When u stand outside in the sun do ur eyes become like a brighter gray?
my eyes in the sun look like this!! kinda greenish / brown i think
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oh my god finally someone said it thank you so much anytime i ever mentioned that lying as long as no ones getting hurt isnt necessarily a bad thing i get attacked
yeah exactly?? like who the fuck cares if i said i had ravioli for dinner when i actually had pizza? who cares if i got an 88 not a 90 on my math test like i said? who cares if i say i like pink more than yellow when it's actually vice versa?? like i'm not hurting anyone lmao
the only time lying is bad is when you lie about shit like miscarriages, mental disorders, abuse/trauma, etc because YIKES... like it's one thing to lie in order to hide that ('yeah no i wasn't abused) but it's another to lie in order to enter communities that aren't your's idk if i'm making sense i'm a mess today whoops
the only time lying is bad is when you lie about shit like miscarriages, mental disorders, abuse/trauma, etc because YIKES... like it's one thing to lie in order to hide that ('yeah no i wasn't abused) but it's another to lie in order to enter communities that aren't your's idk if i'm making sense i'm a mess today whoops
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When is lying okay? Why?
unpopular opinion maybe but lying isn't inherently bad or manipulative??
lots of mental disorders make people lie compulsively or because of intrusive thoughts or a variety of any other reasons, and as long as that lie isn't hurting anyone i don't really see the big deal?
and lots of people have to lie because of the situation they are in-- they can live in a toxic/abusive home, they can have a partner gaslighting them, etc., and sometimes lying is crucial in those situations.
so yeah imo lying isn't bad
lots of mental disorders make people lie compulsively or because of intrusive thoughts or a variety of any other reasons, and as long as that lie isn't hurting anyone i don't really see the big deal?
and lots of people have to lie because of the situation they are in-- they can live in a toxic/abusive home, they can have a partner gaslighting them, etc., and sometimes lying is crucial in those situations.
so yeah imo lying isn't bad
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What's your wish on a four-leaf clover?
i'm irish and i've never heard of this what is this bullshit
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What does thirst follow mean
when you follow someone solely bc you find them attractive, my followers always spike around 20+ whenever i post a selfie like y'all ain't sly
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I thought you were only on the feminist side of ask. Why is someone from the nonfeminist side sending around your link.
i have a lot of followers and i highly doubt all of them are for feminism my guy, ik for a fact a lot of people thirst follow me so lmao
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What color was your childhood home?
i made the candidates on toca mini lmao
Opinion on Brendon Urie [Of Panic At The Disco] Coming out as Pansexual?
opinion on dallon weekes (of panic! at the disco) coming out as heterosexual?
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Ceren.
What animes do you watch
law and order svu is the best anime for sure ??????????????
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pap of the person you love the most
i couldnt pick one
Pap of something?
transformation... saturday?
What do you think abt Self-diagnosing?
i think self diagnosing is important, because not everyone can get a formal diagnosis since therapists can be expensive, hard to find, they live in an ableist household, certain diagnosis can affect future jobs and stuff, etc.
but finding a checklist on tumblr doesn't automatically make you diagnosed with that disorder-- what makes a disorder a disorder is the fact that it's "extreme" and affects day-to-day life. being angry at your friend is not automatically bpd. and some disorders aren't self-diagnosable, like did.
so yes, self dx is valid and important and erasing self dx people from nd communities is ableist and toxic.
no, relating to post or checklist on tumblr doesn't make you have that disorder.
but finding a checklist on tumblr doesn't automatically make you diagnosed with that disorder-- what makes a disorder a disorder is the fact that it's "extreme" and affects day-to-day life. being angry at your friend is not automatically bpd. and some disorders aren't self-diagnosable, like did.
so yes, self dx is valid and important and erasing self dx people from nd communities is ableist and toxic.
no, relating to post or checklist on tumblr doesn't make you have that disorder.
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you literally look like a cricket lol
crickets are adorable, can tell the temperature, are found all over the world and can survive a wide range of temperatures and thrive in almost all biomes, they break down soil and help the ecosystem and overall contribute far more to this earth than your pathetic ass ?
Homestuck trash
its funny cause i'm wearing a homestuck shirt today which is rare tbh
i'm going on a roadtrip with @falloutbunny right now though ??
i'm going on a roadtrip with @falloutbunny right now though ??
