hijo de la luna ;

full offense on all of these tbh!
- if you say #alllivesmatter you're a racist piece of trash
- saying "women make less than men... it's like .25$ less.." makes you a racist. that's white women. white women make more than black men. the people who make the least? latinx women, esp. latinx trans women.
- saying shit like "omg i don't even look that good!!1!" in reference to trans people makes you a piece of shit, yikes
- heternormativity and cisnormativity is disgusting and if you participate in it you are just as disgusting
- treating 13/14/15 year olds like adults is wrong. yes, they have a certain responsiblity over their younger peers, no, they are not adults.
- pointing out people's grammar / spelling mistakes makes you ableist and racist/xenophobic
- being pro-life is being anti-woman and anti-trans.
- saying shit like "not all men", "not all straights", "not all cis people" makes you just as bad as the 'problematic' people in those groups.
- metonymy =/= oppression.
- most fashion trends in feminine pop culture today are stolen from woc (thick brows, full lips, bindis, henna, headresses...)
- lesbians who say "i love pxssy" and gay boys who say "i love dxck" are gross and transphobic yikes
- also feminists who say "pxssy power" and shit like that need to go
- nonbinary people have a place in the feminist movement
- trans, bisexual women of colour who were s-x workers started the feminist movement. erase that, and you need to go.
- he/him pronouns are not male pronouns. she/her pronouns are not female pronouns. they are just pronouns.
- pxnis =/= male anatomy. vxgina =/= female anatomy. they are what they are. say it.
- jokes about hallucinations, delusions, paranoia, etc. -- are not funny
- neither are rxpe jokes, kidnapping jokes, etc. etc.
- if you're an abled d/a neuroatypical-- shut the fuck up about "uwu i know REAL ableism"
- cishet ace people and cishet aro people-- stop saying queer. it's not yours to say.
- stop giving animals and gifts unless you know that family can care for it!!!
- stop comparing animal abuse to human abuse.
- the confederate flag needs to go. you know what the south should celebrate instead? whataburger and pretty sunsets.
- women: stop shutting down other women for preferences on their body.body shaming needs to go

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probs a ton more but ask is cutting me off

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no offense, but stop generalizing agender people as 'masculine' or 'feminine' unless they want to be generalized that way. i'm agender, i'm nothing, i'm androgynous and i'm keeping it that way.

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no offense, but stop calling 'he/him' pronouns 'male' pronouns and calling 'she/her' pronouns 'female' pronouns. nonbinary people use he/him and she/her, they are not male or female.

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no offense, but nonbinary people don't need to fit your gender roles or categorize themselves into the boxes of male and female and androgynous. they can be as fluid or as strict with their presentation as they please.

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no offense, but stop using the word 'transtrenders' and saying that teens in their 13/14s exploring gender identity leads them to being 'transtrenders'. nonbinary doesn't have to fit into your standards and gender roles.

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no offense, but stop saying you have to be bi or pan to date a trans person. if you're a girl and like a trans boy, surprise, you're still straight because he's a boy!

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no offense, but over 50% of trans people out there try to kill themselves before they're even twenty. stop acting like transphobia isn't a problem.

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no offense, but stop saying that a trans person going "haha lmao fuck cis people" due to their past experience with cis people is the same as a cis person going "uwu i hate trans people..." no. they're not the same. one holds oppression, one is metonymy.

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no offense, but i don't care if this offends cis people. my gender, my existence, is not here to please you. it's here to please ME.

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okay i'm gonna try to break down this ignorance real nice and simple but considering i really don't have time for transphobic assholes, let's see how this goes.

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gender roles =/= gender identity =/= presentation.

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gender roles are something feminism is against. the idea that boys like cars, action/adventure, are tough, don't cry, love blue, work out, fixate on sports, are smarter and stronger, etc., and the idea that girls are dainty, gentle, love flowers and fairies, cry easily, are weak emotionally and physically, are st*pid, and love pink and glitter and sparkles is harmful. it's been proven time and time again. gender roles are harmful growing up and as a grown up it remains harmful. that being said-- a female who loves stereotypical male things does not make her any less female. a male who loves stereotypical female things does not make him any less male. gender roles, or lack thereof =/= gender.

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gender identity is something self described, how you feel gender. if you ask ten different girls what it meant for them to be a girl, they'd all say something different. and that's fine! gender is how you choose to perceive it, and if you see your gender as something out of girl and boy, or as a mix of them, or a constant flow between the two, whatever-- that's fine, and your gender identity is valid. nonbinary genders, or a gender outside of the male / female binary, has existed since mesopotamian times! that's very early in human history. the idea of the gender binary is a strictly westernized principle-- many cultures had something similar to a 'third gender', something outside of male and female that was up for interpretation to those who identified as it (http://bit.ly/thirdgender ).how you feel your gender identity = gender.

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cross dressing is a simple act, that by itself, has nothing to do with gender presentation. i'll take adore delano, for example. adore is quite simply, a drag queen. drag is the act of a male dressing into what they perceive as hyperfeminine-- and performing (usually a lipsync or singing). adore's real name is danny, and when he isn't in drag-- when he isn't 'adore'-- he is masculine! he works out, and has male friends, and wears 'masculine' clothing and does 'masculine' activities. the fact that he likes dressing in drag-- cross dressing-- has nothing to do with the fact that the is male. his gender and his love for drag are two separate events that do not coincide. presentation =/= gender.

