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*Shadow's eyes glow bright crimson and he flashes a fang at the patrons* "Y'all have a problem wit a gay couple, careful, y'all's answer might end badly for ya."

forgottenfifth’s Profile PhotoShadow
R: OH yeah tough guy? What if we do? What are you going to do about it? I've seen scarier $h#% under my carpet!
/Drunk Bun-a rabbit who is usually seen sitting atop a booth table, hops off and over to her? Companion, RedBird/
DB: Maybe lay off and leave them alone.. that voodoo freak is giving me bad vibes, look at his face!
R: Your going to let this freak scare you with his looks? I ain't afraid of him or his little "boyfriend"!

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Did you ever give up a bad habit ? That you are proud of ?

funny_hot’s Profile PhotoMegan
I gave up drinking! I used to only drink in company and at bars and party’s and such, but I have barely touched a drink now for more than two years.
It feels way better! I don’t miss the hangovers and being tired all the time at all lol. I also used to drink so often that my tolerance was high, it used to cost me a lot of money to get drunk 🥴

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❖Harley agreed to what the beast had spoken.❖
ℋ.ℚ:: ─ ❝All right... I'll kill... Ah! I mean! Find fresh meat for you to eat, ok? Don't leave here...❞
❖Harley left the creature in a corner of the messy room and took some belongings that she would handle to make a "hunt", so the blonde left the beast and Bruce at home. When closing the door, Harley is faced with a neighbor who had just arrived at his house drunk and strange those bloodstains on her body, Harley then thinks of a lie to quote at that bad time.❖
ℋ.ℚ:: ─ ❝Eerh... I had a "small" accident with a... a... Syrup? That! ....Red Syrup... Then I got dirty like that... Heh...❞

❖Harley quickly passed the man, and arriving in the dark streets, the blonde was looking for someone dangerous for her to kill, since that time of night, the worst were causing chaos in Gotham city. It didn't take long for the clown to find a member of a dangerous motorcycle gang and hit him with her baseball bat right in the back of the head, killing him instantly when he was distracted smoking a cigarette. Harley would take his body to feed Wendy.❖
ℋ.ℚ:: ─ ❝She said fresh meat, no...?❞

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What is something stupid you have seen a drunk person say or do?

Code_cg’s Profile PhotoCorey
A mate of mine, who isn’t particularly athletic, bet me he could beat in a race along two mile beach and back. After a bit of banter I convinced him to run his best time and we would both time it and then I would beat that time by two minutes.
After he took off running I packed up the bbq and espy and went home. God only knows how far he got before he found out 🤷🏻‍♂️

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What is going to be your last meal of 2021?

LunarHuntress’s Profile PhotoYentl
I really don't know if it's going to be some kind of cake as an addition to the coffee. Perhaps Old Polish bigos. There will be champagne at twelve o'clock at night for sure. When it comes to food, we have a really large selection. My girlfriend has the entire kitchen packed with meals. Guests come to us on New Year's Eve. We were supposed to go dancing to the ballroom. There was even a prepayment, but we gave up on it, because none of us will be sitting on New Year's Eve at a table wearing a Covid 19 mask. All the more, none of us will be dancing in surgical masks. We'd rather end the year at home without the idiotic face masks that don't work against viruses anyway. Most Poles and Russians believe that the best antiviral agent on New Year's Eve is alcohol, because alcohol is not harmful when drunk in moderation, even when consumed in large amounts. Do you understand this joke? Just please don't write me comments as I am using a Windows computer. I cannot read comments on my computer. If you want something, write to me in the questions.
Best wishes 🌹

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What is going to be your last meal of 2021

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DarknessComesFromWithin’s Profile PhotoAshryn

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⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Goro would respect the taste of her tranquility, but something soon caused him concern and it was the way she drank and all the drinks prostrated in her name. Even the bartender was stunned. Majima had a slight concern on the lady's face, inevitably agreeing to look at her a bit during the strange talking about.
He wasn't quite sure what the elf was talking about, perhaps blaming her being drunk, though... at the same time didn't feel that way. Maybe she was a person with some special condition?
The one-eyed man wasn't the type to judge, but Ashryn didn't leave a scene normal to the human sense.
His eye widened slightly when earned her gaze, swallowing something nervous.
⠀⠀⠀〝 ɪ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ᴍᴇᴀɴ ᴛᴏ ꜱᴏᴜɴᴅ ʀᴜᴅᴇ, ᴍɪꜱꜱ, ʙᴜᴛ... ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛʜɪɴᴋ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴅ ᴀ ʟᴏᴛ ᴏꜰ ᴅʀɪɴᴋɪɴ'? 〞 even had a hard time talking politely, looking away at the many glasses she drank, incredulous of her true species.
⠀⠀⠀〝ᴛᴏᴏ ᴍᴜᴄʜ ᴀʟᴄᴏʜᴏʟ ᴀɪɴ'ᴛ ᴠᴇʀʏ... ʜᴇᴀʟᴛʜʏ. 〞

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How do you balance Christmas with your family and your SO's family?

