And i dont know what to do. If i tell someone she will never talk to me again but i dont want something bad to happen to her. I asked her to promise she wont do anything and she refused to say yes. Im scared please help pt2.
Don't force her she'll feel more pressured. Maybe tell her to try a method that might help such as, writing in a journal/notebook about how she feels and how bad things get for her, there's a butterfly project where you draw a butterfly(doesn't actually need to be a butterfly) on parts of you that you wish or would've harmed, being there and supporting her is good to- even if she's hard to put up with show her you care for her but don't overly do it she might get the wrong impression, maybe if she's not comfortable talking about her feelings she could draw or find a way to transfer her feelings into a picture or words it might be healthier and maybe even slightly more effective? I know I like having people there to comfort me when I feel down and if she feels much worse its only right she has someone there to care for her and guide her no matter the state she's in. I hope in a way this helped?! <3
Hey i heard your good with advice and well... My girlfriend and i are together and she cuts today i started crying because when she goes home she gets yelled at by her parents for no reason but im scared she will do something more than cut. I dont want to lose her she is all i have and care for pt1.
Do you think it's wrong to talk to other people you don't know via Internet if you're in a relationship?
Why /why not?
It depends on what your intentions are. If its someone you've met but don't fully know that's through a friend I guess it's okay but if you're going to flirt or anything like that with them I view that as being disrespectful and untrustworthy to your other half!
Life is the game we play and 'The Game of Life' is what we shall survive. :)
Why do you think at the first sign of things getting rough people turn to drugs and alcohol?
I genuinely have no clue when things go bad for me I take a complete different approach, I don't do drugs or alcohol, I'm rather against it. I think people have the idea that alcohol and drugs would help them feel better but in reality it's only giving them more problems to deal with and I think that might be why they resort to drugs and alcohol, because it gives them another or bigger problem to face. I don't think either method helps and I see it as being used for attention not a way of escaping or dealing with problems. That's just my personal opinion though.
Does falling in love change us as people?
Think back before you fell in love how were you different from how you are now?
To be honest I feel perfectly happy now. I've had ups and downs too often to remember how I used to feel and I felt like that had isolated me from friends and family and I missed out on things because I felt really really crappy, whereas now I am and feel really happy, relaxed and secure. I'm just overall happy with the way things have turned out!
What kind of temptations do you face on a daily basis?
Chocolate. Chocolate is my weakness yet a huge temptation!!! :(