would you say that you're a judgemental type of person when you literally first meet someone?
I admit I do sometimes, but I give that person the benefit of the doubt and let them prove my initial first impression to be wrong or misleading! :)
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if a zombie outbreak suddenly happened, honestly how prepared physically and mentally would you be?
As much as I like to prepare and have an escape plan for wherever I go I don't think I'd be mentally or physically prepared who knows how long the outbreak would last and how long we'd survive! I'd probably have a mental panic attack and freak out trying to find ways to survive! XD
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what subjects in school did you most enjoy and why ?
Art because that's my thing to be creative and expressive! I have only the creative side of the brain there's like 0 logic or reasoning in my brain I'm 100% creative and expressive! :) I also loved Photography and got myself an A which really impressed my teacher and myself because he thought I'd scrape getting a B but I did well and put a lot of hard work, concentration and effort into my photography portfolio! ??
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Best thin if you did stunts is you could jump onto those big mats
I would probably miss I'm very clumsy!! ?
which one plays the biggest part in your growing up/life, friends or family? or are they equal if so how have they helped you to become the person you're today
I changed and realised things on my own but I'd have to say family did help at some points because there were certain family members who I've hurt above and beyond and they were still there for me when I had bad experiences but I took full responsibility for earning back their trust, time and respect. I also went back to my true self before I hurt myself and caused more destruction for those involved at those points! My friends at the time, didn't know about certain things because I didn't trust them enough and they didn't prove to me that I could trust them. There's a number of personal issues that I had kept to myself because I couldn't and didn't feel that I could tell anyone or trust anyone to help me out. I've drifted from those people I used to call friends even knowing them for 18/19 years we barely speak at all and it's because I felt the full friendship was false if I put my time and effort on the line for them, it wasn't returned, they weren't there when I needed them. They thought very little of me, probably still do and it showed at the end of a conversation that I got blamed for and was left sour but I took the blame as I do and haven't really spoken since! When I needed help I really did need help but I had to deal with all of the things on my own and I don't deal with bringing any of it up at all, even now it still really hurts me trying to talk or thinking about it, it's hard for me to open up about because I do keep to myself and have issues with trusting certain things because of it!
hate is a strong word, where or when etc would you use the word hate ?
Hate can describe a strong negative passion though in the right context, like if you're talking about an unfortunate event that you find disturbing or disgraceful like murders or kidnappings you could use hate as a strong word to describe the nature and passion of how much you disagree and wish it didn't exist! I sometimes use it sarcastically if I'm talking about doing a subject in my course I don't particularly like I'll moan and say oh I hate that but really I just have little or no interest in the subject! :)
I read in the newspaper Saturday that a boy and his mum got shot weather they lived or not I don't know I forgotten, they were in Manchester shot by a gang, I'm horrified that it happened etc. what are your thoughts on this?
I haven't heard about this but it's definitely not acceptable, that's why I have strong feelings towards American legally being allowed to own guns, I get that some Americans use it for protection from trespassers or burglaries but I do think the fact that its legal encourages criminal behaviour and I don't like that but I can't really say its completely wrong because I know people do use it as a source and form of protection! That's such a shame to think this could happen to anyone, anywhere! You don't expect to wake up and fear to go out because you know you're going to be shot or attacked this shouldn't happen and it saddens me that it does because so many innocent people end up involved whether they were in the wrong place at the wrong time or have nothing to do with any of the people involved! There's so much crime and it almost feels like its evolving but the question is how do we decrease this and stop/ prevent these situations from happening!? :/
do you have certain family members that you tolerate because it'll just be easier for everyone all around ?
Unfortunately yes... I used to be very very close to these members but their actions and attitudes for a certain personal matter really left me feeling disheartened and disappointed. I'm not sure I can keep pretending its okay or dismiss it from my conscious, It really bothers me but I have to tolerate it because of the circumstances and due to another member of the family! I wish this wasn't the case though!
That is stupid lol, I need a way to headstand against. Haven't even tried that in ages though nor the roll
I was about 10 when I tried it, I think I thought I was a stunt person... Clearly not, I'm not cut out for those adventurous roles! ?
Forward flip on a trampoline is cool. I can do headstands and a forward roll
I tried to do a handstand with rollerblades on.... Don't try it EVER, I hurt my neck badly because of the weight of the roller blades! Well I learned my lesson think before you do something as stupid as that! XD
could you imagine your life without actually having emotions, if it were possible to do so ?
