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Something like that actually did happen to me before though

I’m sorry you were distressed by the situation. It’s really nobody’s business what someone is wearing unless it’s illegal and intervention of authorities is needed. I saw someone shopping the other day in what appeared to be a stripper outfit. It caught me by surprise but I simply walked by and left her alone. Another day, an older woman was trying on shirts in the women’s clothing section of the store. I didn’t say anything to her either, and nobody was affected. The best thing someone can do is look the other way and carry on with their day. Bodies just aren’t that big of a deal. I wish people would mind their own business.
+8 answers in: “How would you react if you were hanging out with a few friends in public and saw that a guy sitting in front of you had a pink Victoria's Secret thong showing out of the top of his pants?”

I mean like what if he wasn't really paying attention to what was going on and just minding his business. Like would you let him know his panties were showing? Or just say something nice as a heads up to save him some further embarrassment

I would say nothing. People just need to mind their own business. You only assume he’s embarrassed because you are, but that’s not likely to be the case. Stop looking and leave him alone. That’s my advice.
+8 answers in: “How would you react if you were hanging out with a few friends in public and saw that a guy sitting in front of you had a pink Victoria's Secret thong showing out of the top of his pants?”

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Do you have any acquaintances who suffer from bad luck and with whom you don't want to communicate because of this? Share some stories.

No. If anything, I’m the friend with bad luck. If someone doesn’t want to know me because of that, screw them. I deserve better.
I’m not superstitious, and I don’t discriminate against people unless they deserve it (bigots and abusers, mostly).

Would you say anything to the guy then?

I would leave him alone unless he looked like he needed a response from me. If he’s trying to ignore the commotion, it’s a clear sign that he just wants to left alone. If he acknowledges or confronts the group, I would definitely speak up. I have defended strangers before. It wasn’t an LGBT situation, but I will definitely call out a bully or reach out to someone who needs to feel safe.
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What if you had noticed one of your friends laughing and taking a picture of him?

I would get mad at the friend and tell them to stop. We would definitely have words. Most likely, I would leave if possible, and not continue the friendship. Scenarios like this are why I try to travel to get-togethers alone. So I can leave if someone’s a jerk.
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What part of your body gets the most compliments

People have complimented my facial complexion a lot. I used to have even skin with no blemishes. Not so much anymore! Gone are the days of being compared to a porcelain doll. Now I’m just old and itchy! 😬
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Name a person who has never let you down

My nieces, but they’re little kids, you know. I don’t take their moods personally.
Adults are more complicated. I think everyone lets everyone down at some point. We form expectations that we shouldn’t have, or we didn’t follow through on a plan, or I could go on and on. I don’t have anyone in my life who has never disappointed me. I’ve disappointed people too. We are all human.
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Have u followed a bad advice? Which one? What happened?

I gave into peer pressure to date someone who ended up being a sociopath.
There are many other examples. I had no common sense or ability to think for or defend myself in my youth, and I suffered as a result.

What myths and legends do you find most interesting?

Thanks for your patience. 🙂 My lifelong favorite has been Robin Hood (also favorite Disney animation, if I had to choose). I also think Greek and Norse mythologies are fascinating, although I can do without the erotic and incestual parts of it (not my preferred genre). I’ve always found the supernatural to be interesting, but the psyche of the characters even more so. I’m always trying to get into minds in hopes of understanding them, I guess. I want to know their thought processes and see some emotion. (Same goes for people in real life!)
Of course, what I grew up hearing/reading the most was Assyrian mythology, aka the legendary stories of the Old Testament such as Noah’s Ark, the walls of Jerico, Goliath, etc., which originated from The Epic of Gilgamesh and earlier writings.
What are your favorites? Feel free to make some suggestions and I’ll look them up.

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