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Speak your heart out. 🌝

captainmisbah’s Profile PhotoAzan Butt
Hate it when people are shy of introducing their poor relatives to their rich friends or rich people around them, why? They are humans !! don't you think they also have heart, they also want to be good, wear good, eat good. Don't you know, "Allah ney jiska risk jitna likha hota hai usko utna he milta hai chahe kuch karley" toh yeh difference kiu? Yeh baat kiu bhool jate hou. Unka role yehi hai life mai. And you all this kinda people are really lacking of some islamic knowledge. Just don't show your degrees here, learn some islamic knowlege also. Treat them well show your real richness (kindness, love). Aur han yeh jou tum loug jinse chupate hou na unhe, unke bhi kuch gareeb relatives hote hain kabhi tum lougon ki waja se phir woh bh chupa dete hain aur kuch tum lougon se zarf mai agay hote hain aur yeh sab ghatiya souch tmhri tarah nae rakhtay. Just know tum Insan nae hou tum lougon ka zameer mara hua hota hai. Idky i got serious writing this but its damn true saw this kinda behaviour somewhere and can't resist myself to write.

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If you were to make a big art piece, what would you make, what style would it be in etc?

LouisaRHale’s Profile PhotoLou
Does writing count? If so then I would write a novel! I have had the idea for one bopping around my noggin for the better part of the last decade. I have almost everything planned out, the characters, the setting, the plotline... It's just that I've yet to actually write the darned thing!
I don't know if it's the scope of the project or the fact that I'm a lot more comfortable writing poetry than prose that has kept me from putting the words to paper, but I hope to one day find the motivation (or perhaps, the courage) to share my story with the world.

Post you own piece of writing if any? 🥀

تم میرے پاس ہوتے ہو گویا
جب کوئی دوسرا نہیں ہوتا
This shair is so real, Sometimes when I sit alone, all by myself and i unconsciously start thinking about the people I lost, somewhere in this expedition of life. And eventually I feel like they're just here. Right by my side. As if they're listening to me, they're sitting next to me, I often discuss the most serious and crucial matters with them, I look up to the sky thinking about the things they could've said to me as a reply.
As Jaun Sahab said,
تیرے آنے سے، کچھ زرا پہلے
بات تجھ سے ہی کر رہا تھا میں
دنیا کی اِس بھیڑ میں کھو جانے والے لوگوں کا اکثر خیال آتا ہے ، دِل کچھ تنہا شاموں کو پِھر پکارا کرتا ہے ، اور یہ دِل و دماغ بھی کہیں کھو سے جاتے ہیں . کبھی ہوتا ہے نا ایسے کے آپ کسی ہجوم میں ہیں ، مگر ذہن کہیں کسی اس پل میں ہو جہاں دِل لگایا تھا ، جہاں سکون کا ایک لمحہ میسر آیا تھا. ٹھیک اسی طرح جب کبھی آپ اکیلے ہوں اور ذہن میں الجھنیں ہی الجھنیں ہوں تو پتہ نہیں کب ، کیسے اور کیوں ایک خیال سا آتا ہے کے میں اکیلا نہیں ہوں ، وہ لوگ آج بھی میرے ساتھ ہیں ، ساتھ ہونے کا مطلب پاس ھونا تھوڑی ہوتا ہے ، کچھ لوگ میلوں دور رہ کے بھی ساتھ ہوتے ہیں ، اور پِھر ایسے لوگ بھی تو ہوتے ہیں جو اِس دنیا میں نہیں ہیں مگر ہمارے دِل میں رہتے ہیں ، ایک احساس ہوتا ہے کے وہ یہیں کہیں ہیں ، اور کچھ لوگ ساتھ کھرے ہو کے بھی ساتھ نہیں ہوتے.
I know that they're not here, among us anymore but my heart says that they live in me, they owe a chunk of my heart that smiles whenever I think about them. There are gaps in my soul and holes, shaped as the one I lost, no one else can fit. The people we meet and greet daily aren't really the people we want to be with. Our heart crave the one we lost, but the ones that love us never really leave us. They're somewhere here, in our hearts and they left some of their traits in us, some habits, so in some ways they stay within our minds and hearts.
جن سے تو مل رہا ہے نا ! ان کو تری خبر کہاں ہے
تیرا پتا تو اس کو ہے، جس کو ملا نہیں ہے تو