My boyfriend and I have a really hard time balancing both my family and his family during Christmas. It is almost always guaranteed that we will have to choose one or the other for certain events (ex. his family like to go to church on Christmas Eve, whereas my family likes to get drunk and rowdy and open stockings Christmas eve). How do you find a fair balance?
We just alternate every year. Last year was our first Christmas as a family, and we went to Arizona with my family because my grandma wanted to meet our son (he was 8 months old at the time). We did a gift exchange a couple days later with my in laws. This year, we are doing a gift exchange a couple days before Xmas with my parents because they're leaving for Arizona before Christmas, and then we'll be going to my in laws on Christmas for presents and dinner. Probably church too.
My family are in a different country so it's pretty easy. Although my husband's kids split the holidays between us and their mom. This year we've got Christmas Eve and Christmas morning as my in-laws always take Christmas Eve. The Christmas morning is an addition from last year where we didn't get Christmas Day at all (but had the next few days)
We switch off holidays between the families. So we did Thanksgiving with my family this year and we're doing Christmas with his. Last year it was the other way around. Nobody feels cheated because they know they'll get their turn next year. If they lived near each other, we would probably spend Christmas Eve and Christmas with one family, then visit the other family for a few days after the holiday. And then, again, switch which was which the next year.
We've kind of accidentally fallen into a tradition: we spend time with his family on Christmas Eve (that's when all the tiny cousins and grandbabies open their gifts from his parents, so we watch the little ones play), do breakfast and gifts with my family in the morning, and then go hang out with his family in the evening. We're really fortunate, though, in how our families already had traditions at different times of the day. Our problem has always been Thanksgiving, really. I feel like I have to go visit my grandmother, because she cooks dinner and I'm worried that the rest of the family doesn't show enough appreciation, and his family does Thanksgiving not long after that. Neither one of us is willing to try to take the other's family from them, so we squeeze in two meals and we're kind of rushing out the door all the time. Ah, well.
Since the kids in my family are grown and 2 have kids of their own, Christmas isn't really big with my family. Plus school schedules always made it so we could only see my boyfriend's parents on breaks so we've spent most of the Christmases with his family. Thanksgiving is a big holiday for my family and we've spent all but one of those with my family.

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What are you all eating / making for Christmas Eve Dinner? Do you go fancy, make pizza, just snack, restaurant?

Buckle up. The menu for this year, after changes, is as follows; Turkey, bone on prime rib, braised carrots, mashed Yukon tatoes, frog eye salad, cranberry relish(fresh not canned or cooked), fresh rolls, steamed broccoli, layered jello, fudge, hot chocolate, wassail, spiced cider, cherry pie, pumpkin roll, and Turkey gravy. This is all for dinner on the 24th. Breakfast for Christmas Day; baked ham, French toast, hot pear butter, bacon, sausage links, scrambled eggs, fried mashed tatoes, pan fried cabbage, sauteed onions, OJ, apple cider, miso broth, hot chocolate, and maybe cinnamon rolls. Our fancy dinner is Christmas Eve. This year, it's a prime rib roast with green peppercorn sauce, popovers, fennel and gruyere scalloped potatoes, Brussels sprouts, and a Danish riz alemande, rice and almond pudding in a whipped cream base served with fruit sauce. On Xmas day, we start with two kinds of panettone, two pastry strips (apple and raspberry), and whatever leftovers we have.
We always have a big 'drop by' party on Christmas eve - where people can drop by, socialize for a bit, grab some food, etc - without having to stay for a 'party'. Typically lots of people do stay quite late into the evening, though. For this party we always serve a big anti pasta plate, a chaffer full of meatballs in sauce, crusty bread, a few cold sides (salads, etc) and lots and lots of wine. There's also a table with cookies and deserts. We'll probably have between 35-50 people stop by. It's really easy and fun although I usually end up putting toys together drunk at 2 am.
Christmas eve we go to my in-laws and it is basically potluck. It's crowded so anything you can eat off a paper plate. She usually grills some pork tenderloins for sandwiches and will usually have one other meat. For Christmas day we are lucky to have it just us , as in me , husband, kids. Last year I started making my ham on Christmas eve day and getting it all sliced down so it is ready for ham and country gravy as part of breakfast. We'll also have a traditional ham dinner but since I have most everything ready , I can get started on the real reason I make ham and that is a huge pot of split pea soup to eat for days (and frozen to eat weeks later).
So for Christmas Eve my parents, who I'm visiting, and I visit my brother and his family. He recently sort of got into cooking, his wife doesn't cook at all, and his kids have very... Simple tastes. In the past we've tried to bring food like my mother and I make, generally simple but well seasoned and not lacking in flavor, but we've been relegated to desserts the last couple of years. I offered to make a pastry dessert but that was turned down (I'm itching to make another babka) so we're making brownies, and I expect to be served something dry and overcooked with sides from the prepared grocery section.
Christmas Eve in my family has always been and will always be my Mom's stuffed peppers. We eat and then sit around playing video games.

