Did you ever have a dream that felt so real you didnt know if u were dreaming or not ?
Yes I have. Many.
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Can some person change your life?
I think a lot of people have changed me in many ways. Human life is complex, and we are always learning from something or someone. I'm willing to welcome change if it is good. I struggle with change when it is bad. I suppose that's normal. I of course do what I can to change myself as I see the need. I always hope to be a better person and have a better life, and I try not to rely on anyone else to make that happen for me, with a few exceptions, of course. I will always love and appreciate those who have made my life better.
Kannst du dir vorstellen einmal eine Weltreise zu unternehmen? 🌎✨
It would be amazing to travel around the world. It will have to remain a dream for me, but I hope you get to do this if you want to.
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Post a GIF that matches your current mood?
How would you like to celebrate your next birthday?
I have no plans. Feel free to suggest something.
What side dish do you like to eat with barbecue?
Squee! I love BBQ! There are so many things that go great with it: potato salad or mashed potatoes, mac n cheese, roasted corn, or BBQ beans!
Sex?
Female.
Otherwise, no.
Otherwise, no.
Welches Land willst du unbedingt mal bereisen?
United Kingdom, Ireland, Italy, and France are my top four, but I would be happy to visit many countries.
Are you more talkative online or offline?
More talkative online by a mile. I am shy in person.
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Have people taken photoshopping too far? What do you think?
Yes, badly. There are countless memes and other photos out there that are absolutely false to an offensive and harmful extent.
Examples:
- Fabricated, politically-biased memes
- Financial scams
- Exploitation of children and disabled people (type 'Amen" and share BS)
- Fake pornographic photos that influence uneducated, gullible people and put others (mostly women) at risk of harm
- Tabloids and other altered magazine photos such as airbrushed bodies and enlarged muscles
Photoshop has been a curse in many, many ways.
Examples:
- Fabricated, politically-biased memes
- Financial scams
- Exploitation of children and disabled people (type 'Amen" and share BS)
- Fake pornographic photos that influence uneducated, gullible people and put others (mostly women) at risk of harm
- Tabloids and other altered magazine photos such as airbrushed bodies and enlarged muscles
Photoshop has been a curse in many, many ways.
If someone wants to talk to you , what are the steps they should proceed to reach your acceptance of giving them a portion of your time to listen to ?
Hello :) I don't think I'm that difficult to reach. I take frequent breaks from social media and adjust my privacy settings as needed, but I read email at ugottafriend4life@gmail.com pretty regularly. As long as you are respectful or not trying to sell me something, I'm going to at least listen. I might even reply, depending on the subject matter. You'll have to be your authentic self to befriend me, though, meaning none of this anonymous stuff. But if you're genuine and respectful, I'm really not that hard to have a conversation with. Feel free to send an email.
If you could wish for something more important than anything else you could have wished for that you truly desire what would it be???
If you mean a desire for myself, I am in desperate need of relief. I can't bear to think about anything else. I am weak and in severe pain and I will never have a life worth living in this condition.
I have desires for other people too. I want children to be safe and well-raised. I want people with disabilities to be fully respected. I won't name them, but I want specific people in my life to be happy and well to the extent that I believe they deserve.
I have desires for other people too. I want children to be safe and well-raised. I want people with disabilities to be fully respected. I won't name them, but I want specific people in my life to be happy and well to the extent that I believe they deserve.
You are not alone there's always someone you can turn to and talk to about your struggles,problems,pain You're Not Alone Keep your head up & Stay Strong♥
That's sweet, thank you.
What has happened to this society ?
That's a damn good question and I don't have an adequate answer at the moment. I just know I'm not coping with it.
Do you think people who are over-confident, interactive with many acquaintances are shallow?
Nah. There's nothing wrong with feeling confident and having friends. Some people are extroverted like that. I think the only potential issue is the word over-confident because it implies expectations that are too high, or in some cases, narcissism.
Have you ever had a secret worshipper?
I have absolutely no idea what to do with this crazy question.
Best thing about you?
Transparency. If you pay enough attention, the chances are high that you're going to know more about me than you ever wanted to, but at least you'll know. I personally hate surprises.
Who do you find attractive?
This isn't the easiest question, but I'll do my best.
I like men who are compassionate, mature, and respectful. I like someone who allows emotions without judgment and is willing to express them himself in safe and productive ways. Empathy for mankind is absolutely essential, and any discrimination (racism, sexism, ableism, classism, etc) is an automatic turnoff, and unforgivable. If you support others who discriminate, don't expect me to like you at all. I am attracted to men who show that they truly care for others without prejudice. That pulls my heart strings.
Which brings me to this: I fall mildly into a demisexual category, so emotional connection is a requirement if I'm going to be sexually attracted to someone. It's not complicated; all that means is that genuine consideration and friendship are a must. I am hetero and I am only attracted to CIS men. I like someone who is a good communicator. He must have no addictions (that includes porn, sorry not sorry) and is a rational thinker and a reasonable person. I don't expect perfection, but I do expect solid effort in being a man of honesty, decency, and good character.
