#dickhead

Ako som povedal pár dní dozadu F tha bitch Amber Heard.

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Kde je cancel culture teraz. Zbytočný sú už dosť teraz by boli aspoň na niečo.

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Ale aby to nebolo len o nej.

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Wesley Snipes je známy že sa správa pri natáčaní ako absolutný dickhead a chodil aj ožratý... Napriek tomu mal ešte role aj keď v menších filmoch.

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Nemyslím si že je nutné aby prišli o kariéru úplne všetci čo sa doma správali jak kokoti. Určite je mnoho hercov a celebrít ktoré majú toxické manželstvá že je to až nechutné len to nevyšlo na povrch.

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Ale myslím si že by bolo fajn nejak sa k tomu aj postaviť. Amber Heard je najodpudivejšia žena akú som kedy videl a jej face jej nepomáha. Johny Depp stratil angažmá a ona ignoruje petíciu kde sa vyzbieralo extrémne vela podpisou aby odišla z Aquamena. Vysmieva sa tomu a nikto jej nič nemôže. Zvláštne. Takto by feminizmus fungovať nemal však že.

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Je to sick shit. Že sa mu vysrala na postel a bodla ho nožom a on ešte príde nakoniec o kariéru je ako fakt humus.

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Sledujem jednu ženu a ona robí "advocate for a men". A povedala tam jednu krásnu vetu.

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"If man advocate men it sounds like fuckin chauvinism but if woman advocate women its power and unity?".

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And that shit is sooooooooooo true.

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Už ak žena sa rozhodne robiť "obhájcu mužov" pritom bola vo vzťahu kde ju muž mlátil týral a nakoniec od neho ušla aj s dieťaťom tak prosteee.. asi neni všetko allright ani na strane mužského postavenia v spoločnosti.

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Yeah, it's difficult to intervene w/ someone when you're concerned for their welfare in an intimate relationship. I'm hearing a lot of red flags here tho, in this narrow & anonymous recounting; if it is how you're describing, then I'd definitely be encouraging your bro strongly to get the fuck out of there. If his partner is relying on "anxiety" as an excuse for being possessive, selfish, rude, etc then that's a definite yikes from me.

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Which is current internet lingo for, Dump Him. Easier said than done, but hopefully your bro can take inspiration from my exes: when he inevitably has a massive freakout over being dumped & threatens to kill himself, just shrug & marry a rich guy. You don't owe it to someone, no matter how much of a mess they are, to remain in an intimate relationship with them, or ANY kind of relationship. You're always allowed to leave.

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Sure, this might warrant some side-eye, depending on the circumstances. Who could forget Newt Gingrich divorcing his cancer-stricken wife & taking up with someone much younger? From the sound of it tho, your bro's situation is much more clear-cut, & it's good for you to offer some perspective.

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IF shit is how you say it is. I got no real choice but to take you at your word.

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- exacerbated his issues. I understand he is going through a very tough time but I see my brother struggling to hold things together emotionally/financially while his partner makes callous remarks. I told my brother MH issues do not make these things excusable & wonder if I over-stepped the mark."

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Welp, bearing in mind w/ a few tweaks this could be about me, I basically have a zero-tolerance attitude towards this kind of "anxiety-induced assholery." This may even be because I've been treated w/ this kind of zero-tolerance attitude, when I was at my absolute lowest point, & almost died as a result, & the attitude from those responsible was...good, die then, you depressing fuck. So to me, this is just...How It Is.

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Should it be like that, tho? I've had time to reflect, & basically...no. They should have been more considerate, & their treatment of me made me harder to those in need of deeper kindness. My "assholery" tho was smoking a lot of weed, being broke because I smoked a lot of weed, self-hatred, & just general low mood. I certainly wasn't shit-talking for no reason; at worst I was just distant & kind of a miserable presence.

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I guess it's always gonna be up to your brother to decide what kind of crappy treatment he should tolerate, but I've never encountered a recognised anxiety disorder that excuses being "callous." Difficulty empathising, maybe, "poor social skills" like awkwardness or general "weirdness," being boring & annoying in conversation, yep yep, but "callous?" Selfish? Thoughtless? No, these aren't symptoms of any condition I know of.