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1) Lawyer challenges a blonde to a game of inteliigence for money. He gave her 10 to 1 odds, she had to pay $5 if she didn't know the answer, him $50. She agreed. The lawyer went first: What is the distance between the earth and the sun? Without saying a word the blonde handed him $5. Then she

BiCarrie’s Profile PhotoSam (BFBO)
Hey I was thinking of my Christmas gift to you and it popped into my head that it had to be Shane McGowan and The Pogues with Fairytale of New York , if Bob Dylan deserved The Nobel Prize for Literature then our [well Irish actually] greatest living poet and lyricist deserves two Nobels,
McGowan is brilliant, a drunk a bad boy and a brilliant intellect [ may not be easy on the eye though lol, especially these days ] so hope after all your tough times that you and Dani and Seraya and my all time fave leftie Grandad have a fabulous Christmas ...btw some of the lyrics in Fairytale may not be suitable for Seraya's ears .............one or two of the lyrics are from a less progressive time , enjoy ..lots of love and it was a highlight of the past year meeting you on Ask xxx
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What is the worst time you have ever lost your temper?

We were all sitting around a friend's house, when one of them threw a kickball at my head, blindsiding me with a good whack. Instead of punching him like was expecting, I just calmly said "Drew, you're a loser. You've always been nothing, and you'll always be nothing. No one in the world cares one bit if you live or die." The thing is, I knew this was an idea that was in his head anyway, and purposely acted on it out of anger without thinking. The look on his face was awful. That was 15 years ago, and it still bugs him.
When I was drunk a girl I was with (and really liked) was unknowingly irritating me. So i turned to her and said something to the effect of I didn't care if we broke up and told her to fuck off. She walked away and I found her in the kitchen with tears in her eyes. I guess it wasn't that bad but damn I felt/feel bad about that.
I used to date this trashy girl who loved to mess with my head. One night she went to a party and I called her up to see how things were going, but she missed the call. She calls me back a few hours later, but I was busy, so I missed the call. Flash forward to it being close to 11:30 pm i finally get in touch with her, she's drunk and muttering things, Im getting irritated because I dont understand her and decide its better if we just talk later. Her friend decides it would be a wise idea to call me and leave me as many voice mails as she could, each with a different racial slur (most of them calling me terrorist). In some of them I can hear my ex laughing in the background. Her friend calls again and I pick up this time and I tell her "I wish you'd fucking kill yourself" and the girl freaks out, starts yelling and gives the phone to my ex... My ex decides that the proper course of action was to dump me for losing my temper at hearing her laugh at all the things being said about me and about being called these things. She then promptly decided to hook up with the other two girls involved with this... I think between the two of them, they had a whole set of teeth.
I get fuzzy headed when I lose my temper. It's not that I see red, It's that my mind goes empty, voices start to sound faint and distant. If I talk it sounds mumbled and doesn't really form words. Sometimes I swing, sometimes I get so upset people see it and just walk away. My SO is literally the only person who can calm me down, or talk to me at all when I get like that. She knows to just leave me alone, and I'll snap out of it. Some people like to keep pushing.... they push to far they understand it was the wrong idea. I don't sweat the small stuff, that's probably the best advice I've ever gotten from my mother. When It's gotten to that point, I've blacked out and gone mental.