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If a question is Anonymous how do you know if it’s directed towards your account or if it’s just a general question

You don't know.
However, if you have been on askfm for many years and you have known stalkers, these "stalkers" always send you messages anonymously and with time you get to recognize their writing style and their harassments and threats.
In fact, I have a stalker from Spain who is attacking me as I write this text message. And if she persists, ALL communication between my family (wife and daughter) will end. Simple is as simple does.

Are there any minor things that annoy you? For example, it annoys me when youtube ads are silent since that makes me think something's wrong with the audio 😑

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
There are many things that annoy me. Here are a few examples:
1. Toilet Paper - nobody in my house will replace the toilet paper.
2. Toothpaste - the toothpaste cap is never screwed on properly.
3. Cooking - the burners on the stove a left on.
4. Getting dressed - I have to get dressed in the dark to not upset my wife.
5. Driving - I live in Florida where drivers either refuse to use their turn signals when making a turn, or they use the incorrect turn signal.
6. Highway driving - some people drive the speed limit. Some folks drive 40 miles over the speed limit. And yes, the remainder drive 40 miles under the speed limit. It is literally a shit show.
7. Religion - I perform at several churches. Both of these churches have operating budgets that are in the red. The average age of the congregation is 70+ years old and very few young people attend; and yet, these churches do literally nothing to attract young people into their congregation and each week the priests and ministers complain about financial difficulties while offering no realistic solutions.
#1. Pick your battles - When I get annoyed, I ask myself this question:
Is this a battle worth fighting for?
Will my voice and effort make a difference?
If not, I remain silent, disengage, and pursue my own interests and goals. I refuse to fight battles where I am not allowed to affect change.
#2. It is what it is vs it is what you make it. -
This is more of a philosophical argument or issue of perception, similar to the question: is your cup half full or half empty? In my experience, when people refuse to change, it is what it is. And unless I have the authority or power to force the necessary changes, the cup will remain half empty; however, if I am in control and allowed to make changes, my cup is half full and the outcome will be what I or we (the collective group) make it. I suppose that is why I am an introvert and enjoy writing poetry, playing golf or playing my guitar. Only then am I in complete control of the outcome and the goals and objectives that I have set forth.
#3. It could be worse - whenever I am annoyed, frustrated or impatient, I do the following:
a. I take a deep breath and count to 10.
b. I think to myself that it could be worse.
It could be worse if I was married to, or living with the person who is annoying me. This realization both comforts me and grounds me with an often overlooked truth that I am indeed in control of my own reality. A smile immediately appears on my face, and I silently thank God for blessing me and allowing me the common sense to put my reality into perspective and to stop worrying about people and things that I have no control over.

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How to unlove, how to let go of a person? HELPPPP😢😢

dilnahilagta’s Profile Photofareeha Durani
You can't unlove anyone. The only thing you can do is try to forget ya phir try some other activities like (will not suggest cooking or baking XD) But like reading, writing you can play games, painting, coloring. This helps. Aur Allah ka wasta hay phir na kar bethna love ☠️

