Laura

Which worries you more – doing things right or doing the right things?

August 30, 2016

I'd have to say doing tasks in the right way, I'm too critical with myself and I know I am. It's just hard to change that mentality sometimes especially since I study art, I'm always trying to be critical with my work, sometimes I'm too critical and sometimes I'm not critical enough but I've gotten used to that way of doing things. I think I'm too harsh with myself sometimes I'm always trying- even when I fail or mess up, even if I feel negative about something I strangely push on through and keep going, if I make mistakes I'm always trying to correct them and I guess I do worry about how that impacts my overall performances. ?

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what if the ex tried to make up story to her friends and even spread rumors about you? how would you deal with it? i know it would hurt your ego too becuz you didn't even do anything wrong and you just don't want any issue about you :(

August 30, 2016

Don't put yourself in a position which could irritate her further, it will only get worse! However, don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, for me I'd personally challenge what's been said about me by asking the people who continue to talk about it or pass it on if they truly believe that I'm like that. Make a point of proving the lies/ rumours wrong. People have opinions and that's fine but people can also change those opinions from understanding the reality of the situation and looking at it in a different perspective. It's amazing how others can know so much about someone that they've never spoken to, never heard of and never gotten to know, the best option they have is to have a voice for themselves and go to you and get to know you because their mind could easily be changed after they spend time with you, from seeing a different side to what's been said and what you're really like as a person. As for the ex, you could try talking to her one on one and just ask what the problem is and how the problem can be fixed/avoided. Sometimes that situation doesn't go very well, but I'd say avoid violence and stooping to a lower level than her- use your voice to reach out instead or if anything, make it clear to her that you're not in the wrong because you have cut ties with her ex/boyfriend and that she can have him because you're not interested and deserve someone who's not going to bring along baggage which causes problems for everyone around and involved! ?

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when the guy has feelings for you but has complicated relationship with his ex (on and off) but still chats/texts you. and his ex tries to message you says something bad about you. she even makes meme with your picture. but you didn't do anything wrong. how do you deal with that?

August 30, 2016

Well you have put yourself in the wrong if you interact with her boyfriend/ex who she's still with even if they are on and off. Making a meme is childish if she has something to say, she should just say it and be to the point in a mature way. Sure we struggle to be mature in angry or upsetting situations but you're not doing any favours by retaliating with silly memes. To be honest this guy sounds like bad news, he has brought his baggage to your step and made it a current problem for you, I'd say to remove yourself from their situation completely and find someone who will respect you and your feelings! - Look he's obviously not got true feelings for you if he's still making a fuss about his ex and it's not over if they're still acting like its on and off a lot. You're so much better off avoiding that kind of drama because no matter what ex's, especially girls can be very bitter and malicious to other girls and it's not worth wasting your time on that! I can tell you now, I know if you did still interact with this guy you're going to get yourself hurt not just by him but by the ex who still clearly has her issues with him and is willing to do what it takes to get him to notice and realise that! She isn't going to be considering your feelings at all, in her eyes you have what she still wants or belongs to her. It's really not worth the hassle you're better off walking away from them both and cutting ties with him. ??

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Use 3 words that your best friends would use to describe you

Have Faith In Me

August 29, 2016

Silly, emotional and amusing... At least I think that's what would be said about me? ?✨

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Would you ever try caviar?

.;-kaitlian.

August 29, 2016

Probably not, I need to be very careful and watch what I eat because I've been reacting to random foods recently making me very unwell. ?

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Please don't be angry. Please don't shout. But why do girls have so many insecurities about themselves ? And I am sorry if this sounds offensive, I have no intentions of offending anyone. That's not what I wanna do

August 29, 2016

I think girls are more hormonal and our emotions go up and down like a roller coaster and this causes paranoia and insecurities within us. There could be many reasons for insecurities to build and once they do build up its hard to feel confident or at peace with the way you are. I think people need to stop listening to other people and concentrate on themselves- the more you concentrate on yourself the more other opinions become blurred sounds. You want to experience the more positive experiences you can get out of your life, not sit listening to others who are going to drag you backwards and make you feel terrible. Girls can be more sensitive and emotional especially alone against others. Also girls are more likely to hold a grudge so it's not as easy to forgive and forget, especially because girls can for some reason be vicious towards other girls. It's like a beauty pageant for girls I think, girls always feel the need to compete with other girls in some way we can't ever just say 'hey you're pretty or good at that but I'm quite good at this and that makes us unique in our own way', the moment you feel threatened or intimidated by another girl up comes the insecurities. It's strange because I don't think guys have that problem- if they argue they brush it off and joke about it, girls just don't tend to do that. Who knows, the female mind is a mystery to us girls as much as it is for guys!☺️ ?

