#happiness

People have complicated the term "happiness" by making it seem extraordinary and rare. We wait for big events to happen before we allow ourselves to be happy, which raises our criteria for happiness. Without something significant, we tend to complain about life and its issues. Let's change that. Create your own happiness. How?
The first drop of rain hitting your face, and that tickle turning a stagnant expression into a genuine smile, is a path to a fresh and happy you. Why does a long drive change your mood? Why not stand under the rain? Just imagine how a fresh drop falls from the sky, knowing exactly where it needs to land, on you! Isn't that something extraordinary and fascinating?
That one cup of tea you made for yourself, and as you look out the window, whatever the view may be, you can absorb positivity from nature or from kids playing in the street. Feeding birds or animals can bring you unimaginable peace too.
There are countless ways to find happiness. You just need to discover them around you.

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I wholeheartedly agree with this quote.— in my opinion success and happiness are not something we can chase after directly. Rather, they arise naturally as a byproduct of our actions and dedication to something greater than ourselves - whether that be a cause, an idea, or simply the pursuit of personal growth and self-improvement. When we focus solely on achieving success or happiness for their own sake, we often find ourselves feeling empty or unfulfilled because there is no deeper purpose behind our efforts. But when we approach life with a sense of meaning and purpose - striving towards causes or goals that resonate with us on a fundamental level - then success and happiness become natural outcomes rather than elusive prizes to be won. I believe that true success comes from dedicating oneself to something greater than oneself. 🌻

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I was lonely since I had a hard time making friends and I kept to myself most of the time. There were people who tried to befriend me but our friendship wouldn’t last very long. When I was comfortable and around my family, I wasn’t as quiet unlike how quiet I was when I went to school in elementary. When I started middle school, I had problems of my own that made it harder for me to be happy but I did make a close friend for the first time and that was great. I also found temporary happiness when I worked hard to lose some weight at one point and as a sixth grader, I didn’t feel as lonely as I did in elementary school due to a friend. I wouldn’t say I was happy in general but there were some moments when I felt good about myself and went out of my comfort zone by speaking up in front of my classmates.

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We don't hang out. I have hardly gone anywhere with my friends.

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But I cling on to friendships, even broken ones, be it the situation or the people themselves who broke them, I have always clung on to hope, to see something positive in all that mess.

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My very first best friend had transferred to Chalwal when I was 7, I had no other friend in class, it was really hard for me to become friends with anyone after that, I actually spent a year or two without friends at school. So, for me, friendship matters more than anything else. 5 days ago, I met that one friend who was separated from me at 7, I actually wanted to let out my heart to her, like she was my first friend in school, but I couldn't say much, I genuinely expressed my happiness to see her and told her about how life was going on how the two of us had movef to two different cities for the sake of education and employment. And we talked about our class, I told her about all the classmates that I met after school in uni, at any social gathering and how many of them were related to my students in one way or another and how good it felt to meet teachers too, we talked so much but not like old times, not everything, and then again we separated too, because times have changed and so did responsibilities.

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Berat bgt jobdesk pasanganmu harus mengisi dua wadah perasaan dalam satu hubungan yg sedang berjalan, kurang2in ketergantungan seperti itu non.

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Jawaban buat saya pribadi ya bisa banget lah. Saya punya hobi, punya kesibukan, punya rasa cinta dan tanggung jawab buat keluarga kecil sendiri, punya momen untuk evaluasi diri secara berkala dan bersyukur atas segala hal yg telah terjadi. Baru ketika saya sudah merasa cukup dan tuntas dengan diri saya sendiri, saya bisa membagikan kebahagiaan2 ini kepada pasangan.

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Ga sanggup saya kalau punya pasangan yg sumber kebahagiaannya, cuma dari eksistensi saya.

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Like wth gurl go live your own life and dreams! You deserve to be happy too. You're missing out a lot of things if your eyes are solely focused on me and seeking happiness out of me. Im looking for a partner not a vampire leeching my own soul, you know.

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