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Midnight thoughts 🖤

It feels like people are more interested in speaking and interjecting rather than listening. It's sad to see that people don't have the patience to let someone speak their heart out. Sometimes all a person needs is for someone to listen to them. Most of us don't have an ulterior motive (looking for help, asking for a favour or flirting) while talking with a person, we only want them to listen to our story. When you listen more than you speak, people are more willing to talk to you and find it easier to open up to you. When you speak more than you listen, it makes it harder for people talk about other things because you are talking more about yourself. People like others who can sympathize and empathize with them rather than people who try to make themselves look better in every conversation. If you are able to master the “listen more than you speak” trait, then you will find yourself attracting many people who want to be friends with you.

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Why do i end up giving importance to ebery person in my life? At the very end they just don't care. They feel ke isne tow yehi rehna hay isko miss kerwao. Why? I mean don't i have a heart too? I am gurt too. But even then when they come back i talk to them as if they never ignored me. I am so stupid

I won't call it stupidity, you just have a beautiful heart. All of us go through this phase in our lives and then there comes a time when we start setting up some boundaries.
Well, I too suffered from this. Other people knew they can't fuck with me, but some of the closest one's took me for granted. I am a kind of person who over love, over care and over express. I begin caring about other's happiness before mine and that's where the mess begins. I am an empather. I help people whenever they need me.
People take you for granted when you keep giving them chances to be back in your life after they've left you. They will feel that your life's door is always open for them, they can enter, exit and again enter anytime they wish to. So, first thing you have got to do isIdentify the person/people who are meant to be with you forever, people who won't leave your side even in your darkest days. And stop entertaining the rest, doesn't necessarily have to cut all ties with other people. The "forever people" you will be choosing, they too could hurt you at some point of your life because it's almost impossible to have a smooth bond with anyone. Don't give up on those people easily.
Now the next thing, you need to do is love and give importance to your own self. Don't be too much available for people, do things for yourself, do things for your life, don't just be idle wasting your time just to be always available for them. People don't value things which are easily available.
The final thing to do is, don't let anyone overshadow your real self.Speak your ideas, speak for yourself and speak your heart out. Don't always act like a student in a class, always saying "yes" to teacher and understanding nothing. It's okay for you to talk to them but the conversation shouldn't be like old times. Don't be so hard on yourself and don't lose hooe in humanity. There are people who'll value and respect you, if they aren't around yet trust me they'll come by soon.
Take care. 🎈

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Do you judge the opposite gender?

I am not qualified to judge anyone. Also there are better things to do in life. I am very observant and never hesitate to point out everything good and bad about a person. Let me clear a misconception,
calling someone out on their crap is not you judging them. It means that you have the balls to hold them accountable for their crap.
(Attached a SS of sth I wrote a while ago to explain what helps me understand other people)

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What are you obsessed with these days??

Abiha Zaidii
Woman itself is a poem.. Poem of love, care, bliss, power, strength coupled with some sweetness.
Woman makes your world go around,
Only because of her, you saw the earth's ground!
She defines love and kinda keeps you on,
Without her, your blissful accent is gone.
Yes, it's a fact, that her anger will make you weep,
She blossoms each and every relationship!
She is power, she is adore, she is depth of the ocean and independent as sky,
She is woman, and only because of her(goddess), we survive 🎈.

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Yr tum pyary ho.