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What song are you listening to right now?.exe c:

August 29, 2016

I say a little prayer by Aretha Franklin. I quite like old songs they're relaxing and catchy. ??

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Have you mastered the art of getting what you want? Why and how, if you have?

August 29, 2016

I can't say I have, I'm someone who was brought up to put others first and respect and appreciate what I am lucky enough to own and have around me. I'm very sentimental and have attachments to items which may seem silly to feel emotional about. I feel very fortunate to have my family who are here and there to support me. I feel that with getting what you want lies greed, envy, selfishness and no appreciation for sentimental attachment or value. I don't feel like you can understand the emotions of someone who loses something which seems like nothing to you but means the world to them, you can't understand those feelings if you have no appreciation or understanding of making the best of what you have already. It's quite a nice way to live because there's no ridiculous or unrealistic expectations/ pressures there to meet. ??

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(Last part)college: what are some tips you have? Also, what things do you recommend me to do and not do? What are some ways I can stay out of debt if debt is possible? But trust me, I'm not going to use credit cards lol.

August 29, 2016

I'm not sure what college is like in America but here we can apply for student bursaries or loans. I used to get a bursary and you qualify for that by how much income is coming into your house so that can really help when buying studying materials or is good for covering travel costs! I've never once thought to take a loan because some day you are eventually going to have to pay it back and it's very easy to find yourself in debt with taking out a loan so I wouldn't suggest that unless you feel differently and if it applies to how your college works! I'd say make the best of your time at college, it's great studying a subject which you are passionate about and learning new skills but you meet some really great people there too! if you want to watch how much you spend you could always take a certain amount of money each day or week and have that last you for the time you need it! I usually know how much I need to take to get a train to travel there and then how much I'll need for lunch. I go to the same shop for lunch so I know how much it costs for my lunch each day I'm at college or I'll take a packed lunch to save money! I don't use my bank card but I do have it in case of emergency or if I can't get home on the train I'll get money for the bus. Maybe that could be helpful? I'm really not sure how American colleges work so that's all I can say. ☺️?

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You know I have a serious question. Do you think it is alright for parents to pay for their children while their children are in college? For example, parents pay for their clothes and whatever else. At what age do you think a parent should stop paying for their child(of course when they are 18+)

August 29, 2016

I'm unemployed at the moment and I'm almost 20, I'm still continuously looking for work but it's so much harder in the UK because employment rates are shockingly low and NOT how the government perceives it to be (they seem to think it's on the rise a bit but it's not especially not in Scotland!). Also with leaving the EU the value of the pound (£) has dropped and it's probably going to hit us hard over here soon enough! It's also very very difficult for students to work around college hours which is why I've been rejected a good few times and only a small number of businesses have openly said we don't take students because we're looking for more flexible staff to work during the week. So with me being unemployed my parents do still help me out and I do stuff to help around the house so I'm doing something to earn the help. I'm very fortunate to have the support from my family and they know I have been applying, looking, getting interviews and rejections since I left school, so that's almost 4 years of looking for a job! ? On the bright side I have learned a lot of skills and I've been studying in a subject I love and that makes me happy for 3 years so I don't feel my time has been wasted because in a way I feel it's made me feel quite content. I've enjoyed the courses I've done and even though I can get stressed out by deadlines and things studying that subject doesn't stress me out in a general way, I'm quite happy to be in my class and learn about the subject because it's what I enjoy, know and it's good for me, it's a process that benefits me mentally and emotionally. I enjoy what I'm doing and it's been positive for me to go down this root even if it becomes a hobby or a way of earning extra money alongside a job I'm happy to have experienced and learned some skills there! ??