Have you ever had a paranormal experience? 👻

BradJones427’s Profile PhotoBrad
hmm, if you think about it, yes, my friend and I arranged it and it’s very scary ... we also tried it with my brother and sister, oh gods, this is not self-hypnosis, since three people cannot imagine the same thing, because "when it seems that it seems , then it’s not imagining "^^ here I am writing and remember these feelings, oh, it excites😝😁💫🔥🔥🔥
when I was in college, my friends came to me, yes, we didn’t arrange a seance, but we shared our impressions about them, who tried what, and it’s adrenaline and heartbreaking😈🔥💫👍
you know about the Ouija board) everything is in the process ^^
хм, если подумать то да, мы с подругой устраивали и это очень страшно... с братом и сестрой тоже пробовали, о боги это не самовнушение, так как троим людям одно и тоже мерещиться не может, так как "когда кажется, что мерещится, то это не мерещится"^^ вот пишу и помню эти ощущения, ох будоражит😝😁💫🔥🔥🔥
когда учились в колледже ко мне пришли мои друзья, да мы не устраивали спиритический сеанс, но делились впечатлениями о них, кто что пробовал, да и это адреналиново и душещепательно😈🔥💫👍
про доску Уиджи ты знаешь) все в процессе^^

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Have you ever had a paranormal experience

I’m confused… why did Ask get rid of the VIP+? I just got a notice today and haven’t seen anything about it until now.. so now I’m not VIP how lame…

I do not know.
The honest truth is that I do not care about something as superfluous as VIP status. I would prefer to concentrate on my writing without the distress caused by earning enough points or likes to be considered worthwhile as implied by VIP.
Sometimes I laugh because VIP reminds me of high school when in our year book the writers would list:
- most attractive couple
- most likely to succeed
- most intelligent
- most athletic
But nowhere did they list:
- most kind
- most humble
- most loyal
- most honest
- most sincere
And so I ignore such superficial and juvenile labels, categories and self imposed boxes that are imposed upon us by moderators, writers and editors whom I most likely share no common interests and would probably bore me to tears resulting in wailing, gnashing of teeth and increased probability of aneurysm.

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Do you keep your desk nice and neat or are papers and items just spread out everywhere?

I try to keep my desk organized, but I frequently fail in this endeavour because of my never ending writing of poems, reflections, political essay's and music. Unfortunately, my studio is full of pencils and paper that is lying about the room, torn and tattered, hoping to be resurrected from the trash. -Peace

anxiety ziada ho to kya karna chahye?

I read it somewhere and it did work for me, to some extent...
"Relax your shoulders.
Focus on your breathing rate.
Drink cold water.
Listen to calming music.
Do something to distract yourself (or something what makes you feel calm). It can include reading, writing, cooking and baking, painting, watching your favourite show, or whatever you love doing."
Anddddd use Pinterest (because that's what I do. :))

If you became a god / goddess of a specific thing, like those from Greek and Norse mythology, what'd you be a god of? What'd you use your godly powers for? ⚡️🌊🔥💕🌱

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
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I'd like to have Elos (goddess of kindness and forgiveness) or Persephone (goddess of life and death/necromancy) powers. I would use this power to create harmony and peace in the human world. While writing this I feel kinda like Thanos from the Marvel Universe, lol.

What’s the most ironic thing you’ve seen happen?

Fatm_Th’s Profile PhotoFatm
It'd probably be the last season of Game of Thrones. The show's creators had gotten signed on to do a trilogy of Star Wars movies cause of the success it had previously. You could clearly tell they rushed the last season since they made many... questionable decisions to say the least Haha Then cause of said season's bad reception, their Star Wars trilogy got cancelled by Lucasfilm. I honestly don't know if I mourn the loss of said trilogy. The way Game of Thrones ended gave me the impression that they relied so much on George R. R. Martin's writing, since he hadn't caught up finishing the book series yet 😅
Whats the most ironic thing youve seen happen

How different would your day be if you could just spend one entire day without your phone? Would it make your day better or worse?

fiezuqa’s Profile PhotoJess
I'd be a lot more productive, that's for sure! At the same time I'd loose much of the contact I have with my friends, since much of it is through social media! To combat the productivity issue, @LunarHuntress recommended the app "Forest" to me and it's done wonders! It basically forces you to not touch your phone during a set time, otherwise a tree that's been growing on your screen will wither! I can definitely recommend it, I'll certainly get use of it again when I'm writing on my thesis 😅😊
How different would your day be if you could just spend one entire day without

When do you feel most like yourself?