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*When he follows her outside she has her wings spread, ready to take off, when she hears the door open again She glances over her shoulder* "Well this is probably a first huh."

onryotatarigami’s Profile PhotoNova
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⠀⠀⠀⠀Finally outside the bar, Majima was completely stunned to what his only eye perceived in sight. Those wings that emerged from that strange woman, and as they seemed so authentic...
Blinked a couple of times, unbeliever. He really blamed the drink, now believing that had drunk too fast and saw unusual things.
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀❝ᴛʜᴇ ʜᴇʟʟ──!!? ꜱ-ꜱʜɪᴛ─ ɪ'ᴍ ꜱᴏʀʀʏ, ᴍɪꜱꜱ, ɪ ᴛʜɪɴᴋ... ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴅʀɪɴᴋ ꜰᴇʟʟ ᴡᴏʀꜱᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍᴇ...❞

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When he follows her outside she has her wings spread ready to take off when she

Do you attract bad luck?

I always thought I had rotten luck, but some people have it even worse than I do. They have shitty parents who don't teach them how to be good adults. Most stupidity in life comes from your parents setting a bad example, and not pushing you hard enough to succeed.
If you think you have bad luck and are constantly complaining and depressed and just waiting for a miracle your life will be full of bad things whilst the life of someone that get over the shit that life throws at him and keeps being active and making good things happen will look like has better luck overall.
Someday someone wins, while someone losses. What goes around, comes around.
I like to think of it as proof that fate doesn't play favorites. Everyone gets their turn in the shit bowl.
I’ve always been unlucky, in all aspects of my life. Big things like love, money, and family, small things like waiting in line just for them to close right where it’s my turn. I’ve gotten used to it in some aspects and I don’t expect much anymore but it’s so frustrating!! I needed to get paperwork done today and waited for 3 hours and when it was finally my turn, the system malfunctioned. I don’t want this anymore and I don’t know if I’m cursed, if it’s some sort of envy, or it’s just bad energy. How can I get rid of this dark cloud following me? I try not to talk about anything anymore because all i get is criticism for going for the wrong type of guy, my housemate last night told me I made the wrong choices for letting people from my past back in...this from someone who just started dating a hookup from 4 years ago. I feel so tired of being told what I'm doing wrong, from people who do the same themselves or have no idea. Im tired of being told to look for a different type of guy when I'm not fucking looking, things just happen. I'm tired of being told to find new friends because the ones I have arent very good, by a person who gets drunk and tells me how stupid I am with my life, a person who spent a year going back to someone who didnt like her, who was perfectly happy discussing the downfalls of her choices in men and how she admired me for walking away when i was in a similar situation until she now has a bf of 1 day and is condemning my choice to keep seeing someone that doesnt want a relationship...
I feel like I dont belong anywhere and want to give up, but I truly cant. I feel like the universe considers me only worthy of one good thing at a time, I get nominated for a promotion at work so my cat is potentially going to die. I am feeling particularly good one day so my car breaks down. I'm always attracting people in relationships or that won't commit or are just a complete mess. It feels like this endless cycle of fuck you for wanting to have things. I've never been overly successful at a career (so I guess it's easier for me) and I guess I'm pretty much over it emotionally. What I mean is - making money is important, but I don't find fulfillment/validation through my career.

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Who do you respect the most?

Nobody famous cause I don't know them. I suppose I respect different people for different reasons, and try to be like them in the areas I respect. I may respect one person's adherence to complete honesty, and not respect their financial practices, while another person I may respect financially. I may respect someone's technical prowess at work, but not their attitude about women. All in all there are good things and bad things about everyone, so I take the things I do respect, and leave the rest.
Arnold Schwarzenegger. Also Chef Gordon Ramsay oddly enough. Versitile, masters of their craft, wildly successful in their own respect, all around amazing guys. I'm sure there's more but I'm drunk and that's all I can think of right now.
A person who knows themselves well. Someone who is consistent and clear about their intentions and thoughts. Someone who knows their limits and tries pushing them for growth. Someone who is open minded.
Stephen King. If you read On Writing the first half of the book is his autobiography as a writer. He goes over how he had two kids and how both he and his wife were working two jobs. Even with that he found time to work on his novels (namely Carrie). Also, when he discusses his alcoholism and drug addiction he never sugar coats it, and he writes about how when faced with the choice of drugs or his family he wasn't sure of what to choose. He's a writer who's accomplished more than 99% of writers could ever hope for, and through all of it he's never gotten egotistical or acted like he was above his fans or anything like that. He's just an normal guy with a great talent for writing, and he that's how he's always portrayed himself, and that's something I can really respect.
Eddie Izzard. He is an incredibly accomplished and hilarious stand-up comedian and a pretty good actor. I respect his bravery to perform and go out in "women's clothes" and his openness about being an Action Transvestite. I'm also super in awe of his inhuman ability to run obscene amounts of marathons (like earlier this year where he ran 27 marathons in 27 days for Sport Relief).
My coworkers. I'm working a really shitty job where most people don't last more than 6 months because they just come here for the money and want to get out as fast as possible. But some got stuck there, mostly because they have kids and have been working there too long to consider anything else (the job really doesn't bring anything to your resume, so it's just wasted years in terms of experience)