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Isn't it HORRIBLE when a girl has to make a move when she likes a boy, rather than a boy making a move and having some balls ?

August 29, 2016

Why is it horrible? It's just more traditional that a boy asks a girl out or to go on a date but there's nothing wrong with a girl having the courage to ask a boy. If anything it shows that at least she's interested! - There's guys that complain about girls not showing interest so here's a fine example of how a girl could show interest and confidence in herself! It's very courageous because it's not the traditional thing to do and there's still the possibility of rejection. Sometimes that's how you can tell apart a dominant personality from a more shy natured personality. If you're someone like me who doesn't like, and clashes with dominant figures then maybe it's best you go find out for yourself by making the first move. Why shouldn't girls be allowed to feel confident when looking to find and commit to a relationship with someone. Boys can freely go chatting up girls to boost their confidence, girls should feel they can confidently chat up boys too. ☺️

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How much money do you spend on getting your hair done ?

August 29, 2016

I spend a lot less than my mum she goes more frequently (about every 6-8 weeks she goes) but I let my hair grow a bit to the point I do need a haircut, I got my hair cut in August but before that I'd gotten a little bit off of the edges in February so I can go a good few months without getting a haircut but I did make an appointment for the 23rd of September I think so I probably will just get my fringe cut a bit or might even cancel because it's growing quite fast and I do prefer my hair long! ????

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Just look after yourself ❤

Els

August 29, 2016

Okay so I'm back on for today since I keep getting all of these great questions and it's filling up my box!! Still a bit unwell but time will tell whether my new tablets will work better than the previous tablets- I tell you I'm going to become a regular patient at my doctors surgery, I've been in so many times! ? Thank you lovely people for continuing to send me questions! ??

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Laura I hope you feel better soon :( ❤

Els

August 25, 2016

Thank you! ?
I've decided to take it easy today after a rough night last night! (The answer below this is in more detail of why I've possibly been this unwell)
-I might still check and like answers and things on here so I'm not completely gone but I think I'll just take a break from answering questions today- maybe tomorrow I'll feel more up to answering questions again! ☺️?

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hey Laura,what happened? what sickness did you get? I hope you will get well soon...I'll pray for you :)

August 25, 2016

Thank you, that's very kind! ?
I'm not sure what to medically call it because the doctor I saw was temporary when I got the emergency appointment and I think she was only a trainee. She told me she thinks I have severe heartburn which is unusual for someone at my age! My diet is better than it has ever been so it's not that which is the problem. I'm worried that it might be more serious and could be heart problems, as the medication I was given was working amazingly for the first 5 days but last night I was really really unwell with all of the symptoms I've had since June. It's highly uncomfortable for me especially since I was at a family gathering last night when I started to feel it. I'm a bit worried about the things I'm reacting to because it's random I feel like I need to be extremely careful, all I know is I just can't eat spices now and the rest I'm having to record what I think has made me sick which is really quite difficult to do because I didn't have this problem before when eating or drinking. I'm still taking the medication but I was sick over 7 times again last night and couldn't go to bed when I felt tired because I kept throwing up. I had to sit up until the pains had died down and where I felt I wouldn't throw up again. So I am really tired, I'm more so sleepy just now (managed to get some sleep) but I just wanted to let people know who ask me questions that this is why I've not been as active as I usually am, answered all questions I've received and still could receive! ?

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What makes you nervous?

August 24, 2016

I'll use this as a filler
- Been a bit inactive recently (may not look it as I've answered a few questions during the day), I've not been feeling great and due to being quite unwell again I feel I might not be able to answer all questions I have still waiting or get around to answering the questions I could receive. Please know that I'm not being ignorant, I just need some time and rest to get myself hopefully back to normal! Sorry to anyone who feels/thinks I've just not answered certain questions, I'm just really not up to answering a whole lot right now, I hope that those who send me questions can forgive me for being a bit inactive, seeming selective of questions or because I'm disconnected! ??.
I hope everyone is healthy and happy! ?✨

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It's because she's Mexican that I don't want to date her.