I don't think I could imagine that without having an emotion present! I'm quite an emotional person so I'm not exactly sure how my life would be or turn out without emotions, I suppose I'd come across as a monster with vicious intentions I'm not completely sure, you've got me stumped with this haha! :o
Can you do cartwheels and what other gymnastic moves can you do?
Wow I have lots of questions to answer I'm not used to this many!! - I'll answer as soon as I can!
I used to do cartwheels across the garden, I had little competitions with my cousins when we were younger! I went to trampolining classes too and learned cool tricks but I was so proud that I could finally do a forward flip... Not too impressive but I was fairly chuffed! I've not done anything like that in years though so I'm not sure what I can still do in terms of gymnastics! ?
I used to do cartwheels across the garden, I had little competitions with my cousins when we were younger! I went to trampolining classes too and learned cool tricks but I was so proud that I could finally do a forward flip... Not too impressive but I was fairly chuffed! I've not done anything like that in years though so I'm not sure what I can still do in terms of gymnastics! ?
if you had unlimited money, what would you honestly do with it?
I know I would save a lot of it but I'd feel compelled to share it with one or multiple charities, maybe ones that have significant meaning to me that I think will benefit them! I don't think I would go spending it all in one go that seems very stupid and being a student money is limited so saving and spending as little as you can is everything! :)
when you're in distress, what methods do you have to calm you down ?
I like to try and focus on something else than feeling distressed so I might drown my feelings out with music, paint, draw or write what I feel just to let it out. Or I'll look at something that makes me feel positive to try and push the negative thoughts to the back of my mind. :)
what kind of questions do you like to receive and what type do you not want to receive?
Well I don't answer anything sent like this:
-Opinions or ratings or @'s on so and so..
-Too personal questions (but I might chose to answer for whatever reason)
- Stupid, sexual or hurtful comments or opinions about myself
- Topics like Feminism because there's certain people who take my opinion far too seriously and start arguments because they feel offended by my opinion or thoughts. (Sometimes I will if answer though)
- like for like ---> (won't do this at all, I like what I agree with or find interesting or amusing)
-Follow for follow--> (I follow who I chose to follow not because you ask)
-Weird questions for example.. "Opinion on fingernail punishment"
-Links (unless I decide to for whatever reason)
-"Pap of"... Example- feet (Not going to happen)
-I won't answer creepy questions regarding my personal life or content of a sexual nature.
-Opinions that are unnecessary
-Opinions or ratings or @'s on so and so..
-Too personal questions (but I might chose to answer for whatever reason)
- Stupid, sexual or hurtful comments or opinions about myself
- Topics like Feminism because there's certain people who take my opinion far too seriously and start arguments because they feel offended by my opinion or thoughts. (Sometimes I will if answer though)
- like for like ---> (won't do this at all, I like what I agree with or find interesting or amusing)
-Follow for follow--> (I follow who I chose to follow not because you ask)
-Weird questions for example.. "Opinion on fingernail punishment"
-Links (unless I decide to for whatever reason)
-"Pap of"... Example- feet (Not going to happen)
-I won't answer creepy questions regarding my personal life or content of a sexual nature.
-Opinions that are unnecessary
are you proud to be Scottish?
I would say I am in the sense that Scotland is definitely undermined and is mocked a lot by the English Government which is highly unfair! I think we Scottish folk make good use of what we have despite the English Government and a lot of Scottish people are really quite friendly and convey a great passion for the country, sports teams and lifestyle, I think the Scottish people really come together in signs of struggle and weakness when things go wrong and I admire that about the people here! I think Scotland and the people here need more appreciation especially because I don't think a lot of foreign countries know that the United Kingdom is not just England! I feel like people are less aware of Scotland and definitely think that we're some form of foreign alien because I always get asked what I do for hobbies and at the weekend and when I start to list things they go oh I didn't realise you did the same things as we do in (insert country) it's almost offensive what do people expect we do here? Wear Kilts and tartan all day everyday and throw logs like its the Highland games everyday... No we dress how we like whether that's like a posh snob, like a goth or emo or just wearing random patterned clothes and we go to school, shopping, ice skating, to the cinema, theatre and to amusement parks. That kind of annoys me that people aren't as aware..
what qualities do you look out in a potential partner, good and bad ?
Well my history is a mess up until now!! :') I went out with guys who I feel just used me over and over again and treated me with the most lies and disrespect. I have a strange attachment to damaged or broken beings and my ex's are a prime example of that. Looking back I have to wonder what possessed me to even go through with giving any of them my time, expenses or efforts. I won't bad mouth too much I'll leave it at that because I don't really want to bring any of that up I've left that in the past and moved on to new and better things!
