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What kind of cake do you like most? 🍰

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I absolutely LOVE fruit cakes! 😩🤤
For my birthday every year, I make my own cake from scratch, and almost always it has fruit of some kind in it. One year, it was a lemon blueberry cake with lemon icing which is probably the best cake I’ve ever made. Then another year, it was a apple spice cake with cinnamon buttercream, and then there was a peach cobbler type cake which had brown sugar and cinnamon in it alongside the actual peaches. (Pictured below). I try to come up with different variations every year to make it fun and interesting! 😋
I would post more pictures of cakes I’ve made but unfortunately, many of them have the candles on them showing my age, which I, of course, don’t want. 😬
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Would your answers or the frequency of your answers change if your followers received a massive notification of your answer in the middle of their screen all the time? Would you be more considerate in what you post? 😆 Would you share less personal information, or would you not care about it? 💪🏼

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Hm, I don’t think it’d change the answers themselves, as I don’t share many personal things on here, and if I do, I’m vague. For example, I have a chronic illness, but I will never disclose what it is online, nor will I share what meds I’m on, or much of the symptoms I have, as I do not want or need random strangers giving me unsolicited medical advice. Another example: I do not share my name, age, what state I live in, etc, nor do I share anything about my family, for my privacy and for theirs. From the time I joined ask, I only ever posted the information I felt comfortable with, and that I want on a public platform.
But I definitely do think it’d change the frequency and the quantity! Not like I want to spam people with a bunch of posts all the time, that would get very frustrating. I know I wouldn’t like that with the people I follow on here. 🥴 So I’d for sure be more considerate about it, maybe even have schedule where I post maybe a handful of questions, then wait a few days, post another small handful. Or whatever seemed to work best! ☺️

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Do you find it easy to show your feelings? 😇

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When I truly feel safe with people, I find it a bit easier to show my feelings, but not exactly easy… If that makes sense. 🤔
I tend to have a hard time being vulnerable, as I have often felt like my emotions/feelings are too much or too negative for people. So even when I trust someone, I still struggle to get through expressing what I’m actually feeling, because I worry I’m overwhelming them, or dumping everything on their lap and they won’t appreciate it. Even when it’s obviously not true, I know my loved ones better than that. But my brain has a sneaky way of telling me otherwise. 😟
I think though, over the last few years, I’ve improved with this. Like, I have leaned into being more vulnerable with people I’m close to, and even if it doesn’t come easy expressing things, I still do it. Some of my friends specifically have played a huge role in helping me realize I’m not too much… and regardless of what I’m feeling, it’s better to say it than bottle it up, which I did a lot growing up. So, I’m very grateful! It’s helped me a lot, and it’s allowed me some very fulfilling and needed moments of vulnerability. ☺️

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Have you ever played pool? 🎱

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I have, yes! Not for a while though. I used to “play” with my dad when I was younger, but that was largely him teaching me. I was decent I guess, I definitely feel I’d do better now that I’m older though. Or at least I’d like to think so! 😂
However, I did watch my family play a round of pool this weekend, while at an airbnb! It was a lot of fun even to watch! I had intended on playing, but we ran out of time. 🎱
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How long would you say you need to date your partner before you get married? (your personal opinion)

Hm, I don’t know to be honest. Marriage isn’t the end goal of a relationship for me. I’d be happy if I just dated someone for the rest of my life, honestly. I mean, I know people in my family who never got married and just had one partner for their whole lives regardless. And it makes things a lot easier if you were to separate, you don’t need to worry about divorce and how messy that can be. 😅
But, to give you some kind of answer, I’d say maybe 7-10 years? It seems like a reasonable amount of time, you get to have a lot of memories/experiences together, you really get to know someone well, likely get a chance to live together for a while, see how much of your goals, futures, etc, align, and so on. 🤔
Now, I’m not in a relationship, so this could go right out the window in the future, but at the moment, that’s what I’m thinking. I just really want both my partner and I to be totally confident that this is the right decision for us. ☺️

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Say you were gonna be a speaker, what would choose to talk about? 🎤