August 24, 2016

What you just sent is disgusting... I'm surprised she even gives you the time of day, never mind anything else! You don't deserve her for being that disrespectful! Since when is being Mexican a problem you shouldn't be put off of someone because of their race, nationality and their physical attributes that you have some weird problem with, just because it doesn't suit your sexual desires. My advice... get over yourself with you're horrendous morals.?

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Is it wrong to refuse a relationship with a woman who I've been having sex with for eight months, she wanted to take it further but I said no.

August 24, 2016

In my opinion I think she deserves better than you! You've wasted her time for 8 months, the fact that it's 8 months is what makes it worse. If a relationship is what she's wanted to pursue from the beginning you both should've spoken about what you both wanted! I don't really have anything else to say because I've been in the position where I've been ready to commit myself to a relationship and multiple people have manipulated that and wasted 4-9 months of my life where I could've done things differently and I might just have been different now if they hadn't happened to enter my life.

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You heard of a 70s TV program called the Goodies?

August 24, 2016

No I think I'm too young for that, bearing in mind I'm almost 20 this is 20+ years older than me. ?

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Do you have a pet(s)? If so, post a picture.exe :D

August 24, 2016

He's having quite a lazy day but he's keeping his eye on all of us (I'm at my gran and grampas)! ??

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How are you all doing today? Wherever you guys are I hope you have a great day, all my love ?

Qahnaarin

August 24, 2016

How sweet! I'm good thank you, I hope you, Nathan and Lucas are all doing great and are all healthy! ??

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How do you deal with people giving rude replies when you send out questions ?

August 24, 2016

It depends really, I know some people answer sarcastically or in a rude way- if it's a question which could be personal or could upset or offend anyone I do say you can ignore it because I don't always expect everyone to answer, but if it's a general question and that's how they answer I just ignore it or don't send them questions in the future. I did ask a question one time, it was something about dreams and a certain person on here wrote back with something which I think they intended to be funny about a particular mental illness that's incurable but they obviously didn't realise that their answer was offensive to me and impacted me emotionally due to what was mentioned being part of my reality. I wasn't okay with the way in which they answered and I did unfollow and block because what was referred to in the answer is not a joke, it's not funny in the slightest and it's never going to be funny for those who have to live around or with it! That person didn't even have what they were talking about to begin with and I'm sure they self diagnose themselves with a lot of illnesses. To be honest I wouldn't follow them again because they were so condescending with their answers and responses to questions of any kind! That was the only major time I felt that I had to unfollow and block someone because I find it unacceptable to joke about illnesses especially incurable mental or physical illnesses! ??

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ever had sex ?

August 24, 2016

You're digging into invasive grounds my friend and no answer will be given.

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What is your opinion of people accusing David Ayer ripping off Die Antwood and other musicians style to create 'Su*cide Squad'? Do you think these people are less aware of the original comics or do you think everyone influences someone's style one way or another?

August 24, 2016

Oh I heard a little bit about this, honestly I don't have any feelings towards it because I actually didn't enjoy the movie as much as I first thought and I also missed the end because I fell asleep (ooops)!!)?! I didn't like the character of Harley Quinn, I feel like I had a completely different picture of her character in my head and her character in the movie was unexpected and a little disappointing for me- however that's not to say or blame the actress who played her because I admire that she got into the character given and she acted that part very well! I just didn't like the movie and it's a shame because I thought I would have enjoyed it!
- Honestly I don't know how you're supposed to do anything these days there's so much copyright laws and it's hard to keep up originality so in that sense. If you can find a muse/ inspiration it's quite hard to transform it into a completely new concept or in this case character! As much as it's difficult I still think maybe they could've tried harder to make her character more unique and original than to copy someone else's style and persona! That's all I can really say! ☺️?

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What usually makes you feel unloved ?

August 24, 2016

-Blatant ignorance
-Feeling lonely in the company of others
-Feeling oppressed in regards to my thoughts and feelings
-Being taken advantage of in any form
-Manipulation/feeling like a doormat
-Lies
-No or little trust
-Excuses
-No effort: time, emotion, thought and consideration
-Being undermined can sometimes play a part
-Someone who's willing to get up and leave me despite me having been there for them or helping them
-Bragging about others with potentially better/ more interesting qualities than I have
-General loss
-Condescending attitudes
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