LouisaRHale’s Profile PhotoLou
when i'm alone early in the morning and i'm listening to great music, being productive through writing whether it's personal or for work, drinking iced coffee or an iced tea, and enjoying the scent of a good candle.
also, when i'm outside in the sunshine and i'm laying on a blanket in the grass with the sunlight beaming down onto my face and body, and i can feel the grass beneath my feet. it's so comforting.

I'm going to a party tomorrow and the theme is "Vacation". If you were going to said party, what'd you wear? You can interpret that theme however you wish 😎🏝🛩

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
So I mulled over this question for a little while and struggled to come up with anything more imaginative than... Hawaiian shirt, sunglasses, mickey mouse ears... Which was frustrating seeing how, y'know, I'm a creative writing student. Surely, I should be able to think of something more original than hawaiian shirt, sandals, mickey ears.
Alas, the theme "vacation" just doesn't seem to inspire much from me. The only thing I could think of that was even vaguely inventive was a roll-along suitcase, with boxed wine inside, and a little hole cut out the front for the tap.

Have you lost interest in anything recently/ or in recent years, if so what?

LouisaRHale’s Profile PhotoLou
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Currently, I have lost my interest in writing with other people in terms of longer fiction stories. I always come back to this hobby but... it's kind of tiring. Because people are being inconsistent I tend to lose fun when people especially writers accept a writing project after another and then wonder that they don't have time for all of them and then they stop writing completely for a while and when they come back again they do the same thing, over and over. x'D I am also too busy with my studying lately. So that's fine for now.

Not sure if you do feel it; Why do we think more while we shower, rather than the other parts of the day?!

HackerUae’s Profile PhotoUnknown ~
Its shower thoughts
Yes im that kind of human too, i just showered and had so many thoughts in less than 20 minutes i dunno why! while im writing this i can tell you that i forgot what i was just thinking about… i think these thoughts come due to the total comfort we got during showering and that little haze all over the place makes us think outside the box creatively

Should I unblock this person? they were being annoying so I blocked them but they were really nice to me I’m just really confused about how I feel i about them

In what way were they annoying?
Were they hateful and mean?
Were they speaking an inconvenient truth that upset you?
It is impossible to advise you because your original statement is conflicting. You claim they annoy you while also claiming they were really nice to you.
Which is it?
- Annoying or Really nice?
Also, why are you confused about your feelings toward them? Are you afraid of falling in love?
I had a similar experience, except I was the one who got blocked. It happened a few months ago when I was writing and posting original poems and one of my followers said she really enjoyed my poetry. So we began texting and eventually became friends. Then one day, one of her friend from Spain, who is a drama queen and who gossips 24x7, told her that I was this evil, hateful and untrustworthy SOB who must be blocked. So my virtual friend who enjoyed my writing blocked me without offering any explanation other than she disliked me.
I guess what I am trying to say is that yes, sometimes blocking is the proper thing to do, but just understand that it is not always easy to analyze and understand the motives of other people or whether or not they are a good person or a bad person.
I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt and when I have concerns, I will attempt to ask questions and try my best to be patient and understanding before I block someone and destroy the relationship.

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Things you do to kill boredeom?

heartthrobe_’s Profile PhotoHEARTTHROBE
The most powerful and blessing that I have given.... I'm best healer I can heal myself quickly , the pain I felt so long and carry it inside door corner of my heart sometimes it aches like my heart filled with blood tears I know how it feels when everything against you but only one Allah is with you the most powerful the most merciful.....dear girls believe me you are god gifted don't waste your energy on toxic people whom don't deserve you....make your own standards and recognize yourself.....who are you....be independent dear girls....value your worth.....💜
By doing self writing write my own thoughts and feelings

Education important to you.?

james24540954’s Profile PhotoJames
I think a good education can help you a lot. Not always with jobs haha but in life it can teach you important things. Like how laws of physics work, writing properly, reading, exploring creativity, maths, making things. All sorts. Even working to deadlines can help teach you how to manage time better for other stuff in life.
People don't need to go to university to be smart, but other education I think really does help build that foundation.

