"Help comes in many forms. A kidney, a kind gesture, a friend to light your way. Still, too often we insist on doing it ourselves. We're afraid of looking weak, of not being tough. Truth is, we're all capable of walking through the world by ourselves. But most of the time, life is better with company."Meredith Grey
So what's the worst kind of thing one can do to somebody that the other person has to say 'go to hell or you'll regret this for the rest of your life.'?
If you learn to live in this thoroughly displeasing world with contentment and you're surrounded by loyal loving people and they love you without any interest. That is what paradise is, here.