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Are you high School student? Or college student? What you take and where your School?

Christina basically said WAKE UP LISA. Your life is happening right now and you’re steering it in a crap direction. No more playing the victim when you’re the one doing this to yourself. You’re putting yourself in dumb situations and then wondering why you’re unhappy. You have to change if you want your life to change.
I was like whoa. Okay. I hate hearing that but I can’t deny it’s true.
I wrote down all the things I wanted to START doing and all the things I needed to STOP doing. It wasn’t my actions that needed to change so much as my mindset. I gave myself a mental makeover. Changing my hair was not unhealthy. Relying on it to keep my life exciting was. Talking to guys was not damaging. Wasting my time on unrealistic people who would never be there for me was. Wearing makeup was not a problem. Hiding behind my image and only wanting people to see me as “pretty and exciting” was.

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Waking up from the haze I’d been in for the past 13 years was the most painful, shameful thing I’ve ever experienced. I kicked and screamed and cried the whole way through it. December 5th, 2017, Christina had a harsh talk with me. It was not a pretty conversation. She was fed up with my attitude, how incredibly distant I was from my family and most of all she was concerned for where my life was heading. I listened and processed slowly. I didn’t react at first. I knew what she was saying was mostly true. I had very few friends, I wasn’t close with hardly anyone, I was very caught up in my image and hid myself from the world at all costs. I had become a hollow person and I knew I didn’t like it.
But all last year I’d been telling myself I was setting myself free. I was doing what I wanted to do. I was following my desires. Focusing on looking the way I wanted to look, growing my social media, talking to whatever guys I wanted to talk to, “living the life”. But when it was laid out in front of me I couldn’t deny it. I was empty inside and living like a lost high schooler at the age of 24. I couldn’t ignore it. I couldn’t avoid it. I had to take action.
I went home and journaled. I wrote pages and pages trying to process everything I just realized. I was image obsessed. I was shallow. I was obsessed with worldly things. My sharp intelligent mind was going to waste. I was spending so much time on guys who didn’t value me, weren’t realistic to date and would never bring any sort of peace or stability to my life. I was never going to be in a healthy relationship if I stayed on that path. I didn’t believe in love and I definitely didn’t believe it was something I could ever have. I was hiding myself. I wasn’t living like a real person. I know I’ve told this story in bits and pieces but I’m deeper into it now and reaping the rewards so I wanted to share them with you guys.

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Can intellect outweigh attractive looks?

First off, I can’t speak for anyone else. I’m not saying this will happen to or work for any of you, this is just what I’ve realized about myself but if you end up relating and it helps you then that is amazing and makes me very happy :)
Basically I’ve had a giant mental shift. I’ve never thought this way which is crazy cuz now that I’ve lived it for six months it seems so basic and idk why I waited so long to put it into practice.
I was a sad person for 13 years, since 2005. As soon as I became consciously aware of my feelings, I saw all the darkness in life and I was not scared of it. It seemed fake to pretend it wasn’t there and it definitely wasn’t something I could conquer so I just embraced it. I loved sad songs, I didn’t believe in love and I didn’t trust anyone. I felt comfortably hopeless.
My life used to be something that was happening to me. It’s weird cuz I never wanted to see myself that way. There were things like my career or my looks that I took full control of and because of that, I told myself I was in charge of my destiny and I really believed it. That made things more frustrating because I was still unsatisfied. If I was “in control”, why wasn’t I where I wanted to be? Why wasn’t anything enough for me? Why wasn’t I happy?

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What is something that has changed you so much ?

My life has changed from happiness in between the sadness to sadness in between the happiness and I honestly didn’t think that was possible. The mental shift I had at the beginning of this year is a gift that just keeps giving ???

What is something you want right now?

Spent a few weeks in nyc with @S_BkM and my friends and my car also overheated at the airport but all n all it was a great time to just refresh my mind and relax ?
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Is it hard for you to admit when you’re wrong?

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Not really. I try to apologize immediately when I know that i did something that was all my fault.

Would you rather be blind or deaf?

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Both would suck because if someone needs something such as they forgot to grab a towel while they showed u wouldnt be able to know they needed that by them shouting, and being blind u wouldnt know what you look like or others or see the world around u.

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