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In my understanding, life today is much more challenging emotionally. People are engaging in very tight schedules. This makes it hard for them to actively reach out to other people. Having gone through hardships themselves, they have become less sensitive to ‘tough times’ and tend to belittle the hardships of others. When I say less sensitive, I mean that they are not overtly showing their emotions instead, they are bottling those emotions up deep inside.
When too many unresolved negative emotions are piled up in the back of a person’s mind, it is natural that he/she may appear to be irritable. Apka ego, attitude, anger, chaurapan and aisi sari faltu cheezain apka sirf nuqsaan karti hain.
Just look out for everyone around you, as much as you can and look out for yourself too.🎈

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have you ever been groped?

Yup, I have been groped by a senior. I freaked out and left the room. She had the guts to text me later, asking why I freaked out.
I have also experienced unwelcome touching twice in my life. The first one when I was 18 years old. I and some friends were walking down a food street in Karachi and then I decided to ride in a chingchi rikshaw. I had never travelled in it before but was always fascinated to ride it. I still don't know why I sat infront (next to the driver) when the whole rikhsaw was empty and I was the only passenger. The guy said "Sir, aap thora qareeb ho jain" and mein ho bhi gaya 🤗. Thori dair baad out of nowhere he started to feel my thighs (it was more awkward cuz I was wearing shorts that day 🙃 ). It felt uncomfortable but I didn't react to it. He then grabbed my thigh and tried to pull me closer, that's when I gave told him to stop, gave him some money and left. Jatay waqt he said 'aap wapis aingay na?' . My friends couldn't believe mein ne osse janay diya cuz I am the kind of person who would've beat the the living shit out of him if only I was able to process what was happening with me. Trust me, you get numb at such moments.
I was 19, the second time I experienced sth of this sort. My friends were getting married and both bride's and groom's side were at his place, practicing for the Shaadi ka dance. Few people (I knew most of them) were outside his house in the garden having fun and I was standing in the corner smoking cigarette. A random guy walked up to me and started to make small talks, then asked for a cigarette. After lighting up the cigarette, he grabbed my ass and rubbed my back. I asked him if it was a dare and he just stood there smiling. Some of my friends saw what happened and were laughing. I asked one of them if anyone has given this guy a dare and they said no. She then told me "Abeel this guy have been asking about you for so long, be careful cuz he's into boys"
(Sorry, Ask won't let me finish the story)

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show pp plz ;p

Unlike most men, I do talk a lot myself. Moreover, I pretty much enjoy shopping and I would probably listen to you if you keep talking about your ex, cuz trust me, it's a great insight to your mind. I can read a lot about you, your expectations from a relationship, and your reactions after a breakup from those talks. So, I would like to think of myself as quite tolerant. However, there is one particular trait that just ignites my anger that I am even talking to you in the first place. There's no name for it yet, but, I like to call it as "Fuck logic" .
I mean, I understand that most men are perverts. I sympathize. But, every guy who smiles at you, or offers you his seat, likes your display picture, or even likes your "ANSWERS" (for Ask ki awaam) doesn't necessarily want to get in your pants. Stop stereotyping men. We are not all trying to catch a glimpse of your cleavage or grab a feel, not all of us are going to hit on you.
So, you had a couple of bad relationships. We all did. Stop saying "Men are heartless." and "Men are cheaters". Quite honestly, if you can't distinguish a "keeper" from a "browser", you have somewhat yourself to blame. Sometimes, we are actually in need of a pen, a phone or normal conversation and that doesn't give you the right to brand us as filthy beings. This totally turns me off.
Just because I liked your answers doesn't mean I have feelings for you. Don't assume that every guy out there is mad crazy in love with you. When I am talking with a girl, I make sure that I am not giving her any kind of false hopes or misleading her in any way. Just stop assuming shit.

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Is it possible to positively influence humanity, but avoid subjective popularity?

It is, but many people will make their choices purely based on popularity. They simply don't have the intellectual capacity to do otherwise.
I have come across so many influential people who use whatever popularity or fame they are given to just flirt around and fool people, by portraying themselves as saints. Some of them also take credit for others work (genuine act of kindness).
Being selfless is not that easy.

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Thoughts 💭

zainay__’s Profile PhotoZainab
"mashra buray logoon ki burayi se zaida achay loogon ke chup rehnay se kharab hota hai"
Why is everyone acting so surprised after hearing/reading about how women in our society are treated? All this crap is just the tip of the iceberg and nothing new.
We could've saved so many lives if only we were more vigilant and actually called out predators/potential predators around us. But almost all of us were busy in our comforting sheltered world, not giving a flying fuck about anything. How many times in our lives have we all gossiped about some shithead, who defiled his girlfriend? How many times have we actually talked about or called out someone because we felt the need to and not because it was the hot topic? Ask yourself, do you actually feel disgusted to the core or is it just peer pressure that makes you write or post against shitheads? Have you ever dig down deep to find out the actual cause, even if you never intended to do sth about it?
We have no idea what a woman has to go through in this society. Throughout my life I have offered help to so many women, and most of them refused to take any action against the guy who dragged them to an edge where suicide felt like the best option. It's because they only want to come out of the dark and live in peace. They can't bear with the trauma, so stepping out of it is a blessing.
We alone are not to be blamed cuz most of us are scared of all the powerful elites of the society who can actually put their hands on us and our family's. The system is to be blamed equally. Everything aside but the reality is that we men have failed the society on almost all levels. It'll be good for everyone if we act fast and sahi jaga chaurapan dikahin, cuz there's always a possibility that women from your family or mine can also end up in ditch.
Stay safe and make others feel safe around you. Better late than never, so do your bit in making this society a better and safe place for "EVERYONE" to live.