In a most noisy life, what gives you peace?

ahmedhany011’s Profile Photoأحمَـد
My family, especially my mother. Just listening to her voice is enough for me to be good. I love everything about our friendship and how close we are now. The look she gives me every moment makes days go in an easy way.
My bestfriend, I don't think I could speak freely or find someone so special and has so much in common with me like that. Everything is easy with the support and knowing that someone believes in you and always impressed by you.
My cats, I can't say enough about them. I love them to the moon and back.
Every tiny thing that represents beauty in this world.
Music, books, writing, movies, series, long walk and sleeping for a hell of time.

Someone ever not believe the love you have for them? It's kinda depressing tbh it's like their messing with you

"Depressing Love" by Alex
Yes it is depressing when you love someone but they accuse you of not loving them, especially early in the relationship when the couple are still trying to understand one another. I admit that I get distracted with my music and writing and they become an obsession. Once I put my pen to paper or start playing my guitar, I do not like to be interrupted unless it is an emergency. Unfortunately, most people I have lived with whether brother, sister, parents, wife or children, do not understand or appreciate the mind of an artist and so they confuse my passion and concentration as disinterest.
It is one of the reasons that if I am ever single, I will remain single. Living by myself is the only way I will be able to create poems and music uninterrupted and without having to justify my behavior or being forced to deal with the constant complaints and accusations of disinterest. And as for me, I will never comprehend why people cannot understand that a writer cannot write nor a musician practice his music while simultaneously talking to family and friends or painting the house, washing the dishes or mowing the lawn. Music and writing require silence and concentration without comment or justification.
So to answer your original question, yes it is most depressing to love people while also being accused of not loving them. It is also depressing to write poems that nobody reads or to write songs that people do not hear (because they are too busy talking) or to strive for perfection in an imperfect and uncaring world. And might I propose that this is precisely the reason why so many talented artists decide to end their lives. I completely understand! To be a sensitive soul living in an insensitive and uncaring world is, in my opinion, a profound and painful reality that is impossible to reconcile. Luckily for me, I am able to co-exist in both worlds, but I would much prefer to be a full time artist who devotes all of his time and effort to creating music and poetry.
Thank you for your sincere and insightful question. /Alex

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As a musician, what would you do if music did not exist??

To be clear, I am foremost a fan / supporter of other artists and I would not consider myself a musician since I do not monetize on any artistic pursuits / ventures. My involvement as an artist is strictly for personal pleasure and an immense appreciation for the arts / music. I cannot fathom life without music but if that were the case, I would spend considerably more time exploring and pursuing some of my other artistic interests: poetry, painting, writing, photography, etc.
As a musician what would you do if music did not exist

Thoughts 💭 on NEW Batman movie ?

alfax1’s Profile PhotoSHARJEEL ALI ♾
This version of Batman is probably not as good as the Christopher Nolan Trilogy, but it’s still worth the hype because this one sticks to the comic books “Batman Year One”, “Batman Year Two” and “Batman Ego and other tales”. This batman is kinda realistic as compared to other batman movies, moreover this batman is a dark detective type rather than the types we are used to.
No offense, but according to normies who watch senseless action movies with no proper storyline said Batman is such a boring movie. (They watch $hitty endian movies and are like best movie bro) These kinda movie watchers ruined new movies cuz they just want action and film studios are influenced by this demographic and their money so they make pointless action movies. 🤦🏻‍♂️😒
Why am I writing like a movie critic 🤔🤣

Post something worth reading 🌸

usmanaay1’s Profile PhotoUsman
Spent all day writing beside my window that shows to little to stimulate my senses. Two words are all I came across and one of them is "you".I tore apart the paper for the words didn't rhyme. 'I' doesn't rhyme with 'you', does it ? I stuck my hand out of the window and turned all those little pieces of paper towards wind with 'you' and 'I' separately stained so I could see where they end up.Slowly they fell.Heavily they sank.Out of nowhere a bird came gliding and took those two blemised pieces in its mouth and soared away.'There you have it', said the universe, 'there's your sign' and from this day onward , I call it my foremost poetry.

