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goodnight my friend! sleep well

Thanks so much for your blessings. I have been quite busy these past few days and will be traveling from Monday to Thursday and so will not be on ask.fm during that time. Many blessings!
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do you live in rural south africa or a city

I live in the city. In Johannesburg.
(I must say goodnight here Josh. Thanks so much for the questions. I hope that we will be in touch again. Blessings!)
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do you think the problems south africa faces will ever be solved

I think countries like people are on a journey to prepare for the coming of Christ. There will always be new problems needing new solutions till a country ceases to be.
Will South Africa overcome the problem it now faces of growing racism and anger of blacks who were robbed by an Apartheid government and feel robbed now by a democratic government? I do not know.
I certainly think that there is no hope for a country, just as for an individual, which is not striving to please God. In this respect South Africa has a lot of hope as it is a nation which is quite strongly religious.
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that's pretty sad, do you think whites are still oppressing the blacks?

What I feel is happening is that the groups are starting to throw stones at each other and almost instantly barriers come up.
One of the real issues is how to redistribute the wealth which whites gained from Apartheid South Africa. What has been horrible to see is that a black elite has hijacked an attempt to do this and become very wealthy in the process.
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is it true there's a white genocide in south africa

No there is not a white genocide in South Africa. South Africa has a very difficult racial history due to Apartheid so there are very deep racial hurts which need to be healed.
I have noticed recently that with failures by the democratic government to rule well there has been an increasing tendency to blame whites for this. This is certainly a worrying trend. There are politicians here who call for whites to be killed though they presently do not hold that much support. It is worrying that they do have any support.
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Are you an Afrikaner?

No. My father is second generation from England and my mother is Afrikaans and can trace here ancestry back to immigrants in the 1600s.
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Catholic? Do you like little boys?

Yes I am Catholic. Yes I like little boys and little girls too. Babies of both sexes. Teenagers are great too and young adults, of both sexes too. Adults are great too and middle aged adults are cool and again of both sexes. People in advancing years are great too and again both male and female. But to be honest I have a special spot for grannies and grandpas of both sexes again but the most important age is that preparing for death and people of that age (and of both sexes) are my special like. And that age includes me and you and I like us both.
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do you not agree

Do I think that all women are manipulative? No. Do I think that all women are selfish? No. Do I think that all men are divided into alpha and beta with various subcategories? No.
The world view that you have seems to lack God completely. It feels to mw like a playground of the devil.

have you ever suffered with mental illness?

I have once been diagnosed as having a schizophrenic episode and was hospitalized, I have been on psychiatric medication in the past for over 2 years, I very commonly have suspicions that people are messing with me. I would still like to think that I do not have a mental illness and that my mind is sound and that all that I have experienced has been the work of outside forces spiritual or physical but, but, but it is becoming clearer to me that my mind is damaged in some way.
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Mental exercise might reduce the possibility of developing diseases such as Alzheimer's. Do you use any so-called "brain-training techniques"? If you do, what are they? If you do not, why?