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MY GENDER IS NOT UP FOR DISCUSSION. IT EXISTS, IT IS VALID.
MY GENDER DOES NOT HAVE TO "MAKE SENSE". IT EXISTS, IT IS VALID.
MY GENDER IS NOT "NORMAL". BUT IT EXISTS, AND IT IS VALID.

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YOU ARE NOT A LGBTQ+ ALLY IF YOU DO NOT ACCEPT NONBINARY GENDERS.

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YOU ARE A TRANSPHOBE, PLAIN AND SIMPLE.

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sorry i haven't been i've been really busy !! here's a shoutout to you guys for my lack of activity

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- shoutout to those of you who don't or can't brush your teeth everyday
- shoutout to those of you who forget to shower
- shoutout to you guys who don't do laundry often and wear the same clothes two weeks straight
- shoutout to you all that want to be healthy but can't be, so you eat whatever
- shoutout to those of you who feel underappreciated, i promise, one day you'll get the recognition you deserve

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remember:
- drink some water
- put on some lotion and chapstick if you can
- clip and file your nails
- put on some comfy clothes
- eat something yummy, no matter how small
- stretch a little
- if you have plant or animal friends, go love them for a while!
- take some selfies because you always look amazing
- take your medication if you have any!

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you're strong, you're important, you're loved and cared for. you're made from the same thing as the stars! you produce carbon dioxide for plants! if it weren't you, who would do all the little things you do (like smile at dogs on the street, cheering up your friends, cooking ramen to that perfect taste, knowing movie endings before you see it, or ripping grass up from the park)! today is your longest record for days lived! and you don't have to be greatful that your life isn't worse.

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dear cis people:

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shit trans people are not obliged to tell you ;
- their birth name
- their gender assigned at birth
- what genitals they have
- their chromosomes
- their gender identity, in detail
- why they think they're trans
- if they are out to their parents, friends, school, etc.
- if they are dysphoric
- what they are dysphoric about
- what triggers their dysphoria

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shit trans people can do and do not need your 'support' for ;
- having trans headcanons
- come out
- alternately, refuse to come out
- make jokes about their gender
- hate/dislike cis people
- make their gender identity as 'simple' as you want it
- changing their name frequently
- changing their gender identity frequently
- alternately, going by their birth name
- dressing and presenting with gender roles
- crossdress / dress in drag
- use pronouns other than he, she, or they
- have 'weird' gender identities you don't get
- be religious, and love their religion
- shun god and religion
- love themselves, and love their body
- don't be dysphoric

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to all my trans friends: don't be ashamed to exist; exist well, exist loudly.

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i'm pro choice because in a pro-life world:

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- a 9 year old girl who just hit puberty and got pregnant via r*pe, and doesn't even know what's happening to her body, now has to have a child
- a trans boy who's been cis passing gets pregnant due even though his partner used a condom and he's on birth control, now has to be pregnant and be tormented with transphobia
- a woman with the cure for cancer, a genius, now has to drop out of college, because she's pregnant, and won't be able to re-enter college for a good ten years since she'll be a single mother
- someone with anaemia and a weak body now has to risk their life to try and carry a child full term. the chances of that child being ill are now skyrocketing, and the chance of the parent becoming permanently disabled are also skyrocketing
- a mentally ill poor woman who cannot possibly afford all the fees and mental stress of giving birth, and raising a child until she can give it to a certified adoption agency now has to do so
- while there are resources for someone to give birth, the resources to care for that child after it's brought into the world are minimal
- in an ultrasound, it's revealed a child is going to live a horrible, painful life. however, since abortions are banned, the child has to be brought into the world
- abortion doesn't cease to exist just because they are banned. women* are now going to be dying on bathroom floors, alleyways and abandoned apartments trying to give themselves abortions

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yikes okay
☆ abortion is not murder
☆ you can't be racist towards white people
☆ people with depression and anxiety are more accepted than people with personality disorders, schizophrenia, etc.
☆ music elitists are super annoying
☆ bernie sanders is better than hilary clinton
☆ men don't experience sexism ("misandry" isn't real)
☆ if you don't want to vaccinate your kids/yourself, but they/you can be vaccinated, you're a piece of crap
☆ expecting everyone to be vegan is ableist and classist
☆ you shouldn't say the n-word if you're not black
☆ you shouldn't say cr*zy or psy*ho if you're neurotypical or only have depression/anxiety
☆ going "oh but hitler was doing the best for his ppl!!1!" makes you a nazi apologist, sorry
☆ supporting bands like falling in reverse or front porch step and knowingly acknowledging how bad their frontmen are makes you a piece of shit
☆ expecting poor people to "just get a job" is ableist, classist, and racist
☆ america is not a good country
☆ neither is canada
☆ homophobia is not over in america just because queer marriage was legalized
☆ if you're a heterosexual aromantic or heteroromantic asexual -- you can't say queer
☆ global warming is a real problem
☆ police brutality towards poc is very much a real issue -- especially in america
☆ most cops are bad, sorry not sorry
☆ fetishizing serial killers, cxnnibalism, pxdophilia, etc. makes you a disgusting human
☆ thinking people who believe in aliens, the illuminati, crack theories, etc. are cr*zy / irrational / delusional is ableist as hell
:-) come at me

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