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What is the purpose of dating?

There is a world full of broken hearts out there, baby.
But before they broke, the was a reason for every love song. There was a reason that most every dance needs a partner. There is a reason why I drink my coffee black, and I still smile when I think of him.
Before every heart break, we fell in love, baby. And it happened during walks up mountains, evenings in airport lounges, afternoons in coffee shops. We date because maybe this time, we'll fall in love. And if we don't, then at least we had fun trying.
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Would you marry and/or date someone who didn't want kids?

Probably not at the same time - two people is a lot to juggle, yknow? And I'm not in a place to be that organised right now?
Okay nah, but probably not. Not with any sense of long termism, anyway. I want kids at some point, probably when I'm about 28, 30, that kinda zone. I want an actual child at some stage, not another man child.

I thought it could be a good and stimulating cooperation leading up to something original.... but if one of the authors cannot be self critical or receiving criticism without getting offensive and unprotecting the other..

You cannot be serious.

p.s. the association with her/his Mormon community is so overemphasized, it is probably a cover up for another tribe

Dude, I dont cARE. I spent two and a half years in a fucking physically and mentally abusive relationship. Stop forwarding me rubbish about psychopathy because I know it, okay? I've lived it, and I'm tired. It's not interesting or fascinating to me, its fucking exhausting.

Do you think this is really a possibilty? The simulation hypothesis or simulation theory proposes that all of reality, including the Earth and the universe, is in fact an artificial simulation, most likely a computer simulation.

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I'd be v surprised, but if it IS and anyone is monitoring - gimme another three dogs, two donkeys, a horse, goat, two otters and a swimming pool and I'll keep it quiet.
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Who are your favourite people? Tell me a little about them?

So one of them is small. Or, not small. She was and now she's grown so, logically, that makes her big. But to me she's small, and I'd defend her heart with my life. She's always going to be the kid with ice cream around her mouth, and eyes so huge and shiny that they could hold whole constellations. She's as tall as me, y'know? But she curls up on my lap when she's laughed so hard she's spent, and she's never going to be so big that I can't stand in front of her.
The other- she's huge. Miles high. And she's smaller than me, but she always seems to tower above my head. She's got eyes the colour of the Dorset sea, and just as stormy. She's got lean, ropey muscles. She's got a warmth that I crave everytime the weather turns. See, she's the one that I curl up next to, rest my head on her shoulder and my eyes close. I was a fitful sleeper as a baby, she says, but she rests her hand on my cheek and I think I'm forgiven.
He's got shoulders the width and breadth of a mountain range. He isn't the sea or a wildfire. He's no tornado or avalanche. His strength is that of the trees, the encroaching inevitability of the mountains. He is the lighter parts of everything I am, and the only other person who knows all of my stories. He came from the same places, after all.
There's one more that comes immediately to mind. There aren't words there, there never have been. Not yet, anyway. He asked me to stay and I wanted so desperately to say no, to say leave me wild. But I'm still here, and maybe that's all that needs to be said.

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Someone that could balance it and share that one get mentally ill not only by trauma or child-abuse but also by surroundings?

You're on pretty thin ice to start accusing others of being cold, annoying and full of themselves, dude.
Someone that could balance it and share that one get mentally ill not only by

Anorexia is a mental illness.

I think that, actually, my question here is more along the lines of what does it matter to you? Who are you? Why do you send me ten messages in a row? Why are you able to sit in judgement?
I am not a writer. What you see here is not my fiction. You accuse me of psychopathy, of being too dark. You say that I should write books so that others can better understand my broiling, disordered depths...
Can you just fuck off, actually? You're really rather an irritant.
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What you doing?

I am lying in the bath, trying to soak my poor lil knees in Epsom salts. I worked them really, really hard in a charity tournament today and they're so achy, haha! Meanwhile, the cat has made himself at home in the sink having knocked over my aloe vera plant. He's doing a great job of pretending it wasn't him, I'm very impressed so far.

Do you workout at the gym

I do a lot of things at the gym. I stand around and chat, lie on the floor and laugh, break Martin's treadmills on a semi-regular basis, tickle dogs, chat to babies, paint my nails...
But most of the time I'm lifting, yeah. I like feeling strong.

You have found a a good platform for telling about your experiences getting along, surviving with mental illness which are often "invisible" to others. It must be a relief and inspiring for people to be able to recognize themselves in your words and ways of you dealing with it.

Wait did you just dub me "mentally ill"
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How did you recover from anorexia?

Honestly, with enormous difficulty, haha. I was diagnosed at 14 and I'm still dealing with the ramifications almost a decade later. I'm not better - I still skip meals, I still only feel happy if I'm 1000kcal into a deficit. But I'm so much better.
For me, I got lucky in that the sports world is pretty clued up on it. I was given an international captaincy and my head coach threatened to strip me of it if I didn't "get my fucking act together." I was basically bullied out of it, year after year. My Mum didn't give up on me at any stage - she was hard as nails with me. Any time I cried she told me to stop acting like a toddler and to grow up. My trainer stripped me of my gym membership just last year and only agreed to give it back when I could get on the scales with a body fat % that was healthy.
It's like a can-can, dude. One step forwards, one backwards. I know nutrition pretty well because of a lifetime in sport, so what I'm trying to do is think my way around it. I'm watching macros, trying to work out which mix gives me most energy. I want to be better, yknow? That was the main thing. I wanted not to be terrified of food and to loathe my figure. Baby steps.

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When were you truly scared of smth? Tell in details

Naaaaah. The things that scare me have teeth. Have a picture of my resident idiot napping instead.
When were you truly scared of smth Tell in details
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Would you rather become a popular celebrity whom everyone hates or be a normal person whom everyone loves?

I think I'd rather become a golden retriever.
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