One thing that shouldn't make any sense but it does.
“Accumulation of unnecessary thoughts and emotions within.”
This is one of the disastrous result of our own experiences of life. Instead of finding the way to vent out all the mess we continue to let it collect, deteriorating our:
1) Self worth and time.
2) Positivity and calmness of mind on.
3) Deviating own self from the right path.
We don't understand these facts at right time but it surely happens when it gets too late. Running behind all those people and things, ignoring what we already have is the ultimate cause of all the sufferings. Endurance is difficult I agree then why not take that awful happening as a lesson instead as a burden. Throw away all those unnecessary presence which you think are the cause of chaos. Be enough courageous to express what you feel (keeping the consequences in mind), one of the best way to calm yourself. Set some goals and work for them. Work hard so that whatever will be the ending, you will not be regretful of your careless attitude. But even if some days you feel like nothing then let it be. “Each minute is counted” is more of a myth rather than realistic fact. Even our cardiograph is not consistent then how can you expect your each moment be fruitfu, let it be full of highs and lows. Enjoy your journey through all this. Trust yourself instead of wasting it on others, those who need to keep it will not demand for it, as simple as that. It is hard to be alone . It is hard to see yourself in the barren zone in the crowd of smiling faces. But I think being happily alone is far much better than indulged with shitheads. So, learn to move on with a smile and a lesson because It's absolutely your choice to be at same dark place with the burden of unwanted thoughts or to begin afresh journey with oneself.
Each one of us has a story, so as me so as you. Think once which chapter you are focussing more and try to make some sense in the mob of insanes.

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When do you block people on social media⛔?

Emre.. (Evde kal)
I have only blocked one person in my entire because she used to send me inappropriate stuff. This one time Princess was using my phone while I was busy solving past paper questions. A snapchat notification popped up on the screen and she was like "somebody sent you a snap" . I asked her to view it and it turned out to be a nude of my senior (I have never mentioned her name to anyone so her privacy is safe) . I literally pissed my pants and was praying for Princess to not beat the living shit out of me in front of everyone. She only said "I also have the same necklace" ?. The only reason why she didn't kill me is because, I had already told her about this senior and even showed all the unopened snaps, the unanswered calls and unread messages. Princess never asked me to block her but still I did at that very moment.

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Rose
"Give others what Allah gave you an abundance of. If it's money be generous with gifts and charity. If it's time, spend it with those who need company. If it's good character, be patient with the difficult. If it's intelligence, teach others and build the future. Follow your blessings and look after eachother"
First take care of people working for you and with you.
Anyone from Karachi who wants to donate winter clothes/money can contact me. I myself will come to pick whatever you want to donate, from you place. I have already bought thousands of clothes from thelay walay, with the money collected from our friends. Any amount of donation (money) you guys donate will be used to buy more winter clothes.

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Give others what Allah gave you an abundance of If its money be generous with
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Hey bb

People have very childish sense of justice. It's probably just me cuz I don't think most people would agree on this. To me if someone did me bad I wouldn't feel justice just because other people found out. "Other people need to know this person is bad cuz otherwise it's not fair to me" "this person did me dirty now I have to do sth bad with them and other people need to know about it" . Three months ago two of Pakistan's biggest NGO Facebook groups/pages (run by people I know) banned me out of "JEALOUSY" ?☺. The pages helped alot of people and are still doing so, that's one of the reasons why I chose to stay quite and didn't expose them. After talking to a couple of people about them I got to know that they are basically using these pages to get girls. So, I told both the admins if I ever get to know that they used the donations for their luxury or used the platform to get girls, I'll straight up report them to the authorities and make sure they are held accountable for all the fraud/scam. The other reason why I chose to stay quite is that I had no time to deal with all the negativity, it would bring in my life.
(To all the women out there, I just want you to know that don't fall for a guy just because he looks like a saint or is handsome. MOST OF TIMES POPULAR MEN ARE NOT GOOD PEOPLE IN THEIR LIFE. They abuse the so called power they have. Stay safe!)

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Why is letting go so difficult?