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Probably chronic illness, as that’s what I tend to be most… fluent in speaking about. If that makes sense. With many subjects, I feel like I can only talk about it for a short time before I’d struggle, or start racking my brain for something else to say. Whereas, illness is just something I’ve talked extensively about for years, and I could probably speak about various different aspects of illness, the affects it has on life, work, school, relationships, etc. 🤔
I’m also not that confident when speaking in general, I always feel like I’m either babbling too much or stumbling over my words. So, if I just default to what I feel I know best, it takes at least some of that anxiety away, and I might be able to get through a proper speech. 😬
Say you were gonna be a speaker what would choose to talk about
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It doesn't matter if you're a parent or not. What's your best parenting tip/tips? What's something that you see around quite a lot and think it should be done differently?

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Don’t punish your kids for having “negative” moods/emotions... I see parents do this a lot and it frustrates me so much. 😑 Like, if they are angry, sad, just in a bad mood, etc… parents will punish them for “having an attitude” or “not listening” or “acting up.” Instead of just talking to them and helping them understand that those emotions are normal, and teaching healthy coping skills. 🥴
I think it can be easy to forget that children, especially young children, need guidance on what to do with their feelings, how to express them properly, and so on. What they don’t need is their parent telling them to “knock it off” or generally being scolded for it. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Being angry, frustrated, anxious, sad, etc, doesn’t make them a “difficult child,” it makes them a person who is developing and figuring out what it means to deal with challenging things (whatever that might mean/look like at their age).
I’m not saying you shouldn’t set boundaries/rules when it comes to certain behaviors, or that you shouldn’t parent them, tell them no, etc, if they are truly doing something wrong, you certainly should. It just means when they are upset/angry, instead of yelling at them, being like: “Listen, I understand you’re feeling *insert emotion*, I feel like that too sometimes. BUT, I cannot allow you to *insert behavior* (throw things, hit, bite, etc.) Can you tell me what you need instead so I can help you?” Or whatever age appropriate version of that would be.

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It doesnt matter if youre a parent or not Whats your best parenting tiptips
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What activities/hobbies give you dopamine? (What hobbies make you go absolutely crazy?)

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I absolutely LOVE hiking, bowling, gaming, hairstyling, doing makeup, cooking, baking, drawing, painting, and writing. I also, love going to amusement parks and festivals, but it’s rare I actually get a chance to go to either one. I was lucky enough though, to experience TWO festivals last year, and it made me so happy! 😁
However, hiking has to be one of the top ones… Especially if it’s a more difficult hike, and you get the payoff of an amazing view at the end, plus being out in nature, it doesn’t get much better than that for me. Like the amount of dopamine is HIGH! 😂☺️
(Took this after completing one of many hikes in Hawaii. This is what I mean when I say payoff.) 😍
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Have you ever competed in a sport of any kind? ⚽🏋️🐎

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Only time I’ve ever competed was in volleyball when I was like 11… And I only did it maybe 5 times before I quit the team. 😅😂
Let’s just say, I wasn’t the best at it, and the team/coach weren’t the most supportive/helpful. So, I just felt largely out of place and not very welcome. I also, started getting benched every game cause the coach had obvious favorites. 🥴 I think I would’ve maybe gotten into it more if I had a better team, had more practice, etc, as I genuinely did enjoy the competition aspect of things! 😯
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How well do you trust your gut feelings?

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Eh, not super well, but more than I used to… As a recovering people pleaser, I can honestly say that I still have a bit of a hard time with this. I also get anxious about if my gut feeling is correct or not, and whether or not following it would be good for me. Even though, the majority of the time, my gut feeling is correct. 😅
But more than that, even if I am trusting of my gut feelings, it’s a matter of following them and acting accordingly that is challenging for me. Again, I think that’s largely down to people pleasing tendencies, and that they can make me a bit avoidant/indecisive, and ultimately make me not follow through with what I want.
I am getting better with it though… Like, there’s been times like within the last year or two where I’ve truly felt proud for sticking to my gut feeling, even when it’s hard on me. It’s just a matter of continually working on it, and also figuring out why I get so nervous, and therefore, can confront those issues and start healing from them. 🤔

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Do you think you’d go crazy if you were to be on here almost all the time? Why or why not?

