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i think we are all guilty of doing that. when you say impurity do you mean p.o.r.n ?

On occasion it has been pornography.

Do you think you are passing the buck by asking God to held you instead of trying to heal yourself?

I certainly need to do more but this should not stop me from asking for God's help because he is one who gives us the strength to do all that we do down to each breath and heartbeat.

Do you think women are confusing? i do, they say one thing and then do another ugh! I am tempted to turn to men for love. (I am a guy btw)

It is a very difficult time it seems for relationships between men and women.
I think women are confusing to men as we are to them I am sure but this should not turn us away from them but we should rather try to understand them. I wonder if part of this confusion between men and women is not what we are continually told by the media which then becomes a reality.
Women are also very different. There are women who seem more like men and are not so emotionally complex. Perhaps you should try to develop a relationship with a woman like that.
I think it would be very good to develop friendships with men but you are looking for romantic love in the wrong place if you look there.
Prayers.
Key to all friendships is drawing close to God who made us all.

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Holy crap, I wonder if my mental health issues are due to MY sin. Do you think e are being punished by God? >.<

Sin carries with it punishment in itself as a consequence of sin.
I seem to have noticed a relationship between drug use and mental health issues and if there is a connection that is an example of sin having consequences.

Why should men be afraid of women? Men are much stronger and less emotional. It is women who should be scared of me :p

I have seen great reserves of determination and drive in women and sensed great hatred and spite too.

Do you get disability payments for health problems where you live?

No. I have not tried to claim disability nor have I thought of using it on job applications. I think that I will be able to do okay without this.

Do you think your mental health might improve if you got a job? I think that may be the case for me which is why I am asking.

That could well be the case. All the best for your situation. Prayers.

Where is the Bible does it say that Christ is the new Adam? Should everyone remain single??

No, everyone does not have to remain single. In Romans it speaks of Christ as the new Adam and Mary ans the new Eve.

I can relate to the ' laziness and lack of belief ' I have the same problem. I'm thinking of voluntary work, but thinking is as far as I have got so far. My prayers are with you brother!

Thanks so much. Voluntary work is really a great thing. I am fortunate to have a small architectural project for my parents which I am trying to do at the moment.

Why did St. Therese of Lisieux want you to remain single? (Who even is she?)

Not that she wanted to me to remain single but I went to her in great anguish and I felt that the solution to my anguish would be to enter a spiritual marriage with her.
She is a Catholic saint.

Stephen tbh my kink is pooping on my mates tummy during gheeey s*x, including mock strangulation :-)))))

Could you translate this?

You don't need people to pray for you in order to do good. You just need to get up right now, leave your home and find someone in need of help. then you will have done good. Use your initiative blud.

I did not understand the last part. I hope I am doing good by answering this question.

Why don't you strive for uniqueness and stop sinning rather than accepting you sin just cos some scripture in the bible tells you everyone sins!

I must have given you the wrong impression. I do not accept my sin. I am striving for holiness though I would not at all be unique in this.

In what ways do you sin? BQ, if you know you sin why don't you stop doing it?

Many of my sins are impurity. One of the problems is that I have developed bad habits, I justify my sin, I say to myself it is not that serious...

Do you wish your mental difficulties would go away or are you happy that you are the way you are as it is Gods wish?

I think a part of my mental difficulties are due to my sins and so that I hope will heal. I do want to embrace even what is a consequence of my sin and certainly any trials which God has sent me. I do pray that God would heal me.

Are you afraid of woman?

Yes, I think any man in his right mind ought to be. That isn't the right answer. I should love older women as my mother and younger women as my sister.

Why don't you want a relationship, when God clearly wants man to have a woman ?(Like Adam and Eve)

Christ is the new Adam and he has set us an example of virginity so the single life has a great exemplar.
There are or have been some hindrances to me getting married.
I wanted to become a priest or religious for quite some time - this seems to be removed as my mental issues seem to be a barrier, certainly to the religious life.
These mental issues and my not working were a barrier and are still a barrier but this might be changing.
I have also made a promise to St. Therese of Lisieux to remain single it was made under some external pressure and I am not certain how binding it is.

If man was made to work why don't you work?

I do work. Not in a very systematic way though. I have not been looking for a job as my mental issues have plagued me. This seems to be getting better. There is an element of laziness and lack of belief. Prayers would be appreciated.

Why do you need people to pray for you? Do you sin on a daily basis ?

Yes. I suppose that does not make me unique. "The Imitation of Christ" mentions that the holy man sins seven times a day but I am far away from that.

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