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1.+💋)(🍃🌻.. I was very worried about You!!❤️.. @Marcoooo121 my question is.. are you worried about someone @??.. 💜LoV3💙.. Estaba muy preocupada por Tí!!❤️.. @Marcoooo121 mi pregunta es.. estás preocupado por alguien @??..🌻🍃

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I was worried about you!!
After you received that anonymous text message on your askfm account, you stormed out of the house cursing at the top of your lungs and you refused to offer any explanation for your outrageous and erratic behavior. You returned several hours later drunk as a skunk. And to add insult to injury, after falling asleep next to me, you began talking in your sleep about some woman on askfm who you fell in love with only to discover that she is married and was only role playing with you. And yes, she never really loved you. It was all a sexual fantasy created by a middle aged woman in another country, whose husband no longer satisfied her insatiable libido. So she pretended to love you, while destroying our marriage and our family, so she could satisfy her sexual desires and fantasies.
And what?
Now you are begging me to forgive your 24x7 indiscretion on this social network? NEVER! Pack your bags and get out. I am tired of the deceptions, manipulations and unmitigated cheating, and I will no longer tolerate it from you or anyone else!

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What are your biggest regrets in life?

When I was in the Army I got accepted into the biomedical program at the University of Washington. My girlfriend at the time talked me into going back to Michigan for the summer, my plan was to head straight to Washington and get settled and she was going to join me after a month or so. Well I went to Michigan. Then she talked me into putting it off for a semester which I did. Then she dumped me for another guy. Well here I am in Michigan still, now going to a community college. Fucking women will ruin your life if you let them.
This is for the dads out there. When my kids were little I went through this weird selfish stage (the reason isn't important) which as a result I missed several of their birthday parties. Blew it off at the time but years later it started to really bother me. They usually went to one specific pizza / gaming place, and I can't drive past it now without feeling regret.
Not meeting someone I met on-line that could very well have changed my life. He's well known in his genre of books, but I was hesitant because of a couple of things that seem rather silly and petty now. Couple of months ago I had another opportunity to meet him face to face, I was embarrassed to approach his table because of our on-line relationship (it became sexual). I regret that I cannot be a fan on his FB page and interact with fellow fans, I'm so embarrassed by what we did.
Not changing my major to something else when I came home from college to a community college. tl;dr I had a nervous breakdown at a small Catholic college because it was cultish and I didn't fit it. I also was an education major and went with it in community college until I transferred to another college and saw designing lesson plans was not for me.
Six years ago I broke up with a long time girlfriend, she was coming out of a severe deppression due to the death of her parents in a car accident, we were fighting one night, I don't even remember why, I just remember it was a stupid meaningless fight. It was 2 am, she told me she never wanted to see me again, then grabbed her keys to her motorbike and left. She was drunk too, She drove out to the beach and drowned herself. I still know I could have and should have stopped her.
This is probably going to sound like a petty first-word problem, but I have huge regrets about not accepting my admission to the Naval Academy. I was already enlisted in the Marine Corps at the time and the thought of signing away 10 more years of my life scared me away at the last minute.
I ended up finishing my enlisted contract and going to an Ivy League college, so it's not like it had any negative effect on my life, but I still regret it a lot and get really jealous every time a new class starts their plebe year. By now I'm too old to attend, even if I wanted to.

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Is it ok to break down and cry whenever someone insults you?