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Wait, Ok I want you to educate me AF so if I sound obnoxious or rude please tell me but I never knew sociopath was a slur? Could you explain how it is? and is psychopath one too or is that a legitimate thing? I'm so sorry please feel free to hate me.
yes both sociopath and psychopath are slurs. they have not been formally used in the dsm for years, and people who use those terms are abelist and outdated.
sociopath was used to describe people with a apathy or a lack of social empathy, so disorders like avpd, bpd, etc.
psychopath was used to describe people with apathy/lack of empathy and psychotic behaviour (hallucinations, intrusive thoughts, outbursts, etc.).
historically those terms have been used to dehumanize and oppress mentally ill people, and those terms are associated with bad behaviour and bad people-- like serial killers, even though most violent crime is committed by neurotypicals.
using those slurs when you're neurotypical or a neurodivergent person with only depression/anxiety is extremely ableist. the entire ahs fanbase is especially toxic for this by always calling the characters (especially tate!!) those slurs, despite said characters (TATE) showing extreme coding of being mentally ill.
tl;dr sociopath and psychopath are slurs thar have been used to harm, dehumanize and oppress mentally ill people and they're not even accurate terms since they've been out of the dsm for years.
sociopath was used to describe people with a apathy or a lack of social empathy, so disorders like avpd, bpd, etc.
psychopath was used to describe people with apathy/lack of empathy and psychotic behaviour (hallucinations, intrusive thoughts, outbursts, etc.).
historically those terms have been used to dehumanize and oppress mentally ill people, and those terms are associated with bad behaviour and bad people-- like serial killers, even though most violent crime is committed by neurotypicals.
using those slurs when you're neurotypical or a neurodivergent person with only depression/anxiety is extremely ableist. the entire ahs fanbase is especially toxic for this by always calling the characters (especially tate!!) those slurs, despite said characters (TATE) showing extreme coding of being mentally ill.
tl;dr sociopath and psychopath are slurs thar have been used to harm, dehumanize and oppress mentally ill people and they're not even accurate terms since they've been out of the dsm for years.
What do you think about dress codes in school? Do you think uts ok to have tattoos or to wear crop tops that show your belly? Do you think it is not good for a learning environment?
do i think dress codes are ridiculous? yes.
do i think you should wear inappropriate clothes to school? no.
girls getting flagged for skirts above the knee, shorts, tank tops, leggings, etc, is misogyny because we have boys in muscle tanks and shorts above the knee and similar things who aren't getting flagged. that is blatant sexism.
it's wrong that girls can't show their knees and their shoulders and that girls with large breasts can't wear boat neck tops without getting dress coded, but there is absolutely no reason to be wearing a lace bralette and high waisted denim shorts to school.
so yeah, dress codes need revamping and we need to call out the misogyny of dress codes, but school is still learning environment and you need to dress appropriately-- wearing 6" heels and a mini skirt and crop top is not appropriate for school.
do i think you should wear inappropriate clothes to school? no.
girls getting flagged for skirts above the knee, shorts, tank tops, leggings, etc, is misogyny because we have boys in muscle tanks and shorts above the knee and similar things who aren't getting flagged. that is blatant sexism.
it's wrong that girls can't show their knees and their shoulders and that girls with large breasts can't wear boat neck tops without getting dress coded, but there is absolutely no reason to be wearing a lace bralette and high waisted denim shorts to school.
so yeah, dress codes need revamping and we need to call out the misogyny of dress codes, but school is still learning environment and you need to dress appropriately-- wearing 6" heels and a mini skirt and crop top is not appropriate for school.
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What are snails even trying to do?
their best
If I ever date a Native American girl, I'd NEED her to wear a Pocahontas costume during sex. That's a fact. And I'm an Asian guy btw. Not some white mayo fuсkboy.
cool, you're still racist and sexist because being a poc doesn't mean you can't be racist!! not to mention if you can't get it up without someone wearing a cheap costume from spirit halloween you must have a pathetic sex life ngl
The photo u posted down their with Google all over you can u take the words off I want to see how u look without them
my profile has a ton of pics of me so it's really obvious what i look like but
panic! at the disco/twenty one pilots?
a tough choice
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Do you realise that princess jasmine isn't real and is somewhat an accurate representation of Arab women around that time.
I'd ask an Arab girl to dress like Princess Jasmine
and princess jasmine is a racist, sexist character pushing the stereotype that arab women are subservient and submissive towards men, they have to be married off, etc.
take your racist, sexist fetish elsewhere because quite frankly a) i don't care b) it's disgusting and c) considering i'm a minor and sex repulsed, this is sexual harassment, my guy :^)
take your racist, sexist fetish elsewhere because quite frankly a) i don't care b) it's disgusting and c) considering i'm a minor and sex repulsed, this is sexual harassment, my guy :^)
Is this problematic? If I ever date a Native American girl, I'd want her to dress like Pocahontas during foreplay. (I would never ask a white girl to do that though, because that's whitewashing. Instead, I'd ask a white girl to dress like Cinderella or something)
well let's see, pocahontas was a child that was r*ped, taken from her home, had her family and friends massacred, and was used as a racist example that "uwu see natives arent ALL savages she speaks english(:", i have no idea why you would want a native girl to roleplay that lmao
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Why is Emma Watson a white feminist?
i swear all anons see me as this
Do you have a phobia? What is it?
my phobia is neurotypicals throwing around the word "phobia" for everything that upsets them :)))
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