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I would not be doing well if I still had anonymous questions on, and was on here even the amount I am now. I’ll say that. I actually was close to deleting my account after a brief time of having it on. I truly found it to be quite miserable. Basically blocked and reported people on a near daily basis. 🥴 Only reason I stayed is because I turned off anonymous questions, and found good people to follow.
But now? No I don’t think I’d mind being on here constantly… I mean, I’m on here frequently throughout the day as it is and I actually enjoy it now. It’s fun to ask/answer questions, and interact with people. ☺️
Do you think youd go crazy if you were to be on here almost all the time Why or
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You think parents teach the kids about sex the right way or the wrong way?

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I mean, it absolutely depends on the parents. Some do it right, some don’t, some do the best they can based on the education they got, etc. It’s hard to make a broad conclusion about it, given it’s likely different for everyone. And if you factor in people’s beliefs, ranging from cultural, to religious, etc, there’s gonna be even bigger differences. Since I can only speak about it personally, I will do that.
When it comes to my parents approach, it wasn’t bad by any means, but it surely wasn’t like… an open conversation. My mom used to tell me to ask questions about it if I was curious, and my dad didn’t really talk about it at all. 🤷🏼‍♀️
The younger versions of me, who wasn’t even aware of what asexuality was or that there was a term for it, was curious. But not about s*x itself. I was more curious why I didn’t care about it at all, and why just the mere thought of s*x in regards to myself, made me uncomfortable. 😅 I was told a lot that it’s normal not to feel anything at first, you just have to “meet the right person” or “hit a certain age” and all of a sudden, you’ll feel it. But I didn’t. And that is something I wish I was taught. That not wanting s*x isn’t abnormal, nor does it mean something is fundamentally wrong with me or my body (as asexuality has nothing to do with hormones or your body functioning, it’s attraction based).
I’m not a parent myself, but if I ever were to have kids, I’d want them to have a good s*x education, and know that they not only can ask me questions, but also, that they can have open conversation with me about it. There’s no shame, no guilt, no taboos around it, it’s a totally normal thing to be curious about (or not), talk about, etc. And also, teach them firm boundaries that they are in charge of what they do with their bodies, and not to let anyone guilt, or coerce them into it if it’s not what they want. And that’s what I believe is the right way to teach kids about s*x. ☺️

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Is spring kicking into high gear where you live? How's that making you feel? 🌻🌿

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It’s definitely getting to that point around here! It’s been pretty rainy, but the temperatures have honestly been fairly consistent! Like within a 10 degree margin usually. The trees have begun blooming, and there’s a lot of really beautiful flowers out and about. I’ve even seen bumblebees flying around in my backyard. 😁
I absolutely love the fact that it’s changing, and when it’s not raining, it’s sunny and blue skies. Makes me feel so motivated and just happy in general! I’m very much looking forward to getting outside more often, and hopefully having more energy to do things! ☺️
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How is your day going? 💖

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Today hasn’t been too interesting so far. Only thing that was a minor inconvenience is there was a power outage in my area for almost 2 hours this morning.
I am looking forward to tonight though, as I’m gonna go spend time with my grandma, probably get some food as well. Also, it’s a really pretty day outside, so that makes me happy. ☺️
How is your day going
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Are you more of a saver or a spender? 💰 😇

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I’m more of a saver… But I really like spending money though. I have to control myself and rationally think about things I’m buying, cause I’d likely just impulse buy things and not even blink if I didn’t stop myself and go “But, do you NEED this right now?” 🙈😬
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If you were thrown into a professional kitchen and were expected to cook, do you think you'd be able to keep up? 🔪🔥(Inspired by this year's student musical I was part of)

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Absolutely not! 😂 I’d be so overwhelmed and stressed out trying to keep up, and I think I’d have A LOT of angry people that are waiting for way too long.
Also, I’m not a good enough cook to make consistent, good quality food, especially on a time limit and when that’s not my sole focus. 😅 I sometimes struggle with multitasking and staying on track anyways, my brain just doesn’t process things that fast. I’d honestly be worried I’d undercook foods and make people sick or something. 😳
If you were thrown into a professional kitchen and were expected to cook do you
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How well do you think you understand yourself?

