it, and the team/coach weren’t the most supportive/helpful. So, I just felt largely out of place and not very welcome. I also, started getting benched every game cause the coach had obvious favorites. 🥴 I think I would’ve maybe gotten into it more if I had a better team, had more practice, etc, as I genuinely did enjoy the competition aspect of things! 😯
How well do you trust your gut feelings?
Eh, not super well, but more than I used to… As a recovering people pleaser, I can honestly say that I still have a bit of a hard time with this. I also get anxious about if my gut feeling is correct or not, and whether or not following it would be good for me. Even though, the majority of the time, my gut feeling is correct. 😅
But more than that, even if I am trusting of my gut feelings, it’s a matter of following them and acting accordingly that is challenging for me. Again, I think that’s largely down to people pleasing tendencies, and that they can make me a bit avoidant/indecisive, and ultimately make me not follow through with what I want.
I am getting better with it though… Like, there’s been times like within the last year or two where I’ve truly felt proud for sticking to my gut feeling, even when it’s hard on me. It’s just a matter of continually working on it, and also figuring out why I get so nervous, and therefore, can confront those issues and start healing from them. 🤔
But more than that, even if I am trusting of my gut feelings, it’s a matter of following them and acting accordingly that is challenging for me. Again, I think that’s largely down to people pleasing tendencies, and that they can make me a bit avoidant/indecisive, and ultimately make me not follow through with what I want.
I am getting better with it though… Like, there’s been times like within the last year or two where I’ve truly felt proud for sticking to my gut feeling, even when it’s hard on me. It’s just a matter of continually working on it, and also figuring out why I get so nervous, and therefore, can confront those issues and start healing from them. 🤔
Do you think you’d go crazy if you were to be on here almost all the time? Why or why not?
I would not be doing well if I still had anonymous questions on, and was on here even the amount I am now. I’ll say that. I actually was close to deleting my account after a brief time of having it on. I truly found it to be quite miserable. Basically blocked and reported people on a near daily basis. 🥴 Only reason I stayed is because I turned off anonymous questions, and found good people to follow.
But now? No I don’t think I’d mind being on here constantly… I mean, I’m on here frequently throughout the day as it is and I actually enjoy it now. It’s fun to ask/answer questions, and interact with people. ☺️
But now? No I don’t think I’d mind being on here constantly… I mean, I’m on here frequently throughout the day as it is and I actually enjoy it now. It’s fun to ask/answer questions, and interact with people. ☺️
-Space-
Are the flowers fake? Yes. Did I still find them pretty enough to take a picture of? Also, yes. 😌🤭
You think parents teach the kids about sex the right way or the wrong way?
I mean, it absolutely depends on the parents. Some do it right, some don’t, some do the best they can based on the education they got, etc. It’s hard to make a broad conclusion about it, given it’s likely different for everyone. And if you factor in people’s beliefs, ranging from cultural, to religious, etc, there’s gonna be even bigger differences. Since I can only speak about it personally, I will do that.
When it comes to my parents approach, it wasn’t bad by any means, but it surely wasn’t like… an open conversation. My mom used to tell me to ask questions about it if I was curious, and my dad didn’t really talk about it at all. 🤷🏼♀️
The younger versions of me, who wasn’t even aware of what asexuality was or that there was a term for it, was curious. But not about s*x itself. I was more curious why I didn’t care about it at all, and why just the mere thought of s*x in regards to myself, made me uncomfortable. 😅 I was told a lot that it’s normal not to feel anything at first, you just have to “meet the right person” or “hit a certain age” and all of a sudden, you’ll feel it. But I didn’t. And that is something I wish I was taught. That not wanting s*x isn’t abnormal, nor does it mean something is fundamentally wrong with me or my body (as asexuality has nothing to do with hormones or your body functioning, it’s attraction based).
