Yeah some folks are bad at it. Some don’t even acknowledge answers to their questions. It’s a bit chaotic here, more so for some people than others. I have been overwhelmed myself, and I’m barely in the top 100.
what is something is missing in life that was in your life and you love that?
I miss friends who’ve died, my grandmothers, my mom occasionally, I’d appreciate a more functional body and more accessible medical care and perhaps someone special to have coffee with on the weekends. And a lot of sleep, and less pain, and a safer place to live.
I predicted it. I can’t stop it. I don’t like seeing innocent people suffer in general. I will not condone violence, but I also understand (from the perspective of a white ally) why it’s happening. Until systemic racism ends, we have to expect that people are going to act out in rage when nothing else works. For the record, I want to burn shit to the ground when nobody listens to my injustices, too. I simply choose not to act upon it because refraining from causing physical harm is a part of my character that I take very seriously. This is all extremely upsetting.
Who is the person that you have spent most the time of your life with?
People who disrespect my boundaries, which I have made clear in my bio, are going to receive answers they don’t like. Sex questions will either get you reported/blocked or horribly trolled until you’re so uncomfortable that you delete your own question. Don’t break my rules and expect to be respected. I’m going to tell you that you are garbage at sex and I’d rather sit on a cactus than want your worthless appendage. Troll me, and you’re going to get it right back.I’m sure some men are just fine at sex. I’ve never known them, but I know they exist. I am abstinent for many reasons. Some of those reasons are strictly mine and has nothing to do with anyone else. Other reasons are a history of men’s selfishness, neglect, disrespect, dishonesty, poor hygiene, and general lack of responsibility. They live in la la land, where they think they’re infallible, that their tiniest effort should be rewarded, and label women “crazy” for not agreeing.No thanks. My life is way better without that. If you want me to feel differently, be a better human.