We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. Medicine, law, business,these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty,love, these are what we stay alive for.

Indeed, I do believe as well we all have emotions wether strong or weak, bad or good.
To be frank, i write to relief myself.after all we don’t tolerate outbursts. I believe our soul can talk via writing silently through pen and paper.

اطور نفسي فالانجلش ازاي؟

في أربع مهارات مفروض تشتغل عليهم اول مهارة ال listening في البدايه بتسمع افلام او اغاني أو فيديوهات ل اجانب مترجمه مع الوقت هتعرف تسمع وتفهم كلامهم كويس وتقلد نطقهم في الكلمات
2-تاني مهارة وهي ال reading انك تقرأ القراءة الصح بال accent الصح وطبعا محتاج قاموس ولو انت مش دارس انجلش يبقي الناطق افضل ليك لان اغلب النطق اللي المصرين بينطقوه غلط اصلا ف اي كلمه مفروض الأول تتأكد من نطقها من خلال القاموس في مهاره تانيه وهي القراءه السريعه
3-المهارة الثالثة ال speaking وطبعا محتاج يبقي عندك مخزون كلمات كتير ودي مرتبطه شويه بال listening
4-ال writing علشان تقدر تتطورها اكتب كل يوم مذاكراتك بالانجلش وأقرأ كتب وقصص انجلش هتساعدك انك تكتسب أساليب جديدة في الكتابه
محتاج ترجمه يعني ممكن تقرأ قصه وتحاول تفهم اللي انت قراته في البدايه هتلاقي الموضوع صعب شويه بس بعدين هتقدر انك تفهم المعني وأنت بتقرا مش هتبقي محتاج انك تقرأ ال text اكتر من مرة
بس المهم انك تتابع حد native

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How do you manage to post such beautiful answers?

Omg thank you so much really i don't know. I m very really shocked to hear this i can't believe it this how can manage my post beautifully answers. I just enjoyed it very much when i m writing my post hahahaha sometime i myself very very much laughing at when i text my funny posts really i don't know.Hehehe

What's something good that has happened to you lately? ☆

Iittlestar’s Profile Photostar
"Moments In Time" by Alex
You might not know this about me, but every day that I wake up, breathe.. and get to experience life, is a blessing for me. So at the most basic level, I would say that waking up in the morning and realizing that God has given me another day is something good, something celebrated and something to take care of. And I do not equate good with the accumulation of material wealth or the pursuit of carnal desires; rather, I prefer to cherish moments in time. These moments might include time spent with family and friends, or it might consist of time spent alone writing or perhaps practicing my golf swing or performing music. I consider these moments in time an integral part of my life's journey that is comprised of a quest for continuous improvement, self control and an understanding of the self, which motivates me, provides spiritual guidance, and illuminates my life's path by providing a solid foundation where I can establish realistic goals, set objectives and participate in daily activities that contribute to achieving my stated objectives.
I am also a simple man with an unambiguous lifestyle and a deliberate and persistent thought process that reduces my anxiety while eliminating the emotional clutter that inhibits personal growth. This creates a healthy environment where happiness and joy can thrive and I can concentrate and focus on my goals. And since I am curious by nature, I feel compelled to ask questions so I can better understand how things function in the real world. My contemplative thoughts are where I seek refuge to discover and understand myself which, in turn, generates happiness that fills my soul with joy, wonder, good humor and a sense of purpose.
Thank You!

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(I'm really am enjoying writing you, reading your responses). Like your new profile photo. Are those real roses?

Luv_freckles’s Profile PhotoM. Adam
Нет, это искусственные розы. Фото было сделано дома у моей бабушки, у неё 4 таких букета, раньше как то принято было дарить такие цветы.

Are you doing something you're passionate about, or have you not made it there, yet?

vexiled’s Profile Photo↭vex↭
i feel very fortunate to be doing something that i am passionate about, not only on a personal level but a professional level too. i love writing and editing, and i'm thrilled that i get to do it every day as my job.

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