What is one thing you regret having done or not done in your life?
I regret all intimate relationships, since I repeatedly chose the wrong men. I also regret adhering to the church and its people for so long. In retrospect, they were users, abusers, control freaks, ableists, racists, and extreme sexists. My life has been filled with immense toxicity as a result of being raised in a realm of hyper-religion. It has taken a long time to find my voice and enough self-worth to break free from it.I regret not standing up for myself from an early age, but in my defense, I was trapped in an abusive atmosphere. I would have suffered far more had I spoken out. That’s why I don’t judge people (mostly women) who neither fight back nor speak out until later. It’s a safety issue, and I get it. It’s instinct. We do what we need to do to survive. Some days, I do regret not fighting back, in spite of what would have possibly happened to me.
Some of that was hilarious, but I need you to write some kind of caption or comment if you’re going to send a link. I normally delete unaccompanied links. Thanks for the laugh though!
what other language can you speak?
I know a few phrases in French and Spanish. I only speak English fluently.
How much did you lurk your crushes social media before talking to them?
Any crush I have doesn’t happen on social media. I know them, or at least met them first live and in person. A crush to me simply means I think they’re worth getting to know on a more personal level. And I might like their face, too.