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What if your crush has a crush on you??🌚🐸

One of the primary reasons why I don't date is that dating is all about having fun nowadays. Sure, that isn't bad but like that's all there is to it according to most people. Life is hard and you have to change according to the need of the time. I'm not talking about projecting my traumas onto the next person either. I don't. Those are my battles and I'm always trying but damn, I wanna grow together. And that means going through the bad as well as having fun together. Can you understand that? Can you just not be about fun all the time? Can you accept that difference isn't a bad thing and you have to respect each other's differences? Can you handle the fact that I'm a person and not only a means to an end when you need some fun escape from your bitter reality?

What's your stance on this?

Like a friend of mine plays this song when he's very upset. As soon as a specifc upsetting event occurs, I know that he's going to play that song tonight when he's alone, "(I could even write it on a paper that he is going to play that tonight)" but in reality, he could play any one of thousands of songs.
Ab jo mene piece of paper pe likha tha, uske wo song play karnay se pehle hi, wo hmara fate hai. "Because I know that person very well."
But he could just as easily have played any other "because he has a brain and he can think and decide." That is freewill.
+1 answer in: “The Subtle Relation Between free will and fate?”

Whats ur height??

emshah6’s Profile PhotoSyeda Arfa ShAh
"You say, 'I don't need anyone.'
But no matter how you dress it up and display it proudly to make it seem like this level of independence is where you always wanted to be at, in truth it's your wounded, scarred, broken heart behind a brick wall.
You are impenetrable. Nothing gets in. No hurt gets in. But no love gets in either.
To trust is to hope, to trust is to be vulnerable...
Fortresses and armor are for those in battle, or who believe the battle is coming.
The good news is trauma that is acknowledged is trauma that can be healed.
You are worthy."
Good things are a little hard to come by, you'll have to make an effort. But you are every bit worthy.

You will be the happiest human soon💫

You know, I used to think that I need somebody who witnesses my life's journey with me. If you combine all the parts it's so meticulously crafted. Like I would have amazing people but for a certain time or phase in my life. Sure, very few of them have stretched through time but none in an always-present sense. They all know me through that specific phase but nobody, except me, has witnessed it as a whole and I would feel like I wasn't completely understood. But now I'm coming around to the idea that it is okay because nobody can get you like you get yourself, you've got you! Once that is out if the way, The Key is to try to undersrand the people you care about and be a faithful companion in their life's journey. You have to give more than you take!
There will always be some parts of your journey that will only be witnessed by different people. But your story is and always will be unique to you. One in billions!

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What do you want the most right now!?

In your pursuit for the truth you don't stop for a second to think that knowing it might hurt you. You just want to know. Doesn't matter if you were pretty sure about it to be true, it'll still hurt like it's the first time you're ever hearing of it.
That muted sigh of the glass of expectation before it breaks!

How to raise your self-confidence?

The logic is beyond me. What's the most obvious threat to a woman today? Men. And what do we, men, ever feel threatened by in different ways? Other men!
One example, all of us guys know that we go out late at night sometimes, but we avoid going to any place that could be potentially dangerous. What could possibly be there that makes us think it might be dangerous to go there? Ofcourse men. When they say men are trash, they're not wrong🤷🏻‍♂️

Toh kya socha jaa raha hai phir ? 🌚❓❔

mirratchaudary7’s Profile PhotoM Î R R A T
Ye log apni us larki, jo next year inka naam tak bhul gyi hogi, that always keeps her backup safe in the form of a bestfriend who she knows is just waiting for a signal, k lye pta nahi kahan kahan se pese jama kar k gifts and stuff letay hen. Or ye larkiyan apni fvckboi jaan k birthday surprise k lye pta nahi kon konsay excuses bana rhi hoti hen ghar se nikalnay k lye, or pta nahi kitnay pese kharch karti hen. Wo sub sahi hai.
Lekin hum idhr keh den k hum "personal gratification" k lye apnay is shouq pe apna time or money lgatay hen to even their face becomes a question mark or pta nahi kahan se life advices nikal ati hen inkay pas.

Where do you envision yourself living in the future?

If you start to like/respect somebody here, do make sure that their شرافت doesn't come undressed during these odd hours. It's almost funny what kind of shiz you'll find, if you stay up really late or wake up really early, posted by seemingly good people who perhaps think nobody's around to watch anymore.
*Reality is often disappointing*

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One of the biggest piles of crap is "it's family. You gotta stick together no matter what. Family over everything. At the end of the day, all you have is family." How many people have been mentally/emotionally/physically abused just because it's family. Endure shit just because it's fkn family.

Does the person you want, want you?

You'd see some socially awkward or average looking people get together with sb but, to your surprise, they won't be loyal or they won't be satisfied or acting right. They should've been thankful that sb likes them but they won't be. If they find sth good, they'll be doing everything in their power to sabotage it.
They're so used to the relentless chase, the longing, that they can't digest the fact that sb came into their life and filled that hole. They can't stop running. All they've ever known is how to chase something. You can't build a home with that.

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