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A lot of mental illness symptoms can be summarised lazily as "annoying to put up with," emotionally-draining in close proximity perhaps, but being just generally rude & inconsiderate? Even if so, what's the excuse? They get anxious if they can't just mouth off at ppl w/out any pushback? Yeah I don't buy that. If anyone's partner is being emotionally abusive - or "emotionally fucked-up consistently" if we want to avoid the A word - I'll tell them the same thing Britney told me: Dump Him (or her). You don't have to keep dating someone just because they're mentally unwell.

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But I feel like you probably know that, & want to know specifically if you "crossed a line" socially. Uh not really? Maybe your brother feels you should stay out of his business, & you should respect that if so, but if you mean is "mental illness" some kind of shield against being criticised for nasty behaviour...no.

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This is the same school of crap as trying to excuse racism as "economic anxiety." Yeah everyone has their reasons for being a rude asshole, m8. Almost no one just does it for its own sake; it doesn't matter. You're still not supposed to be a rude asshole. Using your mental health as an excuse just paints everyone suffering similar afflictions as being douchebags themselves.

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There's no such thing as Dickhead Disorder. Your bro's partner should find someone w/ more positive coping mechanisms. And a job.

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It encourages ppl to misbehave. People CAN act how they act anonymously, all the time. They choose not to, because they wisely don't want to deal with the consequences.

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Anonymity removes consequences. Whether they would've "wanted to anyway" misses the point by miles. Who cares? How could you possibly ever know w/ certainty anyway? Do ppl without guns still want to kill each other? Obviously. Can they do it without guns? No.

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Can you be a dickhead anonymously w/out anonymous? Not really. Technically, but like killing someone with a gun at a distance vs killing someone w/ your bare hands, you're not really DOING the same thing, even if the outcome is similar.

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People would misbehave all the time if they could. I would. It's right to do so. It's difficult to blame anonymous shitheads for letting off steam anonymously, given all these opportunities the internet furnishes them with to do so. I can hold them morally accountable for their decisions, sure, but circumstances will always play a part in how these things happen.

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The thing about misbehaviour is WHY. Getting rid of anonymity won't tell you that, but having it makes it much harder to diagnose.

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Ultimately tho, ppl have been faking or being discreet to get away w/ shit since forever. The internet makes it easier, & so we're lumped with a shittier brand of villains that perhaps was common in other eras, but it's basically the same issue.

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Nothing 24 hours in the stocks won't fix imo.

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It's not like I already follow critics from that region of the world, who have already written 1000s of words on the political & cultural climate of the (extremely diverse & numerous) societies in that (very large & vaguely-defined) geopolitical group.

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Nah, I'm gonna have a good listen to this anonymous guy who sounds exactly like an unedited draft of a Fox News segment, being read by Donald Trump. Or, you know, every insane right-wing nationalist I've had to block on Twitter in the last 3 years.

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But this act, the "I'm gonna say something mean & obviously false then try to take umbrage when I'm mocked, or ignored, or receive any reaction aside from praise & agreement" shtick, has been around even longer. I remember when it was something ppl did when their LiveJournal was caught up in some drama, or when they got banned from a webcomic forum, or an online RPing community.

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I saw this bullshit back when the ppl doing it were, literally, still wearing diapers. & since then they've grown up, learned to read & write, & developed sufficiently that they can be radicalised online, then they show up & do *the exact same dumb shit* that failsons were doing across the internet back when they were 3.

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All because some jowly dickhead millionaire 1000 miles away decided the US needed casus belli to attack an oil-rich, insufficiently-protected part of the world. For an economic advantage. Imagine going on the internet & seeing all the ppl & perspectives & shit, then going "I'm gonna become an anonymous footsoldier for US imperialism, because racism makes my dick hard."

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We don't need these ppl, you know? Trace their IPs, find out who they are, & send them to work camps. They'd do the same to us.

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