ChrisSmolik4100’s Profile PhotoChris Smolik
No it is not.
Ask yourself this simple question: When someone insults you, whose problem is that...yours or theirs? I believe it to be their problem. Therefore, when you cry, you are making their problem your problem. A more effective strategy would be to tell them that they have a right to their opinion and then to walk away from them without showing any emotion.
When someone insults me I assume several things about that person i.e. (1) they are insecure, (2) they are projecting their anger, anxiety and depression onto me, (3) they are attempting to manipulate and control me, (4) and finally, they are seeking attention and they believe that abusing me will provide the attention they crave.
I refuse to tolerate such dysfunctional and hateful behavior and so I WILL NOT feed into it. Crying is not only feeding into their insecurity and abusive behavior, but it is giving them the weapon and ammunition required to destroy you! If you care about your own health and well being, you will walk away and end your relationship with that person. People who love you and care about you, would never intentionally insult you or do anything to cause you physical or emotional harm.
How can you prevent situations like this or at least minimize them? Establish personal boundaries. In other words, you must decide what types of behaviors you are willing to accept and those behaviors you refuse to accept. Once you have defined your upper and lower thresholds, then you must effectively implement them into your daily life. I am not saying it is easy, but it is essential if you want to manage the dysfunctional people in your life. Sometimes these boundaries involve time limits or distance or stating your rules either verbally or in writing.
Here are a few examples:
1. Smoking - I do not allow smoking in my house. If someone lights up, I kindly ask them to please smoke outside.
2. Vacations - before I allow anyone to vacation with me I must know and agree to their arrival date and their departure date.
3. Alcohol and drugs - my mother was an alcoholic. Whenever I took my mother out to a restaurant, I would remind her that she is allowed only one alcoholic beverage. Now some people reading this are probably thinking that I am nuts, right? Have you ever had to pick your mother off the floor because she passed out from being drunk? Or had to restrain your mother for sexually assaulting a married man because she was drunk? Or help your father wipe the vomit from her face before putting her safely into bed? So before you criticize me...try walking in my shoes.
4. Distance - I admit this is drastic but sometimes the only solution is to move away from all of the family dysfunction. I did, and the truth is that moving saved my life.
Summary: Learning to establish effective boundaries that define and differentiate acceptable behaviors from unacceptable behaviors is essential to your own personal health and well being. Good Luck

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What's the best thing about getting older in your opinion? 😸 👍 🙃

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I can be crazy and my children are laughing with me.😁 Joke we were laughing at together today 👇 :
Drunk boy is telling to girl 👉 Marry me, please, say Yes! ....
Girl 👉 no, because you will forget it when you will be sober!!
Boy 👉 I promise, I will never sober up!
😂😂😂

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something you don't understand ?

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How are good for nothing (and even disloyal) men destined to be with good women. I will never understand.
I just know one amazing couple. Just one! And I know another girl that’s happy *now (with her 2nd marriage)
- The guy she married the first time, was not just her cousin but they both liked eachother and the guy was even a hafiz-e-quran but you only get to see somebody’s true nature after the deal is done right? Turned out he was an alcoholic and the shit ones capable of doing while being drunk... he was abusive too.
- I know another darling lady, I spent most of my time in Karachi with her. She left for States, many many years back and completed her education there. Even started working for Google and was the only child of her parents. She didn’t wanted to get married either but this one guy that was dying to marry her (who knew her since school) and kept sending his proposal despite being rejected, she eventually said yes. Well well well he had ego problems! He couldn’t bare the fact that his wife earns more than him, he eventually became abusive too. That marriage also ended.
- I know another one, that girl is beautiful MashAllah, poor soul got married at the age of 22 everything seemed okay for a while only to later realise that her mother in law turned out to one of those mothers who develop a weird jealously after marrying their son.
Sounds like some Star Plus shit right? That’s what I used to think but it’s more common than a lot of people might like to admit. So her mother in law would make her do all the work, (how it’s a general practice to treat ones wife/daughter in law like a maid) and then that woman had the audacity to tell her son to keep her locked in a room and to have nothing to do with her. He eventually divorced her too.
- I know another story in which the mother in law developed hatred and jealousy for her daughter in law just because her son had started to visit his wife more often than he would come and visit his mother (from Australia) till date that woman treats her so bad. The poor girl is a dear friend of mine. They’re only happy when their abroad because the guy isn’t man enough to tell his mother to behave with his wife, when they’re here.
- I know another, she too was once a friend and we were class fellows for the longest time. So she liked this guy, (from our class as well) that lady changed herself from head to toe, according to his preference. She literally became another person. Him being a tharki than took interest and they got married last January but till date he’s tharki he’s not loyal thou they even have a son now.
Some of them husbands are so pathetic they won’t even wish their wives on their birthday or even bother moving a limb on their wedding anniversaries, won’t give pocket money, won’t take their wives to her parents’ They just don’t care. Being tested by your marriage has to be the worst kind of trail one can go through in this life. I’m saddened to the core honestly.

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