I’m not a parent myself, but if I ever were to have kids, I’d want them to have a good s*x education, and know that they not only can ask me questions, but also, that they can have open conversation with me about it. There’s no shame, no guilt, no taboos around it, it’s a totally normal thing to be curious about (or not), talk about, etc. And also, teach them firm boundaries that they are in charge of what they do with their bodies, and not to let anyone guilt, or coerce them into it if it’s not what they want. And that’s what I believe is the right way to teach kids about s*x. ☺️
When it comes to my parents approach, it wasn’t bad by any means, but it surely wasn’t like… an open conversation. My mom used to tell me to ask questions about it if I was curious, and my dad didn’t really talk about it at all. 🤷🏼♀️
The younger versions of me, who wasn’t even aware of what asexuality was or that there was a term for it, was curious. But not about s*x itself. I was more curious why I didn’t care about it at all, and why just the mere thought of s*x in regards to myself, made me uncomfortable. 😅 I was told a lot that it’s normal not to feel anything at first, you just have to “meet the right person” or “hit a certain age” and all of a sudden, you’ll feel it. But I didn’t. And that is something I wish I was taught. That not wanting s*x isn’t abnormal, nor does it mean something is fundamentally wrong with me or my body (as asexuality has nothing to do with hormones or your body functioning, it’s attraction based).
I’m not a parent myself, but if I ever were to have kids, I’d want them to have a good s*x education, and know that they not only can ask me questions, but also, that they can have open conversation with me about it. There’s no shame, no guilt, no taboos around it, it’s a totally normal thing to be curious about (or not), talk about, etc. And also, teach them firm boundaries that they are in charge of what they do with their bodies, and not to let anyone guilt, or coerce them into it if it’s not what they want. And that’s what I believe is the right way to teach kids about s*x. ☺️
Is spring kicking into high gear where you live? How's that making you feel? 🌻🌿
It’s definitely getting to that point around here! It’s been pretty rainy, but the temperatures have honestly been fairly consistent! Like within a 10 degree margin usually. The trees have begun blooming, and there’s a lot of really beautiful flowers out and about. I’ve even seen bumblebees flying around in my backyard. 😁
I absolutely love the fact that it’s changing, and when it’s not raining, it’s sunny and blue skies. Makes me feel so motivated and just happy in general! I’m very much looking forward to getting outside more often, and hopefully having more energy to do things! ☺️
I absolutely love the fact that it’s changing, and when it’s not raining, it’s sunny and blue skies. Makes me feel so motivated and just happy in general! I’m very much looking forward to getting outside more often, and hopefully having more energy to do things! ☺️
How is your day going? 💖
Today hasn’t been too interesting so far. Only thing that was a minor inconvenience is there was a power outage in my area for almost 2 hours this morning.
I am looking forward to tonight though, as I’m gonna go spend time with my grandma, probably get some food as well. Also, it’s a really pretty day outside, so that makes me happy. ☺️
I am looking forward to tonight though, as I’m gonna go spend time with my grandma, probably get some food as well. Also, it’s a really pretty day outside, so that makes me happy. ☺️
Are you more of a saver or a spender? 💰 😇
I’m more of a saver… But I really like spending money though. I have to control myself and rationally think about things I’m buying, cause I’d likely just impulse buy things and not even blink if I didn’t stop myself and go “But, do you NEED this right now?” 🙈😬
If you were thrown into a professional kitchen and were expected to cook, do you think you'd be able to keep up? 🔪🔥(Inspired by this year's student musical I was part of)
Absolutely not! 😂 I’d be so overwhelmed and stressed out trying to keep up, and I think I’d have A LOT of angry people that are waiting for way too long.
Also, I’m not a good enough cook to make consistent, good quality food, especially on a time limit and when that’s not my sole focus. 😅 I sometimes struggle with multitasking and staying on track anyways, my brain just doesn’t process things that fast. I’d honestly be worried I’d undercook foods and make people sick or something. 😳
Also, I’m not a good enough cook to make consistent, good quality food, especially on a time limit and when that’s not my sole focus. 😅 I sometimes struggle with multitasking and staying on track anyways, my brain just doesn’t process things that fast. I’d honestly be worried I’d undercook foods and make people sick or something. 😳