Writing this from the perspective of true love, I think it is due to the attachment and unfulfilled expectations. Everyone deserves to be loved and to be happy. But it really pains if you love someone so truly from the bottom of your heart and it goes unrequited. You will never completely move on if you ever truly loved her, but you will have to start living with it. Memories don't hurt. Love doesn't hurt. It is the attachment that hurts. It is the expectation that hurts. It is the imagined future that is now broken that hurts. When we lose someone that we love so truly and they walk out of your life for some reason, it hurts. This doesn't mean memories will haunt us. It is the collapsed future that hurts us. Living in the past with the ones we love brings us tears, not because that is lost, but because there was something that could have been forever, but it isn't now. That hurts. That stings and we tend to associate it with good memories. Sometimes we love people more than the memories they gave us. We fall for the person, not just for the memories. We love, we live life to create beautiful memories for us and for the loved ones around us. Expectations hurt in proportion to the emotional investment. Whenever we are too much attached to someone or something, we grow attachment and that attachment leads to expectations. These expectations when fulfilled is an awesome experience. But when we are too much emotionally invested and when those dreams aren't coming true, it stings and hurts and kills from within. Getting over and moving on with life accepting that you will never get over that true love.

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?According to you, who is a 'cool person' ?

Rose
A cool person is someone who truly likes and respects themselves and the people around them. Cool is being unique in your way. It’s knowing the difference between right and wrong. And when you make a mistake, have the courage to admit to it. Anybody who is cool is also interesting and fun to be around. They are very open, real, honest and loyal to the core. They don’t care what anyone thinks of them.
Being cool does not make you a snooty, arrogant, unruly and narcissistic fool. It’s not all about popularity contests. Cool does not give you the right to be fake and bad either. Coolness really comes from within.

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What was the worst case of a jealous person you had to put up with?

4 years ago I was invited as a guest by the president of a MUN. Mein chala gaya. The president used to hate me so bad, cuz before moving to a different campus I studied there for 8 years and he never got a chance to be the head boy or be in the limelight and always stayed in my shadow. Jummah ki namaz parh ke jab wapis aya I got to know that the administration and the president are planning to literally "KICK" me out of their campus. Bhai sahab se bardasht nahi ho raha tha mein itnay saal ke baad wapis aya and still was getting more appreciation and respect than him. MUN ke officials mujhe akar bata rahay thay that tumhe bahar nikalnay ka soch raha hai yeh and our coordinator is asking us about you. Thori dair mein coordinator ne mujhe bula liya and asked me aap kon hain? Aap yahan kyun aye hain? Apko permission kisnay di andar anay ki? The moment I told her that apkay MUN ke president ne mujhe invite kiya hai as a "GUEST" meray samnay president sahab said "mein ne nahi bulaya" . The whole campus gathered around us and was shouting "Abeel messages dikhao inhe. Hamaray samnay baat hoi thi. Conversation dikhao" . Princess was still studying in that campus so I chose to stay quit and walk out of there. Iss embarrassing moment mein sirf Princess ki waja se bardasht karliya tha. President ki itni phatt gayi thi foran messages karna shuru kardiyay thay "I am sorry, please marna nahi" .
The next day all these assholes had to apologise cuz regional office tak baat chali gayi thi.

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Post sth maybe.

The wind plays lullabies
On the xylophone bones of this house
And all night long I try to remember
More than just fragments
Of all those secrets you told me
By the candle light
That I uses to think were prophecies.
Now I think of you as shadows
On my bedroom wall that I love
And invite to bed with me
Without any inhibition
Of care for
How they will stay inside me
In the morning.
And there are many things in my life
That I can't remember and wonder
If I was even there for any of them
But I remember vividly
The touch of your fingers
And the smell of your hair
And the exact look in your eye
When you said you loved me
And I knew then
That it was the most honest
You had ever been.
I remember all of you
In every shape,
Even after all these long years.
I remember all of you
In all your shapes that make up
The puzzle pieces of myself. ?

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How do you know that you love someone? ?

