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i'm 30 years old, I've never had a girlfriend

I do not judge the under 30 who, IMO, have perfectly understandable reasons for not having relationships and friendships (or, for the ones that do and have had them) the weirdness/disconnect and thinly veiled/superficiality run amok within their relationships and friendships).
The invent of social media has come along and robbed yous of having a frame of references of "both worlds": What life, friendships and relationships was like without world distractions. Its inception has rearranged natural life and the naturalness in the human psyche. Period.
Although there are quite a few of the same types of perils and terrain that the under 30 face today, still, my hope is that every page turned in my 3-book "Angie Situation" series
{ https://othersideofthefame.com }
{ https://othersideofthefame.com/?s=Angie+Situation } gives the under 30 a peek into and permission to live vicariously through how friendships and relationships were as, there is NO mention of the WORD or situation involving "social media" in it. Pure, unadulterated, concentrated life❣️

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im 30 years old Ive never had a girlfriend

Would you mind if the person you like likes to spend time at home?

It would depend on what type of person they are-where, in others areas of life they thrive and are:
- vibrant
- fruitful
- plentiful
- abundant
- dynamic
Those are prerequisites for my interest, regardless.
Would you mind if the person you like likes to spend time at home

That's so stupid to try and anger someone to get them to love you, makes you hated even more.

Exactly.😡🤬 Someone is in that very predicament with me RIGHT now...
It's weird af.😏

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Is it ok to seek a relationship even if you feel that you are not ready for one ?

May I be honest?
No. Why? Because if you can look your life in the face and assess the fact that you are not ready for a relationship (mentally or emotionally or personably or financially etc.) yet, you "seek" one; that is a clear cut narcissist move - and proof positive that you are only interested in the "benefits" and pleasures of a relationship but unable (or unwilling) to do the self work and selfless work it takes to be in/nurture that relationship that you seek.
While in many areas of life, it is totally fine to take the risk of seeking something we know we are not ready for, interrupting someone else's life for all take and no give ain't it, Beloved.❣️
Is it ok to seek a relationship even if you feel that you are not ready for one

The whole thing was a lie. I don’t you anymore and I don’t ever want to see you again. I really mean that this time. I’m really letting go, and you should too this time around.

You and your random sucka attacks ain't gon' worrrr'me
The whole thing was a lie I dont you anymore and I dont ever want to see you

How long can you go without alcohol or smokin?🤔

I, myself, don't drink or smoke.
{ https://othersideofthefame.com/?s=Cigars }
But (where im granted the license) in my "World News" collection,I do like designing dope unique, original s̷o̷r̷t̷a̷ couture tee shirts of notable people in their notorious elements [like my guy on my t shirt - Wiz Khalifa https://othersideofthefame.com/?s=Wiz ] smoking. 😁
{ https://tees410.com/search?q=World+news }
Makes me look cool 😎
How long can you go without alcohol or smokin

I hope this one is the one for you. I’m sorry I couldn’t get it together for us. There’s so many things I regret and wish I could change. 😭💔

🙏🏼

How do you gain motivation on a day where you have none?

CrxstalCastles’s Profile Photo☆Nebula☆
Something I learned (and try to remember, myself)...
There's MOTIVATION and then there's CONSISTENCY. (And this is with anything-personal, physical, mental, business, relationship or anything).
Consistency doesn't require motivation. It requires:
▪︎intention (willingness)
▪︎commitment (willpower)
▪︎a plan (DAILY to do/ done lists)
▪︎execution (action)
Those things will eventually fuel motivation.
I believe in baby steps and holding myself accountable where admitting I can do better. And I, myself, find that when I commit to consistency, I feel motivated and get motivated.
When my momentum on consistency is broken (by life stuff or even on my own); I feel less motivated.
Consistency is the gateway to motivation. It's hard, but it's theeee most substantial and longer lasting way-that eventually becomes a habit.
Other "bursts" of motivation are often short lived.

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How do you gain motivation on a day where you have none

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My marriage is missing that spark. 33m here.

The commitment of marriage is the sticktoitiveness well past the butterflies/honeymoon phase and "that spark" that unfortunately, couples never discuss ...that "now what?" phase.
You however, can spend your life chasing sparks (that too, will dwindle person by person) or rediscover your partner in intimate ways that keep them and relationship interesting, daily.
Here's the tea: People chasing "sparks" is (one of) the main reason relationships do not last.
Dope fiends never get that first hit-ever again. And we all know what happens with the life of dope fiends chasing it.
Nobody's spark is gonna last forever. Not even the fire to the spark to wicker of a candle. That's why you have to set fire to it-
over and over again. So do you-within your relationship.
Even if you leave the same thing is gonna again for you--or to you.
Don't be the dope-friend. 🙏🏽

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My marriage is missing that spark 33m here

Where are you

Under this dusty azz Chipotle restroom's bomb azz lighting.
Omw back out to grab my bag and sneak some of this lemonade in my "cup for some ice water."🤗
Foh. 😬They knew people like me was gonna squirt a little of that Minute Maid Lemonade in our water!
Come on now. 😒Find me a Chipotle that's got the fountain water tab attached to the sodas😏 Tuh😒
Where are you

How to get over a connection that didn’t work out ??? Help please!!! I’m still in contact with them and we argued a bit ago about her not wanting to be with me anymore because of the age difference … and other stuff. Idk what to do. I care and have feelings for her but she doesn’t want me anymore

🙏🏼..
How to get over a connection that didnt work out  Help please Im still in

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Why do people lie

People (you too) lie about:
🤥Things they wish were true
and/or
🤥To keep you
and/or
🤥To lose you
and/or
🤥To entertain
and/or
🤥To wing it/exit a conversation
and/or
🤥Because they may feel they don't owe (whomever they are lying to) the truth
For me, if I can right a wrong or correct a lie via ✔️conversation (if it is personal to me/I have a rapport with the person)
✔️take it to judge
✔️write a book
...i wouldn't even obsess over why - especially if there is no professional or interpersonal "need to know"
Why do people lie

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Are you scared to love someone wholeheartedly?

monicamongeur’s Profile PhotoMonica Mongeur
No.
I'm either all in, not (or im smitten with'em: we're friend-friends = flirting/random stops are stare eye contact/ insulting one another / I'm typically randomly shocking them in the arm or tummy. Nervous habit).
Are you scared to love someone wholeheartedly

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