I am not attracted to control freaks, religious or not. Don't even bother me if you're going to use your belief system to debate, discriminate, instigate, manipulate, or try to dominate me into submission. You'll be out of my life in a red hot second. I am absolutely fine with people who have spiritual beliefs who remain fully respectful of others' religions or lack thereof. In fact, it's refreshing, and yes, mildly attractive. I know men who celebrate multiple (normally conflicting) religious holidays with their diverse family and friends, and I love that kind of acceptance. It's a good sign of maturity and respect.
I like men who are clean clean clean a million times clean. Stellar hygiene. No slobs or people who don't clean up after themselves; that means handling your own messes and not expecting mother or lover to do it. I repeat: clean yourself and clean your space. This is basic adulthood. A clean man is a sexy man. Anything less is not - period.
Consent/bodily autonomy is massively important, and I appreciate men who understand it and execute it. I haven't been with one yet who did, and I won't date again unless I meet someone I like who is as serious about this as I am.
Looks aren't the most important thing to me, to say the least. What I can say is that I don't seem to care for facial hair. Men can do what they want with their faces, but I don't have to like them. Height, weight, none of that matters. I've been attracted to tall men and short men. Size? Blah. Who cares. Are you PATIENT? Are you KIND? Are you CLEAN? I'm the average educated, opinionated, overweight American woman, so if you're good with ALL of the above, I'm good. Welcome, attractive dudes near and far.
I like men who are compassionate, mature, and respectful. I like someone who allows emotions without judgment and is willing to express them himself in safe and productive ways. Empathy for mankind is absolutely essential, and any discrimination (racism, sexism, ableism, classism, etc) is an automatic turnoff, and unforgivable. If you support others who discriminate, don't expect me to like you at all. I am attracted to men who show that they truly care for others without prejudice. That pulls my heart strings.
Which brings me to this: I fall mildly into a demisexual category, so emotional connection is a requirement if I'm going to be sexually attracted to someone. It's not complicated; all that means is that genuine consideration and friendship are a must. I am hetero and I am only attracted to CIS men. I like someone who is a good communicator. He must have no addictions (that includes porn, sorry not sorry) and is a rational thinker and a reasonable person. I don't expect perfection, but I do expect solid effort in being a man of honesty, decency, and good character.
I am not attracted to control freaks, religious or not. Don't even bother me if you're going to use your belief system to debate, discriminate, instigate, manipulate, or try to dominate me into submission. You'll be out of my life in a red hot second. I am absolutely fine with people who have spiritual beliefs who remain fully respectful of others' religions or lack thereof. In fact, it's refreshing, and yes, mildly attractive. I know men who celebrate multiple (normally conflicting) religious holidays with their diverse family and friends, and I love that kind of acceptance. It's a good sign of maturity and respect.
I like men who are clean clean clean a million times clean. Stellar hygiene. No slobs or people who don't clean up after themselves; that means handling your own messes and not expecting mother or lover to do it. I repeat: clean yourself and clean your space. This is basic adulthood. A clean man is a sexy man. Anything less is not - period.
Consent/bodily autonomy is massively important, and I appreciate men who understand it and execute it. I haven't been with one yet who did, and I won't date again unless I meet someone I like who is as serious about this as I am.
Looks aren't the most important thing to me, to say the least. What I can say is that I don't seem to care for facial hair. Men can do what they want with their faces, but I don't have to like them. Height, weight, none of that matters. I've been attracted to tall men and short men. Size? Blah. Who cares. Are you PATIENT? Are you KIND? Are you CLEAN? I'm the average educated, opinionated, overweight American woman, so if you're good with ALL of the above, I'm good. Welcome, attractive dudes near and far.
If you were married can you stay with your spouse after being cheated on?
No, never.
Which Twilight character are you?
Never read or watched it.
do you open up for people first or ??
I certainly seem to, don't I? I mean, I tell a lot on here and I don't even know most of the people asking questions. Those who want to be considered a friend will have to open up as well. This one-sided silliness is not friendship. This is an entertainment site, nothing more.
What pain is harder for you: physical or spiritual?
Physical
Do you deceive well?
I don't deceive people. I'm not a sociopath.
Are you still learning who you are?
I seem to be, yes. Maybe we all are, or at least we should be. I find self-awareness to be important to a functional society, and the freedom to figure yourself out is vital to your own self-worth and life story. I know I've said this many times, but we don't reach a point in our lives when we've simply "arrived". We are always growing and changing and redefining who we are in order to adapt and live as well as possible. It is a part of our instinct, I think. Understanding our own humanity is essential to being the best version of ourselves.
On scale from 1 to 10, how addicted to sweets are you?
Ummmmmm...
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