I try to make use of games on the internet to help me train my brain though I am less than a baby in this. Here is the baby trail I have followed:
I am subscribed to Lumosity (https://www.lumosity.com) which I have been a member of for two years (thanks to a friend) and have used it for free for a further year or so. I really enjoyed the first year of my subscription but have found that their has not been as many new games as I would have hoped and it seems that the data being gained is not really being used to try push one's abilities.
I think "Tetris Battle 2P+" on Facebook is also a cool game to develop spatial agility and, development and flexibility in strategies as well as peripheral vision.
I have also developed some skills through a real-time strategy game "Pirates: Tides of Fortune" though a very simple game and lacking in challenges which develop strategy it seems to bear some resemblance to real life - it seems the way to get ahead is to stay out of trouble. When I played it more actively the real-time aspect was interesting in scheduling attacks and development of one's base. But it is a very limited game and there certainly far better ones out there.
Yikes, don't stone me I find Farmville 2 (https://www.zynga.com/games/farmville) to be fun for the community which is active and helpful and it pushes one to help others to get further in the game. In this way it develops one's social side on a real level which is fun and is also a means to combat Alzheimer's. The mental stimulation from a number of social ties I have heard helps to combat Alzheimer's.
A quiz site good for memory: http://www.sporcle.com/
A whole variety of very simple academic games: http://www.arcademics.com/ Okay they are for kids but hey a lot of variety and in my case a lot of skills that are very rusty and one can always push them to try get the best score.
Rhythm games: http://www.thelooploft.com/blogs/ryans-corner/38917697-can-you-keep-perfect-time-take-this-test-and-find-out and http://www.freddiethefrog.com/games/Freddie_the_Frog_and_the_Mysterious_Wahooooo/index.php
Another brain training site (can be played free too): https://www.neuronation.com/
All kinds of puzzle sites could be explored too.
Ask.fm is a stimulating site to try to engage people in conversation especially with the approach of trying to seek the truth together. It also develop's ones ability to express oneself in writing. Much improvement to made here by myself. A grammar game?
Just yesterday I was introduced to what looks like a really cool site to learn languages: https://www.duolingo.com/
Okay enough already I am sure.
There must be some sites out there which try to put together a complete combination of existing sites to try to develop a person fully.
Like the idea of taking games out into the world with Pokemon Go though I have not played it and Google Glass seems like it could take this to a new level.
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Do you think psychologists, therapists and psychiatrists who were once battling their own psychological issues or mental illnesses are more likely to have their clients' or patients' best interests at heart? Or does history of mental illness make a person less equipped to help their patients? Why?

I am a quite tired and so will try to answer the question briefly and stick to insights which might be of some help.
I think that people working in the mental health field who themselves have suffered mental illness are more likely to empathize with their patients than those who have not suffered mental illness. This empathy would lead the health professional to care more for his patient and so be more concerned for his best interests.
Does history of mental illness make a person less equipped to help their patients? In general I would say yes as the medical professional needs a sound mind in order to be able to see clearly to help the patient. If the medical profession has suffered mental illness this shows that the mind was at one time not sound and this weakness might prevent him from seeing clearly. I would also think there is a danger of the contact with mentally ill patients triggering mental illness in a medical professional who himself had suffered mental illness.
It seems to me that a person who has healed from mental illness might be able to play the role of friend to someone who is suffering mental illness. It also seems to me that mental illness tends to isolate the sufferer. Contact with someone who is now of sound mind but can empathize with the ill person could help break down this wall. This role could be formalized as a role in a team which included the existing health professions. Special care would have to be taken to check on the mental health of a person fulfilling this role.

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How would you interpret this quote: "Extreme acts of cruelty require a high level of empathy"?

I really don't think that this is true. A person can be very cruel while not feeling anything for their victim.
This might be true in a very extreme form as you suggest in your question in the sense that the perpetrator must feel how his victim would feel in order to devise extremely cruel plans. Perhaps the perpetrator would also have to have this empathy in order to take pleasure in the cruelty devised. I could understand an argument that the pleasure he took from the cruelty would be linked with how much he understood it.
This having been said we should not be trying to outdo each other in evil but rather putting our ability and our empathy to work to loving our neighbor.
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Are you aware of what microsleep is? How often do you experience it, if ever, and how does it interfere with your daily activities?

I have experienced this on occasion notably when driving a car but fortunately some time ago and more recently something which might fit this description when watching TV. There was one odd occasion when this might have happened in a packed dining room in quite a formal setting - I found that experience really odd. Apart from these instances I am not really aware of microsleeping myself.
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Everyone has the same 24 hours. Why are some people able to do so much more with it than others?