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What can melt your heart?

omishqa_abbasi’s Profile PhotoUmishqa Abbasi
Act of kindness.
Humility and empathy are two traits that I find so attractive in a person.
Humility is like an open door for people to come in to your life to love you just the way you are and to respect you. Because love heals you from the inside out, and to allow people to love and you to love people you have to be modest, kind and respectful. A person with all these attributes is also empathic (most of the time). Empathy indicates that someone has joined you in your position, whether it’s one of pain and burden or one of joy and delight. Someone is in there with you and, for me, that’s a really big deal.

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Fav quote?

Taehunghh’s Profile PhotoLasagna
"True humility is not thinking less of yourself, It's thinking of yourself less"
I find humility so attractive cuz it shows you put others ahead of yourself and also a lack of selfishness and self centeredness which is one of the ugliest traits available.
A person in true humility, doesn't know that they are, cuz their focus is carrying out justice for others. They live simply, cuz they understand that material things create roots and weigh down the soul. What they do have, they give away to those in need. They work from behind the scenes, never seeking the spotlight.
Lastly, a person of humility walks in unconditional love and forgiveness. Don't get this twisted though. Cuz a soul of humility sees the world with a pure heart, they can and will get righteously angry at injustice. Especially at the expense if innocent.
Only if we were all to strive to attain this virtuous state, the world would be a better place.

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Random thoughts :"

Wengie99’s Profile PhotoCheers.
I realised I wasn't here for me, but for the impact I make while I'm here. People will always love and hate you know matter what you do, that part is their problem not your problem. Your job is to be useful to yourself and to other people, to express your thoughts feelings and emotions and behave for the good of yourself first, and then others, because you see the world through the emotions of how you see yourself (we are taught the opposite). Let others judge, that is their job. Yours is to express your message. Your perception is all yours, you live in a different universe to everyone else. People don't know your experience and to be alive is to be free to think and express or simply to do nothing. But virtue is choice, stay silent because you choose to, not cuz of what people might think
What changed for me was intention. I went from me to we, something changed in me that their were people that wished for the perception I had to share and by not showing up, people's suffering continued. Any help is a help and a little help is a huge difference to the right person. So, forgive and forget yourself and think of we and the impact you would make. The paradox is you must also first think of yourself, first respect yourself, value your opinion first, and your experiences first, love yourself if not just start with like yourself and get to know yourself. Cuz we never promote what we are shameful or embarrassed of. We minimize the bad stuff and maximize what we believe is good, let go of judgement because everyone is crazy a little bit, most convince themselves they hid it.
To be human is to be a little crazy because we have different parts of the brain wanting different things inner conflicts happening all the time, lots of identities trying to express themselves. Your biggest challenges is judgement of yourself, you are not on other people's mind, no where near what you think.
People are to busy worried about themselves and how other people see them to think about you.

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Wengie99’s Profile PhotoCheers.
Feel okay with distancing yourself from a toxic relationship. People come up with crap logic, that we've been with this person for "X" amount of time and can't leave them like this. I'll ask a simple question, did your "X" amount of time do you any good? No, it didn't cuz otherwise you wouldn't be having this conversation with someone.
You can leave a toxic relationship, but if you don't heal what attracted you to them, you will meet them again. The same demon, just in a different shithead.
Take care of yourself.

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PEOPLE USE ME AND JUST DISCARD LIKE TISSUE PAPER AFTERWARDS. AND IT SUCKS. I AM ALWAYS LEFT ALONE. HURT BROKEN

"Sometimes a good heart doesn't see the bad"
People use you when you give them too much of anything, be it attention, importance, love, support, money etc. Hold back a little and stop giving too much of anything to anyone. You can't be a people pleaser and can't let anyone walk over you so easily.
Learn how to say "No" . Shitheads take advantage of this trait, cuz they know they can get away with anything and you'll sit there quietly.
You dictate how you want to be treated instead of someone else imposing their crap on you. Sometimes you need to make your own decisions instead of following someone else's blindly.
Most importantly you need to be happy in your own skin. You can't think of yourself as the odd one. Work on yourself first instead of going out looking for friends. Be a better version of yourself not for having good people in your life, do it for yourself.
Take your time and come out stronger, cuz your fair share of love is waiting for you on the other side. 🎈

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Post sth maybe.

