Bebe

If you been reading my askfm for a while you probably can guess what I’ll be writing lol
I cannot deal or tolerate with shitty cunts that don’t know how to treat their gfs. And I don’t wanna tell you to break up cause you won’t listen anyway but let’s start with why has he been treating u badly
Must be a reason right? Doesn’t sound like you did something wrong, just the relationship is getting rocky in general, probs boring or something
I’m telling you rn aint no bf that loves their gf enough and respects their gf enough will leave their gf to hang out with their mates knowing that their girl is sad. That is selfish, also showing that he doesn’t give a fuck
So you shouldn’t give a fuck too (easy to say lol), it’s good to try and put in every last effort you could so you don’t regret later. But at one point you gotta fkn have some self love and just let it go
You’re only as valuable as how much you value yourself. If you think you’re priceless and should be treated like a fkn princess? ain’t no man can take that from you. If you’re insecure and allow yourself to be treated that way, knowing that it shouldn’t be. You got no one to blame but yourself PERIODTT
Don’t sit there and feel all sad and sorry, go and be strong for yourself do what needs to be done. Wanna fix your relationship? Sit your bf tf down and talk, be straight up about everything, tell him you don’t like this that bla bla. Ask him what he is not happy about and you fix it too it has to be a 2 ways effort
If you don’t feel loved enough or getting the amount of love you want back then obviously there is something wrong. There are so many guys out there, never settle for less. But also make sure to work on yourself, be a bosssss ass bitch haha focus on yourself, men will come

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Ok so base on that your bf and your relationship is perfectly normal, so I think you are clearly the problem here ahahhahahah
Man I need more details of your life history to know why you are thinking or acting the way you are
You seem pretty confused yourself
Could it be that you haven’t experienced enough relationships and deep down thinking there is more?
Or is it that you’re not feeling the ‘true love’, he is ‘the one’ feeling with your current bf?
Or is it that you’re just not that into getting married like every other girl?
Usually when a guy has big ambitions and such they tend to lack a bit of romance cause they seem to be focused on the bigger things (speaking from experience with my current stupid bf hahah)
Anyway I need more info to analyse what’s wrong with chu
Maybe a bit of your dating life and such 🤣🤣🤣

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I think choosing ‘the one’ for me used to be love and how much you love one another and what you could do for them
Nowadays choosing a life time partner isn’t about just love but stability & consistency & understanding. For me I know most of the love will fade one day, all the sex will not be so great one day, all the looks will be gone one day. Everyone will change over time, no one will stay the same as how you met or when you married them.
No ones perfect and it’s about accepting their imperfections (reasonable of course) and know that even tho they are like that they are also good in many other ways.
You could leave this guy because of some things you think you can’t handle and then you meet another, there will be other problems you probs never had with the first guy.
The other side is never greener tbh You can’t have it all pretty much 😭🤣haha now I’m not saying settle for less (cheating or violence is never acceptable) but most other things you can still try to weerkkk it
Anyways for me the a life partner should make you feel secure in all senses
The future (plans for you both), the relationship (never have to question where you stand or what he’s up to), even better if it is financially secured hahah
And most importantly, they have to have a good heart, being a good person not only to you but to his family, your family and all friends
And it has to be in the roots you know what I mean like not just trying to be good when it’s comfortable for them. But naturally good even in the roots, because as you grow older life will hit you with bs you could never imagine and all you need is a partner you could always count on. Who even when things turn ugly, will not fuck you over. Someone you can truly bet your life on, that you can trust.
There’s a Vietnamese saying phụ nữ hơn nhau ở tấm chồng (I’m just trying to translate the meaning here but I’m fob so... just try to understand oke 😂) a women’s life/luck is really depending on who she marries
It’s really a make or break to your life so choose wisely. Ultimately you don’t have to follow the rule of society and marry anybody if you don’t feel the need to, sometimes just being in a relationship and staying exactly where you are is enough

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