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I hope you have an amazing fantabulous day

I did, considering I woke up to the cutest questions ever YOU FRICKING CUTIE <3
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you're really great

Aw thank you so much, I'm really not though. If anything I'm average with a hint of pretension.
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HAVE U EVER Kissed someone: Been Drunk: Cried Myself to Sleep: Self harmed: Felt lonely: Been depressed: Smoked: WHATS YOUR? Age: Birthday: Relationship status: DO YOU? Like someone: Love someone: Have a bf/gf : Want a bF/GF: Have a tattoo: Piercing: WOULD YOU EVER? do drugs: have sex:

Yeah, yeah, I think so yeah, no, yeah of course, yeah, no.
18, 18th July, Single and ready to binge on Pringles.
I guess, yeah my family and friends, nope, Idk I guess, nope, nope.
No that shit's silly, yee.
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What is the last thing that made you laugh out loud?

My sister said something and I took it out of context and I went into hysterics. Wine makes me giggly.
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How do you know that you're in love?

I sent Liane a 'question' earlier about it so I'm going to copy some of that and add on to it.
In my opinion love is an abstract idea, it's real but it's very hard to define or imagine accurately; however I see love as a mixture between infatuation, trust and long term engagement. Pure infatuation is summed up perfectly by the term 'Limerence'.
Limerence is defined as 'a state of mind which results from a romantic attraction to another person typically including compulsive thoughts and fantasies and a desire to form or maintain a relationship and have one's feelings reciprocated'. Many people misconceive it for love which is in my opinion one of the biggest reasons for divorce in life. Imagine this scenario: two people have been together for 4 years. One is in love with the other, the other only had feelings of limerence towards the other. Limerence feels almost indistinguishable from love but it has an expiry date so those feelings just evaporate. One person is left heartbroken and the other just feels no affection towards the other anymore. Thus is the sad truth to it.
When people say they hate love what they probably really mean is that they hate limerence and it's side effects/consequences. By definition it is paradoxical to hate love anyway. Limerence is temporary but love is everlasting such as the love of a mother/father for his her child or other family member.
I like to compare it to Emily Dickinson's poem 'Hope is the Thing With Feathers', but I imagine hope is replaced with love, as both are abstract concepts and are interchangable due to their similar natures.
'Hope is the Thing With Feathers,
That perches in the soul.
That sings the tune without the words,
And never stops - at all'.
So to sum up the question, it is hard to know if you are in love or if you are just feeling limerence, but both are indistinguishable apart from the fact that one has an expiry date and the other is eternal.
Enjoy those butterflies while they last (if they last), it's simultaneously one of the best and worst feelings of all.
That's my two cents on it anyway :)

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favourite people in academy

Sarune (Of course)
Mike
Daithi
Alison
Cian
Patrick
Niall
Shauna
Cillian
Shauna
Sean etc.
I've probably forgotten someone.
Some of them really take the piss a bit too much but I love them long time anyway.
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NO ONE COULD HATE YOU EVER

I DOUBT THAT VERY MUCH LOVELY ANON. Even if they didn't I constantly convince myself they do. It's mentally exhausting which (I think) is one of the reasons I always look so tired :P
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Do you care what other people think of you?

Of course, I shouldn't but I do. I constantly have anxiety because my brain keeps convincing itself that everyone hates me :L hence, why I get so affected when people take the piss out of me relentlessly. I obviously don't mind when people are just joking around but when it's relentlessly all targeted towards me I take it to mean people dislike me.
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What is the most important thing in being a good friend?

Just being there for them and always trying to help them if they're in need of it. Just as important is knowing when you can't help them and just comforting them. Same for you, when you need help they should always be there.
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