Asking the primal question “WHY?” is a very important part of human development.
Indeed, it is when children stop asking questions that the true loss of innocence begins. Think about a three or four year old. The question WHY often dominates their exploration of the world around them and their conversations with others.
We ask questions because we have the privilege and capability of asking them. We ask questions because we want to know what we don’t know. We ask questions when we lack knowledge regarding something and at the same time are keen to gain knowledge about it. We ask to enhance our knowledge and satisfy our curiosity. Also, asking question indirectly means that we have been thinking about something, which indicates that we are thoughtful, not just robotic in doing things. Asking more and more questions lead us to better thinking. Asking questions is also a way of thinking and focusing. When we ask a question to ourself, our brain locks on and searches for an answer. Questioning also improves your focus and thinking. We have the ability to think and there is so much to think and question upon in this universe. So, it is very good to always keep thinking and asking questions.

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What are the effects of neglecting childs emotions, rather forcing to be tough? Especially boys

It can facilitate the child to grow up with border line personality disorder. These kids have difficulty establishing and sustaining healthy bonds. They end up having very little self worth, get bullied in school and sometimes hate themselves. There's nothing wrong in teaching your kid on how to be tough but forcing them to "act" tough will only ruin a kid's life. The statement "real men don't cry" is just crap. We all do, we all have our breaking points. Most men don't accept if they're vulnerable or hurting, because since childhood they've been told "mard ko dard nahi hota" . Hota hai yar, bohat dard hota hai and rotay bhi bohat hain 😂.

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Honestly you're crush material 💯

The heart yearns to be with you
To see you, to talk to you,
To do things for you selflessly.
To see you, I just have to think
And your beautiful face just
Comes before my eyes so effortlessly.
You have breached the walls
Of my conscious self and
Taken abode even in my dreams.
Of my thoughts and feelings,
You definitely have entered,
The innermost realms.
My feelings for you
Bring out the sides of me,
I never knew even existed.
That I never was and even
Takes me to a state that isn’t listed.
Inexplicable emotions, the inspiration,
The motivation, what your thoughts do to me,
I do not really understand.
But it feels like, for you
I want to go that extra mile
And make my life grand. 🎈

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Dil me rehty oh tum 🖤

She said that she was too controlling, and I replied that I needed someone to control me. Someone who would talk some sense in me, someone who would calm me down when I burst into flames, someone who would guide me through the dark, someone who would always tell me to live up to my potential and not waste it, someone who would stop me from smoking, someone who would always tell me to think about myself and my goals for once, someone who would always tell me truth when I am lying to myself, someone who would show me reality when I am in denial, someone who would hold me accountable for my crap, someone who doesn't act like a "Yes, boss" and most importantly someone who would help me become a better person, even after parting ways with me.

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Midnight thoughts 🖤

It feels like people are more interested in speaking and interjecting rather than listening. It's sad to see that people don't have the patience to let someone speak their heart out. Sometimes all a person needs is for someone to listen to them. Most of us don't have an ulterior motive (looking for help, asking for a favour or flirting) while talking with a person, we only want them to listen to our story. When you listen more than you speak, people are more willing to talk to you and find it easier to open up to you. When you speak more than you listen, it makes it harder for people talk about other things because you are talking more about yourself. People like others who can sympathize and empathize with them rather than people who try to make themselves look better in every conversation. If you are able to master the “listen more than you speak” trait, then you will find yourself attracting many people who want to be friends with you.

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Why do i end up giving importance to ebery person in my life? At the very end they just don't care. They feel ke isne tow yehi rehna hay isko miss kerwao. Why? I mean don't i have a heart too? I am gurt too. But even then when they come back i talk to them as if they never ignored me. I am so stupid

I won't call it stupidity, you just have a beautiful heart. All of us go through this phase in our lives and then there comes a time when we start setting up some boundaries.
Well, I too suffered from this. Other people knew they can't fuck with me, but some of the closest one's took me for granted. I am a kind of person who over love, over care and over express. I begin caring about other's happiness before mine and that's where the mess begins. I am an empather. I help people whenever they need me.
People take you for granted when you keep giving them chances to be back in your life after they've left you. They will feel that your life's door is always open for them, they can enter, exit and again enter anytime they wish to. So, first thing you have got to do isIdentify the person/people who are meant to be with you forever, people who won't leave your side even in your darkest days. And stop entertaining the rest, doesn't necessarily have to cut all ties with other people. The "forever people" you will be choosing, they too could hurt you at some point of your life because it's almost impossible to have a smooth bond with anyone. Don't give up on those people easily.
Now the next thing, you need to do is love and give importance to your own self. Don't be too much available for people, do things for yourself, do things for your life, don't just be idle wasting your time just to be always available for them. People don't value things which are easily available.
The final thing to do is, don't let anyone overshadow your real self.Speak your ideas, speak for yourself and speak your heart out. Don't always act like a student in a class, always saying "yes" to teacher and understanding nothing. It's okay for you to talk to them but the conversation shouldn't be like old times. Don't be so hard on yourself and don't lose hooe in humanity. There are people who'll value and respect you, if they aren't around yet trust me they'll come by soon.
Take care. 🎈

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