Narmeen.
Every men can change but he'll change for only one women, just have to find out if you're the one. You are not in love every time you think you are. What people typically mistake for love is either lust or infatuation. The first step is an immediate encounter where the two of you interact. Maybe she’s pretty, she smells nice, or has a cute accent. Maybe she mentions some things you like. For guys, it is often just a pretty girl who talks to you. Guys do like appearances at first, but for a relationship, he has to know the woman is going to be there for him, be faithful, get along with his family, and at least try to tolerate his friends. For women (and this is just an observation) it is a man that takes time to notice things other than her appearance. The man might mention that he likes her perfume, her shoes, the color she is wearing. He might also comment on things that she brings up in conversation. Women like men to notice them, not just for their appearance, but also for their mind, their fashion sense, and maybe their cooking. At any rate, women can be attractive and friendly, and guys can be attentive and polite. I have learned so much about make up from someone I love, ask me anything. Just remember, sometimes saying “I love you” to someone is a very selfish thing to say. Telling someone that imparts how you feel and expects a reciprocal response. You should never tell someone you love them if you think it will come as a surprise. It should only be an affirmation of the mutual feelings you already have for each other.
So how do you know when you are in love? You try to imagine yourself with anyone else and it makes you sad; not so much for yourself as for the person you love. It hurts you to know that the person is in pain, especially over something you have done. When you think about what you want in life, do you automatically think about and allow for what aspirations your prospective partner has? Don't rush it if you are not sure.

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Post something maybe.

Do not allow a person to make you think that they're the victim when they're clearly the assaulter. Some people thrive on your nice and friendly personality. The win discussions by throwing guilt on you and making you doubt your own actions.
If the person disregards your feelings by turning tables and making themselves the victim instead, face them. If it doesn't work, walk away at all cost.
This is a critical threat to your mental stability.

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What makes you cringe?

•There's hardly a single co education system school in rural areas, but still they have the highest number of rape cases recorded.
•All boys and all girls institutes have the highest percentage of homosexuals, should we start saying that they are the one's promoting homosexuality in our society?
•There are so many incidents of harrasment, rape and assault caught on footage and also reported against the Madrasas. Should we start saying that it's the hub of all wrongdoings?
•Over the years so many cases have come to light where the police department raped women or allowed brothels to run in exchange of sex. Should we blame the police department?
•Alot of our so called pious and self righteous goverment officials are caught red handed doing adultery. Should we blame our government officials?
Hazrat Aisha RA ne itnay saray sahaba ko deen ki taleem di. Kya aap yeh co education wali baat Hazrat Aisha RA ke liyay kar saktay hain?
It's so easy to blame someone/something and not address the actual issue.
I have grown up listening to Moulana Tariq Jameel's bayans and have mad respect for him till this date. He is neither a religion nor a perfect being, so don't worship him.
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Thoughts rn.?

Rape and rape culture are not the same thing.
Rape is an act of sexually violating someone. Rape culture is an attitude in a culture that minimizes the impact of rape, shames the victims of rape and blames them for their rape, doesn't properly educate people on consent, protects rapists (especially high profile rapists) at the expense of their victims, and more. It is a culture underlining society that creates conditions for rapists to be created and thrive. Some examples include, but are not limited to:
• Blaming victims because of what they were wearing, doing, saying, etc. A member of Bill Cosby’s jury blamed the victim for wearing a crop top, letting a rapist who admitted to drugging and raping women free because of what the victim was wearing. Asking why they drank so much or didn't fight harder.
• A culture that doesn't properly educate young people on consent, and teaches young men especially that sex is something they “get”, and drives an attitude of sex as an achievement at all costs. The “no mean yes, yes means anal” stuff you see.
Imagine you're wearing an expensive watch. Then, you get beaten and robbed and your watch is stolen. You go to the police. Only, instead of investigating the crime, they want to know the reason you were wearing a watch. “ Why didn't you wear long sleeves to cover up the watch?”
These types of things are rape culture. They lead to actual rape and continue hurting the victims long after.
We need to educate men and women about consent. Instead of talking low about the victim and giving down right pathetic statements we need to eradicate "rape culture" to protect everyone.

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