I'm more attracted to someone who isn't dominant because I hate dominance and arrogance! I like to be affectionate and have an emotional connection, trust and loyalty are massive traits for me, someone who I can have fun with, smile, laugh and create memories with. Someone who treats me well and doesn't ignore me for something or someone else, I like when someone will take an interest in me and know things about me as much as i try to know and learn about them because that proves to me that they're not going to be self centres and will more likely make compromises to do or be with you which I like because I like to try and put effort into a relationship myself.
I'm more attracted to someone who isn't dominant because I hate dominance and arrogance! I like to be affectionate and have an emotional connection, trust and loyalty are massive traits for me, someone who I can have fun with, smile, laugh and create memories with. Someone who treats me well and doesn't ignore me for something or someone else, I like when someone will take an interest in me and know things about me as much as i try to know and learn about them because that proves to me that they're not going to be self centres and will more likely make compromises to do or be with you which I like because I like to try and put effort into a relationship myself.
do you have a fashion sense? could you explain what it is and how you get one ?
Actually I don't I just pick out designs, materials and patterns that I like, I mostly mix and match I usually keep it plain and simple! I mostly wear dark or earthy colours so colours like: red, black, grey, blue, teal, green, orange and purple... But sometimes I do try to brighten up a bit and wear lighter colours that I normally wouldn't! :)
what are your opinions relating to this site /app ? do you like it ?
Without the drama, cyber bullying and creeps this could be a great site. I do like Ask because you can see what other people's opinions and thoughts are on many different subjects and topics, personally, I like it because I can open up about things and it mentally helps me to be more open than suppress my feelings and thoughts! I also like to ask and receive questions because I'm a divergent thinker I look for different ideas and thoughts I can think to have one direct solution so that could be one other reason why I like this app/site. I just can't be bothered with creeps, inappropriate questions/comments and people causing unnecessary trouble but I have gotten to know a few great people from here and have become friends with them.
we use 10% of are brain at the moment, my friend at work said we are ready to unlock 20% but just don't know how, if we did know how, do you think you would be ready as a individual? do you think are race could handle it too ?
Personally I'm not sure I could handle that but maybe someone else is, maybe this could be tested using the younger generation because you could take someone who's older and compare both levels of brain activity to see which would benefit more? I think it would be hard to determine a suitable person because you have many different mental states and even mental illnesses to consider while testing something like that! It's be great to see if that worked though.
do you have a high pain barrier?
I'm quite an emotional person my barrier is only when someone digs too deep I put up a defensive barrier so they can't get to my most personal fears, issues and secrets! I can pretend to be rough on the outside, unfortunately I'm used to it but I wouldn't want that for anyone else being hurt or feeling pain is horrible I like to think there's some way to prevent too much pain even if there's no solid solution there's no harm in trying different methods to see which helps or is most effective!
do you believe that we as a race or individuals have a purpose?
Both because some people feel they are and can be a part of something bigger and maybe less confident individuals see there being a purpose in themselves! I feel like I have a purpose to do with caring but I'm not exactly sure what it is I'm supposed to do with the feelings towards having this purpose so I help in any way I can. Makes me feel happier and I feel better knowing I can help and provide support for others! So I do think there can be a purpose it's just not always clear! ??
do you have a favourite phone brand you like ?
I've got a Sony Xperia, I'm definitely not an apple fan, I've had so many issues with apples products and updates so my phone will stay Android because I've not had any problems with any of the updates or features! :)
aw I'm sorry I shouldn't of asked
It's okay I chose to answer because I think everyone faces an experience or phase like I have and they can learn and change that before it destroys them as a person! I think it's a lesson from trying to discover who you are and are meant to be at least that's how I felt about my experience. I do regret it but I've found that I'm the same type of person and have the same personality traits as when I was younger it just wasn't clear to me then and I learned my mistakes and regrets in the most difficult way possible I could've had. I'm more appreciative of who I am now and when I think about it the things that happened then have been a major rocky step forward that's lead me back into the right direction, I learned I had to work at everything to earn trust and respect etc from the most important people that I hurt. "Not everything is what it seems" but I don't want to live in the past I'm still trying to move forward and keep going than go backwards! :)
what do you remember doing at 11/12 ?
Im going to be totally honest and open about it because I feel and have changed, learned from and improved since then!- I remember being a total brat and I hate who I was and pretended to be back then, I don't like thinking about that. I hurt a lot of people and hurt myself more in the process which I'm very ashamed of and regret. I've got demons and I don't wish to go back to them I'd rather leave them back there and feel free of them... I'm back to being my true original self now and I'm happy with that.
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