"men and romance"? I am not a guy but I will say this. Most guys know very little about romance. Most guys know only sex. Sex is love (romance). That's their romance.
"art lover"? Yes. It depends as to what interests/speaks to me. Most art-works are being vandalized/torn down because it's either offensive, politically correct. Same as books & movies. Art is expression. You look at it, listen, use your imagination, create what is personally yours. Art is learning.