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I feel like I understand myself fairly well in certain ways, but there’s a good amount I’m still unsure of… I spent a lot of my time growing up, suppressing aspects of myself or my personality, and/or erasing them all together cause I didn’t think people liked it (I was a big time people pleaser), thought I was weird, embarrassing, annoying, etc. 🥴
So, while I’m not a blank slate anymore, and definitely know a more of who I am now than I ever did, I think I still have a long way to go. And I don’t particularly think that’s bad. We’re always learning new things, or realizing other aspects of ourselves that we may not have known were there.
Now, I think it’s fun to grow into myself more and more. I’ve gained confidence that way, and I’m getting more comfortable being myself in various situations I may not have been, even a few years ago. It’s been a very healthy change for me to allow myself to just be vulnerable sometimes, and let people see the so called “half-baked” parts of me that I’m still learning about. ☺️

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How good would you say you are at singing? 🤔😁

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I’m bad at singing. 😂 Like I’ve had my moments where I think I sound decent but when I’ve been recorded singing and such, I get my reality check… I have videos of me singing along to songs and… well let’s just say, it’s rather hard to listen to. I don’t sound anywhere near decent. 🙉😂
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Mm, let's say you've met an alien, how would your beliefs change? What would you choose to believe from the information given by the media? 🤯🌌

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I mean, I’ve basically always been of the belief that there is some other life form out there anyways, whether it’s aliens or something else. So my beliefs wouldn’t be changing all that much, I guess it would just be like “ah so I guess it was aliens after all.” 👽
And it would maybe make me a little less skeptical of some of the “ufo sightings” and such that’s on the news/people’s claims… Cause like, I’m well aware people can and do stage convincing looking videos and photoshop stuff, but some of the stories that have never been “debunked” could definitely seem more legitimate in my mind. And meeting an alien might make me stop and go “huh, well that makes sense now.” 🤔
But… I don’t know. There’s always gonna be skepticism on people’s claims no matter what. Like, even if you say you have proof, people at large, are still not gonna give you the benefit of the doubt that you really met an alien. So while it’d allow me to believe a little more, I’d probably not press the issue with it, nor would I want the attention of saying I met one. When it comes to that topic, I’m not at all interested in trying to prove myself or my beliefs to anyone. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Would you rather call yourself a landlubber 🦀 or a fish in the water? 🐟 How do you feel about being near / in the water? What about being underwater? 😶

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Can I say I’m a bit of both?
Like, here’s the thing… I’ll call myself a landlubber in the sense that I spend much of my time on land, and don’t tend to have many opportunities to be in water. BUT… on the other hand, any chance I do get to be in/around water, etc, I run to that. So, maybe I could say I’m a landlubber with fish in the water tendencies? Does that work? 😜😂
I love being in water, I love looking at it, taking pictures of it, you name it. I’m not the best at swimming/going under anymore as it’s been a long time since I’ve done it, but I think that would go away if I got back into it, and with some practice. But I can say that as a child, going underwater was my favorite thing to do. I loved to do flips. 😁
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You looking forward to summer? You have any plans? ☀️⛱

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I would say, largely, yes I’m looking forward to it! My biggest plans are really in May, honestly.
First, I’m going to both of my cousins college graduations in May, which will take up 2 weeks of the month, as each are separate trips to different states! Alongside that, as a Mother’s day gift, my mom and grandma and I are planning a day trip to see a broadway show. And I also may be seeing my dad/going on a day trip with him, as I haven’t gotten to see him in person for almost a year. So yeah, busy month. 😂
And then for the rest of summer, I need to start looking into some medical things and being proactive on that. I’m very much NOT looking forward to it, but that’s pretty much the only thing I’m dreading. Other than that, I mostly have things I am aspiring to do/hope to do. Here’s a few of them!
-Catching up with high school/college friends I haven’t hung out with in a while.
-Gaming
-Getting outside way more often, trying to be more active/keeping my mental health in check.
-Continuing to work on Cosmetology skills I’ve not kept up with/am rusty on.
-Looking back into Barbering school (hopefully).
-Working on creative projects I’ve been neglecting.

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