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I have read in the handbook of the Legion of Mary that if we just do what we can then God will help us and we will end up doing the impossible.
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Poor diets are said to be killing more people than just about anything else — including smoking, drinking and drug use. Does this latest research bother you? What’s your diet like? : )

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Yes, it is a terrible thing that people should be dying from not eating well.
I suppose we should be careful of blaming poor diets for killing people though. It could get a bit silly if we were to say a man were killed by his poor diet as he died at 90 while he could have lived to 94 had he eaten all his vegetables.
That said I need to eat more vegetables when cooking for myself. It is a great pity that vegetables are so pricey. Even though I have the money from my parents to buy them and they encourage me to do that I am still reluctant to buy them. I hope this is not mere stinginess but a kind of spirit of poverty. It has make me realize more the difficulty that the poor face.
When I am at home, as I have been quite a lot recently, then I eat very well.
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I came across an article that used a rather good analogy to explain the resurrection of cremated bodies: God is able to reconstruct a person by the record preserved in the spirit in man in the same way it’s possible to recreate a destroyed building with a blueprints of the original. I like that idea

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Okay, if this helpful to you great.
Personally I don't see the need for the record that you mention that is "preserved in the spirit of man" as God is omniscient. But again, if it is helpful to you great, I cannot see anything against the faith in it.
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That was a really interesting link, It said: ‘the bodies of the dead will be restored, in whatever way they were disposed of.’ Could that mean sort of like a rewinding of everything? Maybe when the universe stops expanding it will contract into the big crunch and resurrections will occur!?

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I think the line "the bodies of the dead will be restored, in whatever way they were disposed of." Means that no matter how the bodies were disposed of, the article gives the examples of buried in a grave, buried at sea or cremated, they will be raised again from the dead.
I am really not sure about the big crunch that you mention but even if that were to occur I am sure that our bodies will still be resurrected. :-)
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How often, if ever, do you resort to mischievous behavior just to see if you will "get away with it"? Why?

I can't think of any instances for some time where I have done this. I have at times taken risks but my motivation has been the good of my neighbor. Perhaps the closest I have come to this quite recently is taking some risks in heavy surf but even so my motive was not simply to see if I could get away with it. Seen in the best light I took the risk to take pleasure in God's creation and to push my boundaries. It involved overcoming my fear, pushing myself physically and applying skill and concentration to the task. On the negative side I did at times place myself at some risk, did not follow the wishes of the lifeguards and could possibly have put them at some risk too had things gone wrong.
Further back I have driven reckless on the rare occasion, one in particular comes to mind. I would not say that I was seeing if I would get away with it but rather out of anger caused by fear and desperation.

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How will God raise a cremated body Stephen?

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It is a good question Sophie. I have done a little reading to try make sure that I present you the official teaching of the Church. The essence of the response is that while difficult for us to conceive in is not beyond the power of God.
It is also argued that for the resurrected body to be the same body as the corpse it need not be composed of precisely what the corpse is composed of down to the last atom.
Perhaps this reference might help. It has four questions on the resurrection of the body of which the last (no. 840) contains your exact question. http://www.radioreplies.info/radio-replies-vol-3.php?t=92
I do not find my answer, nor the answer in the link I have given you, entirely satisfactory and ask that you would please ask further question if you feel the same.
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German scientists are suggesting they have found evidence for consciousness and awareness after death. http://worldnewsdailyreport.com/german-scientists-prove-there-is-life-after-death/ Do you believe that there is some sort of life after death?

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I have not taken the time to read the link but I certainly believe that a person is body and soul and that the soul which is spiritual is immortal. I also believe that God will later raise the body (no matter how decayed) to be reunited with the soul.
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According to the geneticist Dean Hamer, VMAT2 gene affects a person's religious or spiritual beliefs and people with a particular version of this gene are more inclined to feel "connected to the universe". Do you believe genes can affect our spiritual beliefs? Why?

I have not heard of Mr. Hamer's research but I do not think our genes predispose us to having spiritual beliefs. I do think there is some evidence of mental illness being hereditary but this hardly helps one to have true spiritual beliefs.
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Do you think altered state of consciousness can be intentionally achieved by means other than the use of psychotropic substances? Elaborate, please.

I have very little knowledge of this but certainly through prayer one can be completely transformed. There are many accounts of people levitating during prayer and countless other miraculous occurrences. I am not sure that these would fit with what you call an "altered state of consciousness."
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